I loved her so much that we broke up. How can we forget her?

I always feel like you are like me at that time. No matter how ruthless he is, he will still miss him. Even if you are soft-hearted enough to forgive him for his desperation, but if you are soft-hearted towards him, you will hurt yourself the most, because you will never be able to let go, so that you can't see other people around you who are good to you.

There is a saying that is true, the best way to forget a person is time, and show up with a man who loves you more. At first, I didn't believe it, and even thought that I couldn't fall in love with anyone else except him, but this was a mistake, and no one could say what would happen later, if you haven't forgotten it, it can only mean that the time is not long enough, and the man is not good enough The next person appears in your life, you will forget those pains. Therefore, forgetting is a process that must be undertaken.

And if you continue to think about it, it's just bitter for yourself. It's time to be kind to yourself when you all break up, because no one cares about you as much as they used to do, and misses you anymore. Satisfied.

Are you sure you want to forget Forgetting is not something that can be done by just talking about it Do you have to choose to forget when you break up Some memories can never be erased Now that you have broken up, it's good to get together and break up Do you want her to meet her on the street one day Do you want her to introduce her to her friends with a smile and say that you are her ex-boyfriend and a very nice person Or do you want her to pass by you without raising her head? We're not memory cards Some things don't just be deleted Try to learn to accept that the breakup may prove that she is not your cup of tea The coming day is long Maybe the person who really belongs to you is waiting for you not far away I believe You need time to let go of this relationship So let time give you a satisfactory answer. Hope my answer can help you!

There is no need to forget, there are some things that do not have to be deliberately forgotten, but they must be let go.

Try not to think about her, at first I can't remember, and then I will slowly forget about virtue.

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Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Frankly pass, negotiate and accept;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!

There is such a thing in the world called pain and memory.

People go through a lot of unpleasant and sad times.

There will be a lot of memories left in my heart.

People are more eager to sell such a drug in the world.

Eating can make people forget the past and start over.

Maybe humans are too stupid.

This kind of thinking can only exist in the heart.

And how can you get out of the shadow of the past?

Maybe there's only time.

Can time really ** trauma to the soul? Can it really erase sad memories?

Maybe not.

Actually, it's more important.

It's up to you.

Do you want to open it yourself.

Do you put it down yourself.

After thinking about it.

Put down all before.

Can you? First love is the first step in life to grow up.

It seems tough.

If you did.

Maybe it really worked.

Walked out. Tell yourself.

Even if it's for yourself.

Be sure to get out there.

Get out of this circle.

Maybe we're going to do it.

Only cherish the present.

Cherish all that you have now.

Cherish everything around you.

Don't wait until you lose to know what you regret.

The path you have walked.

Never look back. Give you a reference, it's up to you whether it works or not. )

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

Just the most familiar strangers.

If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!! I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote; I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life, so I'm better.

If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......Come out early and give yourself a little more chance! You'll reap another piece of ......

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you have to forget to take the rest and escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do to destroy it?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

I've tried, and I've succeeded. I don't know if it's feasible for you, right? But you can give it a try.