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I've also come across it before, and I've summarized some methods by myself that you can try:
1. Comply with the agreement and do not take the initiative to introduce the topic, so that once you are cold, you can find an excuse to leave;
2. When discussing problems, you don't have to look at other people's eyes at all, just make the appearance that you are thinking, of course, words and deeds should also show that you are thinking;
3. If you are listening to the other party, then you can look at the other person's nose or mouth (don't look at the mouth for too long), and visually you will feel that you are looking at the eyes;
4. If you are interested in the topic of discussion, you can express it with the help of your body, so that you can be more proactive;
5. In fact, there is no need to stare at other people's eyes or even faces, when I am communicating with people now, I rarely stare at other people's facial organs, as long as you are listening and thinking, the effect from the language is better than the eyes! Another benefit of this is that if you look into the other person's eyes once in a while and nod appropriately, the other person will be very encouraged! (Often, when I look in the eyes of the other person occasionally in a conversation, the other person repeats what I said before, and I am more emotionally excited).
In fact, the root cause of these problems lies in the mind, the mind is strong, believe in yourself, and any superficial problem can be solved!
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With age.
Your experience is growing.
Maybe it's after you see through someone's mask.
Suddenly, I felt that everyone was living in a world of masks, very tired, and couldn't face them easily, so I felt that children's eyes were very clear, and it was also very rare.
However, I personally think that it is generally not to look into other people's eyes and speak.
It's looking at the triangle between each other's eyes and nose.
Otherwise, you won't be able to think.
Huh: So don't think about it.
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I guess there's something going on in my heart.
A life without desires!
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No matter who the other person is, you must look at each other, I guess it's your cowardice, change it.
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Do you think they can see what's going on in your heart? Hehe.
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It's really a bit bad to talk without looking into other people's eyes, and I personally teach you a method, when you don't want to look at other people's eyes when you speak, just look at his eyebrows, so that visually you feel that you are still looking at his eyes and talking
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Interpersonal interactions make you strained, and you feel a little inferior The reason why I like children's eyes is because then you can find security Hee hee like me.
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When we talk to someone, we pay attention to them with our eyes, which is a basic social etiquette. Looking at each other when you speak, on the one hand, it is conducive to better communication between the two people, and on the other hand, it can also show that you are listening carefully to each other. What does it mean that a person doesn't look at you when he speaks?
Why do people talk to you and dare not look you in the eye? Let's take a look at the reasons behind this.
When a person talks to you without looking into your eyes, there are basically only a few emotions that can be used to express the reason. Either he hates you, or he is weak-hearted, or he is too shy to look at you.
When you speak, you deliberately avoid your gaze and don't look at the other person, and it is impossible to say that he doesn't have any other thoughts about you in his heart. Maybe he doesn't dare to look at you because he hates you, so he doesn't look at you. This feeling must have been experienced by everyone, sometimes I have to talk to someone I don't like, I don't even want to look at him, I will become very impatient, and the tone of my voice is also very cold, without any emotional disturbance.
A man doesn't dare to open his eyes to you when he talks to you, and it may be because he has a weak heart. If a man does something that is sorry for the woman, or if he feels guilty, his eyes will reveal his inner retreat. He doesn't dare to look at you because when he meets your eyes, he doesn't have the courage to accept your scrutiny, and he is afraid of being seen through by you.
After all, he didn't know the bottom of his heart, so he had to look away.
A man deliberately doesn't look at you when he talks to you, and it may be because he is interested in you, and he will be nervous and shy when talking to you, so his eyes will be averted to you intentionally or unintentionally.
Human eyes do not lie, and their eyes can reveal some of the truest thoughts in a person's heart. If a person doesn't dare to look at you, then he is either weak-hearted, shy, or doesn't like you, so you might as well pay more attention in life to see what kind of situation he belongs to if he doesn't dare to look at your eyes.
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Human nature is complex, it is difficult to judge the psychology of a character based on a behavior, speaking without looking at each other's eyes may be the person's habit, or this person's personality is more cowardly and not very good at socializing.
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If you don't dare to look at each other's eyes when you speak, you may not be confident or because you are nervous, so you don't look at each other's eyes.
It's not a physical phenomenon.
It's caused by the human eye focusing on one point. >>>More
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In fact, everyone will have such an experience, but if you think like this, others will not know, if you say Geng, others will understand, know that they beat you and snubbed, they will come to comfort you, even if you don't come to comfort, you can't take it to heart, because they may be thinking about you, why don't you go to play with him, don't you like me, in fact, this can be solved, you want others to care, it's better to care about others, so that your friends will like you more, if you don't want to play with friends, You can find something to do, and I support you to learn and recharge your batteries, so that you will understand that some things are normal, and more importantly, you will learn how to solve these problems, and the more you know, the more you will feel that it doesn't matter. Good luck with the new Chicken Soup for the Soul group 66800082. Heal your soul in it.