-
Many times, girls see things from a different perspective than boys. The aesthetic of girls is definitely different from that of boys.
The so-called handsomeness of girls is not necessarily in appearance, just like my classmates said, boys are very handsome as long as they are tall, and they are cool if they have a tone, and they have nothing to do with appearance.
However, I think that since there are girls who confess to you, your appearance should not be bad, after all, everyone likes beautiful things. If you feel that you are so ugly, it is probably because you are too demanding of yourself, or you have an inferiority complex.
Don't be hypocritical, take out your self-confidence, confident people are the most beautiful (handsome).
-
Are you still between 15 and 20 years old?
If so, then it is likely that your mind is at work, you can think about it in another way, since someone likes you, it means that you are a person with merits, don't feel annoyed by too many people who like you.
You must have your own position, adhere to a positive psychology, so that your psychological quality continues to improve, but also make yourself have a good development in all aspects, if it affects your journey and life, it will be troublesome, I believe you can handle it well.
If you have entered the society, it means that you are in the process of grinding, the society is a big school, there are many things that you have not experienced, if you can't change, then let yourself adapt slowly.
-
Dude is really interesting, handsome in the eyes of others is handsome, I watch the news. There are a few cases around the world that look at themselves ugly in the mirror as you said, and some even commit suicide. I forgot what it was called.
But buddy, you won't be that kind of disease, that's less than the chance of hitting five million, hehe, in fact, what you said is also very right, except for the narcissistic old mirror feeling beautiful. It's too much, buddy, don't be angry.
-
In fact: in ancient times, there were good and evil, beautiful and ugly, and most of the ugly things were disliked, disgusted, and kept away. Man is a very strange animal, who can never escape the world, expecting others to pay more attention to him and appreciate himself.
Nowadays, many girls look at their faces at first sight, and they all say that they start with their appearance, fall into talent, and finally character, drunk with affection, and love beauty: everyone has it, and the first thing to see a person is his appearance!
In my personal opinion, if you don't have a strong psychology in this society and look a little unsatisfactory, you may have a strong sense of inferiority, especially in the face of the girl you like, this inferiority complex is fatal and will make you lose a lot of things. There was such an incident some time ago, when a classmate went to the interview, he was named by the interviewer and said that his appearance was not good, think about it, how insulting this is to people, is appearance really very important? Do girls really care about their appearance?
Can't a boy find a partner if he's ugly? See what these people have to say?
But I still think that appearance is the first condition for girls to find a partner, maybe many girls think differently, but who doesn't want to find a better look? Some girls pay more attention to their appearance, and they even walk around when they see ugly boys, saying that they will never come into contact with ugly people. Although the girl's search for a partner now starts with her appearance, it is always unsatisfactory.
When I was in college, my economics teacher told us that there is a serious imbalance between men and women when they make friends, and you can see that some men are not handsome but the objects are very good-looking, while those who look like men have girlfriends who are basically unsatisfactory. Many girls pursue good looks, but they also have to know what they are doing. Some girls may not look good but they are psychologically strong and can find a very handsome object, those beautiful girls are generally unassuming, low-key, and those boys who don't look good will definitely be able to impress the heart, this is the principle of imbalance!
Appearance is only temporary, far-sighted girls are looking for those who have connotation and talented partners, what matters to men is really not appearance, but ability, the ability to create value. There are also many girls who say that they don't mind being handsome or not, as long as they are talented and capable. In the end, my sister advised all the beauties to keep their eyes open, to have foresight, to start with appearance, respect for talent, fit for character, long to be kind, and finally character!
Love is always the effort of two people, not one person's compromise, beauty and ugliness are really not that important!
-
Then girls all over the world like you, don't they?