How do we go down or should we break up

Updated on Financial 2024-02-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, men are sometimes fragile in their hearts, don't think that men are strong. Those are all endured, and when I am tired, I hope that someone can talk to and comfort me. Men will get better quickly, but men also have tempers, although not for everyone.

    Generally, speech is more direct and does not go through the brain. Sometimes I don't remember what I said (of course, this is when I am stressed).

    When two people are together, they should be more considerate of each other and think from each other's point of view. How can the two of them not have conflicts when they are together, but it can be stopped, and after that, they will never come back. The mistake of a sentence sometimes needs to be made up for in a lifetime, so don't give up easily, because if you miss it, you really can't come back.

    People only have one time in this life, cherish everything in front of you!

    I wish you all happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you are still young and dependent on each other, and if you can't contact him, you will be in a hurry, which means that he has a lot of weight in your mind, and I always think that two people can come together because they are in love with each other, sweet and happy. Of course, it is inevitable to stumble in daily life, which is nothing, the key is to know how to be considerate and caring, no matter how anxious you are, you can't get angry, and you can't scold people. And don't reprimand him blindly, he is not your son, you are equal.

    Your boyfriend is also a bit excessive, don't quarrel with women, don't scold women, let alone scold women with dirty words, you worry about him so much, care about him so much, you should be petty, why does he lose his temper? I have always believed and acted like this: women are used to care and love, not to beat and scold and make noise.

    Why not spend time with each other sweetly? I don't want to say whether to break up or not, you have to think about it yourself, is he worthy of your life, is he suitable for you? Think about it, don't be rash, change your little temper, and be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.

    I hope it will be useful to you, and may a lover eventually become a family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To be honest, I hate scolding people very much, both men and women, and men scolding women make me unbearable It's just that how you solve this matter The final decision is still in your hands My boyfriend has a good temper and has always just silently endured my bad temper He cares about me and asks my opinion on many things The two of them discuss it Even if he loves to play games, he will take care of me Really good to me It's just that he is particularly reluctant to do housework Laundry and cleaning up the house are all done by me Many times I also feel tired This is also the most unbearable for me So I often get angry with him because of this, but I still choose to be with him, not only because I am reluctant to have a relationship for several years, but also because he is good to me, and I say this in the hope that you will think about whether you can tolerate his shortcomings, and if his strengths are far greater than his shortcomings, then he is worth cherishing and deserving of your patience with him, but if he is not so good, and often scolds women, then you should think about it, and as for his goodness and badness, it is up to you to measure it, and I hope it can help you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What you lack is mutual understanding and tolerance! From what you said, it seems that there is a relationship between you! It's because of the long-distance relationship that they can't fit into each other's lives, so they compete with each other when they quarrel.

    For what you said, when you quarrel, at first you said that he listened, and then he broke out, this phenomenon is mainly due to personality, and then there is a lack of communication between you, he may think that you quarrel because you are unreasonable, and you feel that he is at fault first, mutual incomprehension and accusation, will only exacerbate the contradiction between you, the best is to talk calmly, both stand in each other's position to think! If you find that both parties are not suitable, it's not too late to talk about breaking up! It's hard to maintain a long-distance relationship, but it's also very happy to stick to it!

    Bless you all!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To be honest, a long-distance relationship is bitter. But bitter with sweet. Explain that your feelings are being tested.

    The relationship is very fragile, don't break up because of a trivial quarrel, and you will definitely regret it when you wait until the future

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's break up, I used to work the same as him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Learn to think more about the other person's point of view. Or change the way you speak. He is very tired, and of course he is in a bad mood if you talk to him!

    Be gentle, don't talk about this anymore after he explains. In addition, you can give him some space, or he should be out of breath, anyway, girls don't rely too much. Not only in life, but also in thought.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really care, you can even go to the toilet and send it to you when you have dinner in the evening.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, in the process from college to just internship, he must be in a bad mood, the gap is big, because in the workshop is not what every college student expects, he has pressure on life and work, you have to understand him more Don't quarrel with him, if you really like him, he insists, long-distance relationships don't rely on the general, if two people work in a place after graduation and still hope to get married, you still love him, don't break up with him, even if you want to break up, he has to bring it up first, so as not to regret it later.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    can't go on, the best way to break up is to be friends again, the relationship between two people has come to an end, but two people can still be friends, and there is no big contradiction, it is the best way for both people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personally, I think it's better for two people to sit down and talk calmly, make it clear that it's not appropriate, or let both of them calm down, and finally break up more decently, and they will still be friends in the future, and they can take care of each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That is to break up peacefully, because this way is the most sensible. And there is no need to do it, the two people are very embarrassed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think breaking up peacefully is the best choice, get together and disperse, be generous, don't entangle and don't embarrass each other, leave a good impression on each other, don't complain too much, no one is right or wrong in the relationship, you will meet better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The best way is to take the initiative to say the inappropriate reason, and then break up, don't entangle each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A peaceful breakup is best. At this time, the two of them sat down and made it clear. Just propose to break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The best way to break up is to break up peacefully, and after a breakup meal, go their separate ways. Don't get in anyone's way.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The two of them face each other, finish talking about the topics that should be discussed, settle some of each other's emotional debts and other debts, and then move on to the next step.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This question is generally not answered, after all, to answer the question is to get recognition, but generally people like you don't want to give up this feeling, so if I let you choose to score, you will not agree in your heart, because you have your own insistence.

    But I still want to ask you, if you live with such a person in the future, don't you feel tired?

    Home is a place where people replenish energy and eliminate fatigue, when you fall in love, it is only a temporary experience, you don't think, you feel that you still have a place to heal, but if you get married, the family can't get peace, then where can you escape?

    Love is not something that can be solved by patience, a family can have no love, but there can be no disgust.

    I don't say that you are bad there, nor that she is good, but the problem between the two of you, no matter how much she is not suitable for you, then it is not a problem whether it is good or not. It's whether you're fit or not together.

    A person's personality is the most difficult to change, because it is a subconscious thing, and generally the change of a person's personality is when a major event occurs and is engraved into the soul, so that people can change.

    It is indeed a shame to live in the hospital and let the girl take the money, not only you are ashamed, but she is also ashamed.

    My boyfriend can't even get the money for his own hospitalization, is there a light face?

    But although she said that you were not, she did not break up with you, which proves that she still has some feelings for you, but now I feel that you are too late, and it is difficult to recover.

    Even if she forgives you, some feelings will be very deep, and such feelings will become stronger and stronger, like someone making psychological hints to her. There's a good chance she'll notice that you have another annoying side of her in the future.

    Just like if a woman likes a man, then she will only notice the side she likes and automatically ignore the bad side, and vice versa, if you hate someone, then no matter what person does, you feel annoying.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I can't stand it and can't stand it.

    For your feelings, whether you really give a lot as you say; It doesn't matter why your girlfriend is in this situation; It is recommended that you calm down.

    Analyze it from your own side:

    1. If you are not ready, whether it is psychologically or materially, don't let your woman get pregnant, and she has a miscarriage, no matter how strong a woman is, she is very vulnerable at this time;

    2. Your girlfriend is willing to communicate with others, and the communication is very good, but why is it so abnormal when she comes to you, you really don't know the reason? Have you ever gone to find the cause of the problem in**? It's just the woman's reason.

    3. If your girlfriend has no feelings for you deep down, she will not get pregnant for you;

    4. There is also a miscarriage that makes women pay, you are not a man, whether you have money or not, you only bring so much money when you go to the hospital, don't tell me that you don't know how much it costs, or you just want to find a cheap way to have an abortion.

    5. Don't disguise yourself, don't let others encourage you with false excuses, if you really want to maintain this relationship, you need to really know yourself clearly, instead of paying too much attention to the other party's shortcomings.

    Everything has a reason.

    Analyze it from your girlfriend's point of view:

    1. Whether the heart is mature enough and whether you are ready to get married is very important;

    2. Say that you are short, poor and ugly, whether it is a true inner thought, if so, it is really disgusted with you, and it is no pity to leave her decisively, and it will be more distressing to be reluctant to be together;

    3. Girlfriend with you and your family; How you get along with the woman's family and whether the relationship is harmonious, you also need to pay attention to the following, marriage is inseparable from these things.

    In fact, to put it bluntly, you just need to find the real cause of the problem and face it bravely, if you really want to marry your girlfriend; Don't deny others easily, everyone has to pay, and paying is definitely not one-sided.

    Good luck

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Before and after a woman's miscarriage, her mood changes the most, brother, you just bear with it, who told you that you really can't afford to pay all the medical bills alone?

    Think about it from another angle, if you are a girl, you are pregnant, and it is an accidental miscarriage, you have to endure the trauma of the operation, and you have to pay part of the surgery out of your own pocket, and your man can't help anything, are you angry? Are you sad? Do you regret it?

    Women come to aunts and have miscarriages, they are very easy to be grumpy, men, endure and pass.

    I don't want to advise you to break up because it's very unfair to that girl because after all you have been in this relationship for more than 2 years. But have you ever thought about your future life? In a long-distance relationship, you can fall in love however you like, but the ultimate goal of love is to get married.

    Do you want to marry her? After getting married, do you come to work and live with her, or do she come to work and live with you, as a man, do you have enough courage to take on the responsibility of a family?

    If you don't have the courage, I have a piece of advice: save money, save all the money you can save, and use it as youth compensation. Money is not everything, but at least some of the time, money is a means of comfort.

    Don't expect to end a long-distance relationship quickly, because I can tell that your little girlfriend is a spicy girl. A spicy woman, going crazy, is something you can't imagine. So, listen to my brother, hurry up and start saving money, whether you want to marry her as a wife, or you want to compensate her for her youth fee, a certain amount of savings, that's a must!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. You hesitate, which proves that you are aware of the problem, and the problem is serious;

    2. Congratulations on the opportunity to examine your own efforts and look forward to your future life;

    3. Your girlfriend is purely a fault that you are used to, and the two of you don't have much in common, right? Maybe the gap between the two of you in terms of education level is not small, right? If you are classmates, it is estimated that there is a big gap between your family and his's home education, right?

    4. Have you communicated a blueprint for your future life? Does she approve of your current and future plans?

    5. If you can endure it first, how long can you endure it in your future life? How long can you endure the increased stress of life, and what kind of life can you provide to your family?

    6. Don't be in a hurry to get married, let it go, and talk calmly about the problems between you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your obstacle is because you are "short, poor, ugly!" This is what your girlfriend is really saying. People, love is the most important thing when you are first in love, and when you are in love with marriage, milk bread is the most important.

    When a woman is strong-willed and firm by nature, she would rather live a hard life than change her original intention, marrying a chicken and a dog and marrying a dog; But society is too big and diverse, and not everyone has the same ideology. Some people change as circumstances change. I don't know whose idea my girlfriend had a miscarriage this time?

    I don't dare to say whether your girlfriend has changed, in short, the situation is not optimistic, I suggest you be mentally prepared to face the reality. No matter what happens in the future, if you really love someone, you want the other person to be happy, only blessings.

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