The best way to let go of someone is to start a new relationship, what do you think?

I think it's a thirst quenching thing, and unless the person is really the right person, it will make your feelings worse. ‍‍

I think no matter whether this person is good or bad, ugly or beautiful, cute or hateful, no matter who it is, it will never be forgotten. It's not that if you forget, it's okay if you don't forget. Because this is an experience of my own life.

It's like the process of work, life. All kinds of things, all kinds of people, will not forget, but they can't remember it for a while, and then they will remember it again. ‍‍

The beginning of every relationship needs a process, there are good memories, some people are scattered and scattered, but some are never able to let go, all say that loving someone is painful, in fact, it is also right, when you choose to like each other and fall in love with each other, you will find that it is really uncomfortable, when the other party leaves you are still very uncomfortable, sometimes you want to let go of a person, but you will find that it is really difficult and difficult, whenever you want to let go, you will find that those memories will come to your heart, really uncomfortable. Therefore, people can't let go, they can only put it somewhere in their hearts. ‍‍

Will the person who walks into the heart forget, even if there is a new one, the feelings will not be forgotten, in this life, his shadow will always follow you, and from time to time his shadow will appear in your mind. Knowing a person is planted in a few seconds, and forgetting a person may be difficult to forget in a lifetime, where he will follow you when you go there. ‍‍

I think there's no doubt about it. The beginning of a new relationship really fills the gap of love in the depths of the heart, and the unforgettable love is not so easy to let go! So there must be another person to take its place. ‍‍

I think the best way to let go of a person is not to find a new relationship, a little hungry as if you don't choose to eat, you break up and talk about letting go of it means that you have a concern in your heart, sometimes you want to forget a person but remember more and more, but there are deeper troubles, I think the real let go, is to bury this person in the heart, let the rain and wind not ripple. ‍‍

The best way to let go of a person is not to start a new relationship, a good relationship is not easy to come by, how can it be said that you can let go of it, every love is your own memory, there is a good memory, and these are true, can you say that let go of it and really let go and stop thinking about it? I don't think the answer is that it takes a process to let go of a person, everyone has different methods, different times, and different feelings, no one can say for sure, and it is the most difficult to figure out, not everyone can do it so easy to let go of a person. ‍‍

As the saying goes, the best way to forget someone is to start a relationship all over again. In fact, I think, whether it is life or feelings, it is full of too many accidents, no one's appearance and existence is inevitable, treat it as an accident, you will let go of a lot, just like we have heard a story before, a man wants to jump into the sea because of lovelorn, and met an old monk who thought that the monk said that your past life and her past life were just that you saved her life, so you can only come here in this life, in fact, the fate of this thing still does exist, when we tell ourselves that people will win the day, You can only be stubborn, there is no good result, let go of a person is completely let go in the bottom of your heart, whenever you see a street corner or something will think of the picture with her, but when you feel meaningless to your life, it is completely let go. ‍‍

Have you decided to give up on the relationship?

There is such a law in psychology that you must know how to keep your distance when loving someone, because the closer you get, the easier it is to lose.

In the world of feelings, maybe everyone will love but can't, sometimes, feelings are like sand in your hands, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain.

The fate of two people is predestined, and they can't be forced.

Zhang Xiaoxian said that if you want to forget a relationship, there is always only one way: time and new love. If time and a new love can't make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough.

True forgetting doesn't take effort. One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all.

Question: So how do you forget?

First, start a new life. What does it mean to start a new life? For example, establish some new living habits, open up some new life experiences, learn new knowledge, and so on. It's a great way to get something new to catch your attention.

Second, it's important to make some new friends, that is, some potential people to date.

But I'm still very young!

That's right!! Now the grades have dropped by ......

Answer: Hello, at this age, we must first be clear about what is our most important goal at the moment? Study, you can fall in love, you can break up, and then, cry for a day, be sad for a whole day, and then it's time to return to a normal life.

Just don't let your emotions affect your other lives, what's the use of being sad? Will it get better? Will anyone stop and wait for you because you're upset? No, each of us is independent in this society, and we have to take care of ourselves first.

As for not being able to forget someone, let's think about it carefully, is our comeback really worth it, aren't we really bothering each other? We can try to get into something new, like learning the next sport, reading a book, learning an instrument.

It's all okay.

How to let go of a relationship? How to put down a person?

It is necessary to make it clear that the relationship cannot be forced, you can't embarrass yourself or others, since a relationship has become the past, you must tell yourself that you can no longer let this past relationship and the people you used to affect your current self, and you must focus on your own life.

The easiest way to let go of a person and a relationship is to let time come, many times we are good at trapping ourselves in the illusion of deep love, not that we can't get out, but that we are willing to fall into it and torture ourselves. If you always think that the other party is your world, in fact, what you really can't forget is the fantasy in your own mind, what you may need is not to let go of the emotion and let go of that person, but to let go of yourself, don't force yourself to let go, focus your life on your own life and work, find yourself some fun in your free time, and finally you will find that you can live well without ta, in the unwilling relationship, only time is the best medicine, don't worry, everything will be diluted by time.

Starting a new relationship is the way to heal old emotional wounds faster than time. The reason why people can't get rid of their old love is that they can't face the reality of losing it. They know they've lost it, but they still don't want to give it up.

Once you start a new relationship, the emotional pleasure that comes with the new relationship can greatly distract you from your previous mental stubbornness and get you out of it quickly. Once people get out of the original situation and look back, they will find that the previous emotions are like this. How do you start a new relationship when you can't let go of someone.

The answer to this question should be simple. That is, if you can't let go of someone, you can't start a new relationship! To start a new relationship, you must first let go of this person!

Because if you don't let go of this person, your heart will be more complete than his. If you don't fit into other people, you tend to fall into fantasies. Whether or not to let go of the person and whether to start a new relationship are actually two sides of the same coin.

If you can let go of this person, everything will make him disappear, regardless of whether he loved you or hated you in the past.

From now on, make new friends again, let new people into your eyes, create your life, maybe you will unconsciously realize that he was not so good in the past and can let go. It's useless to distract me, how to catch up is lingering. I always habitually want to add and remove WeChat signals, but I still don't have the courage to send them at critical moments.

This memorable mobile number, dialed countless times, always gives up. As everyone knows, people are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless.

SummaryWhat did you learn in this relationship? Do you have a problem? Can it be changed?

Rather than seeing a breakup as a failure, you should see it as a growth, and you should keep asking yourself, what can you get out of it? What can you learn? If you keep feeling that you are miserable, then you will never be able to get out.

You can only come out if you realize that you are growing.

The one who really lets go is the one who no longer hates the other person and blames himself even if the memory of the past is still there; But when you are no longer confident enough to have an intimate relationship with them. You'll go through a rough time, but eventually calm down. That's how our psyche works.

The same goes for the pain of a breakup. Eventually, we recover, grow, and refine ourselves. It is often said that time is the best antidote, but the effects and effects of doing different things at the same time can be very different.

If we really let him down, we will think of him unexpectedly, but when we think of him, there will be waves again. When we love someone, we get excited when we hear from them because we pay attention to each other's emotions. But when you do kill one person one day, you will find that the other person becomes the most familiar stranger.

When you feel yourself, sometimes you wonder how you fell in love with someone like that. You may not love him, but you will feel particularly naïve when you are younger.

Stay together, or drop it, drop it. When you actually kill someone, you leave that person. I'm not curious about him anymore.

Is it true to go from one person to another? No, it's just that one day you'll see those things and you won't have any emotions in your heart. This is the real way to put it down, there is no need to do anything.

Pulling blacks means you're still nostalgic. When you can retreat, it's a temporary oblivion in the process of letting go. Unless you think about it, you'll think you've put it down.

But the next person has to pluck out the blackhead and wipe it off, and the symptoms are not the root cause. You block to eliminate a person, only to make a choice out of anger and impulsiveness, but you simply can't take it to heart. You extract all of his black contact information, but you're still thinking about him in your heart.

This is a symptom, not an underlying cause. Disappointing a person is not a heartfelt worry, but a real disappointment. When you still unconsciously want something to happen.

In the relationship, people can't love it, let themselves fall into endless distress and can't extricate themselves, some people say that they don't forget, they can't forget.

Is there really an unforgettable relationship in the world? It can only be said in one sentence".There is no person who can't let go, there is no relationship that can't be broken, it's just that you are not ruthless enough.

So, how do you let go of a relationship and let go of a person? You have to know how to push yourself hard, and try to use time and new feelings to heal the wounds in your heart.

Zhang Ailing once said: "The best way to forget a person is time and new love".

Give yourself more time

A sincere relationship, not to say that you can forget it, everything must have a transition period, don't be too obsessed with forgetting, the more you want to forget, the more you remember clearly.

You have to know how to hide that sad relationship in the bottom of your heart, don't always turn it out and remember, the past is the past, there is nothing to remember.

You can give yourself more time, and let the "scrubber" like time dilute that relationship over and over again.

Start a new relationship

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. "People have to learn to face reality, if they don't love or have feelings, let go and stop entanglement.

You are in pain yourself, but others already have a new relationship, why not let yourself go and let yourself find a new relationship.

We must know how to comfort ourselves, face the reality bravely, let ourselves come out of the sadness as soon as possible, find a good lover for ourselves, and treat each other sincerely.

Be ruthless and force yourself to let go

There was once a netizen who told her boyfriend that she still loves her ex, and she always mentions it whenever she is sad and sad, and she has been slowly enduring her boyfriend's behavior for more than two years, she feels very tired and just wants to break up.

There is no doubt that the boyfriend is still not hurt deep enough, he still doesn't understand the reality, and he loses a girl who is really good to him.

Some people always can't recognize the reality, and always think that what you can't get is good, however, when you go back to recover it, you find that everything is your own fantasy.

Let your life always waver in your feelings, and end up with nothing.