Do you want a divorce, in trouble, is it troublesome to divorce

After reading the full text, I still can't figure out what went wrong, because I don't understand the details, and I can only guess about it, don't talk about solving the problem, first make it clear, married life is completely different from what you imagined. Your husband lacks a sense of responsibility and is impatient with you. Inability to communicate with the other party.

Then the sub-problem is clear.

It is difficult for Qing officials to judge family affairs, why? Because of the emotional factor, the problems between the two sides of the conflict are caused by mutual friction, and the reason why it is difficult is that the source of the mistake itself is not investigated. Even if you know where the problem is, but because it has been too long, there are more and more misunderstandings, the beginning of the problem is no longer important, and it is useless to solve it.

Because time has turned misunderstandings into resentments.

By saying this, it's not that the problem can't be solved, it's just that it's hard.

Your question is not very clear. You only said his attitude towards you, which is very difficult to help you.

If you really want to ask for help, you can make a few things clear:

1 What happens when you're in love 2 When does it start to deteriorate 3 What is the reason for getting married 4 Whether there is a major misunderstanding or dispute.

Be clear, it will be more targeted to you. Otherwise, it's just nonsense, and no one can help you. Because feelings are two-sided, and the basis of marriage is feelings, and there are problems in feelings, and the reasons are ???

Only you know best. Don't say divorce without understanding the situation. Maybe tomorrow will be better.

Ay. That's it, people know how to cherish when they lose.

You have to take good care of your baby, of course, but also yourself, no one wants to lose, he will be tired of doing business outside, you can tell your confidant what you have in your heart.

Another point is that you can tell your baby what you have in your heart, your baby will listen, you should play with him, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows will make you happy.

Besides, there is no benefit to divorce, you must learn to be strong as a woman.

If you want someone to talk to, you can also come to me, because they are all women.

He should know very well what a woman needs Otherwise, he won't win your heart You won't marry him back So now it can only show one truth The you in his heart have faded Since this is the case, you also have to learn to take good care of yourself If you can, cultivate a lover So that someone will talk to you and chat with you When you are sick, you can still have a caring greeting.

Did you marry your son?

I don't know much, but it seems that he doesn't love you!

Can you find the right person after a divorce?

If you don't get divorced, can you be alone and left out in the cold for the rest of your life?

In fact, everyone is very embarrassed, you are a person who has experienced it firsthand, and your pain is also incomprehensible to us.

Only you know your own business!

You'd better ask your friends!

If I leave, I hope it can help you.

If he had you in his heart, he wouldn't have done this to you! He seriously lacks a sense of family responsibility and doesn't know how to feel sorry for his wife! The heart has not changed!

It doesn't make much sense to go on like this.

A woman will be happy all her life if she finds a man who really takes you seriously!

Should you get a divorce or not? What do men think in their hearts?

I used to do the same to my wife! But you don't know regret until you lose it. Be patient with introverts.

What you don't get is always the best, and I don't dare say that people are like that, but most people are psychologically like this. When you can't get it, you work hard to pursue it, but you don't know how to cherish it, people are very greedy, this is undeniable, you also know that your husband and friends are busy, and they are very tired from doing business, of course, they want to get together with friends and have a good time on a rare vacation, and he regards his friends as more important than his wife, maybe in his heart he feels that his wife is his own thing, and he doesn't distinguish between each other, and friends are different You also have to understand your husband's suffering, understand each other, and it is really tiring to take care of children, hold on, at least your husband will not take the initiative to quarrel with you, scold you, and also know that you will buy you food in the morning You are very lucky.

Legal analysis: divorce is not a troublesome or easy thing, if the relationship between the husband and wife really does not exist, if the relationship between the husband and wife is still very good, no matter how simple it is, it cannot be divorced. The law stipulates that there are two ways to get divorced

The first is to negotiate and sign a divorce agreement between husband and wife, which can be handled directly by going directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau, which is the easiest. The second is to file a lawsuit with the people's court where the residence or permanent residence is located, and the court will generally mediate, and if the relationship between the husband and wife is broken, the divorce will be awarded, and if one party is unwilling to divorce, then the husband and wife must be separated for two years, and the court will rule a forced divorce.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1078:Where the marriage registration authorities ascertain that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt disposition, they shall register and issue a divorce certificate.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1080:Marriage is dissolved when the registration of divorce is completed, or when the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect.

What are the general ways of divorce?

1. Divorce by agreement.

If the parties divorce by agreement, the divorce registration shall be handled in accordance with the procedures of preliminary examination, acceptance, examination, registration (issuance).

The specific materials and procedures required for divorce by mutual agreement are as follows:

1) The parties submit certificates and supporting materials;

2) The marriage registrar checks the corresponding documents and supporting materials;

3) The marriage registrar shall explain to the parties the conditions of the Marriage Law on the registration of divorce;

4) The marriage registrar asks the parties about their willingness to divorce and their willingness to the content of the divorce agreement;

5) If both parties voluntarily divorce and reach an agreement on matters such as child support, property and debt handling, both parties shall fill in the Declaration of Application for Divorce Registration and sign it in front of the oath administerer;

6) Both husband and wife sign the divorce agreement in person; The Registrar of Marriages is the Commissioner of Oaths. One copy of the agreement for each spouse and one copy for filing at the Marriage Registry;

7) The marriage registrar shall review the documents submitted by the parties, the declaration of application for divorce registration, and the divorce agreement, and if the conditions for divorce are met, fill in the "Divorce Registration Review and Processing Form" and the divorce certificate;

8) Issuance of divorce certificate.

The issuance of a divorce certificate shall be carried out in the presence of both parties in accordance with the following steps:

1. Verify the name, date of birth, and willingness to divorce with both parties;

2. Inform the parties of the legal relationship after receiving the divorce certificate, the relationship with the children after the divorce, and the obligations they should fulfill;

3. Witness the parties themselves to sign in the column of "Signature or Fingerprint of the Parties" in the "Divorce Registration Review and Processing Form"; Where the parties do not know how to write their names, their fingerprints shall be pressed.

4. Affix a strip-type seal on the marriage certificate of the parties, which indicates that "both parties are divorced, and the certificate is invalid." Marriage Registry". The cancelled marriage certificate will be returned to the parties.

5. Issue the divorce certificate to both parties to the divorce, and announce to both parties: obtain the divorce certificate and dissolve the relationship between husband and wife.

2. Divorce by litigation.

Divorce by litigation is commonly referred to as divorce through legal means. It is more complicated than a divorce by agreement. The specific procedures and steps are as follows:

1. Entrust a lawyer to draft a complaint;

2. Prepare the evidence required for the lawsuit;

3. Submit the complaint and evidence to the court of competent jurisdiction;

4. The court decides whether to accept the lawsuit;

5. After the court accepts the divorce case, it shall send a copy of the complaint to the other party within the statutory time;

6. The court arranges the first time and sends a summons to both parties;

7. **: Both parties can entrust a lawyer or other professionals** to litigate (under normal circumstances, the parties to the divorce must appear in court, if they cannot appear in court due to special reasons, they must issue a written opinion to the court on whether to divorce);

8. The court shall make a judgment on whether to grant the divorce, how to divide the property, and how to solve the problem of child support according to the plaintiff's claim and the evidence submitted by both parties.

There are two ways to divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by lawsuit.

In the case of a divorce by mutual agreement, if both parties reach an agreement on child support and property division, they can go to the civil affairs bureau where the marriage is registered to register the divorce.

If one party does not agree to the divorce, or the two parties cannot agree on the division of children and property, one party needs to file a lawsuit with the court, and the court will decide the divorce.

I think the relationship between the two of you has faded, there is no need to be together, divorce is the best option Couples are becoming more and more estranged, it may not be that the relationship has deteriorated, but that the communication between you has decreased, if the two people do not communicate often, you don't know what the other person is thinking, you don't know what has happened to the other party in the recent period, then no matter how strong the relationship will deteriorate. So when you feel that the two of you already have a sense of distance, you have to sit down and communicate immediately, if both of you cherish this relationship very much, and don't want this relationship to break down, take the initiative to sit down and talk, if everyone thinks it doesn't matter, then it's good to get together and disperse.

But sometimes the couple becomes more and more estranged, and it may be that the relationship between the two people has deteriorated, after all, everyone is changing, everyone is developing, you don't know what the other person will become in the future, all you can do is try to fall in love with each other, and maintain the relationship between you, if a person really wants to change, then the eight cows can't pull it back, if you feel that the relationship between the two of you has deteriorated, then let him go. If the other party really makes up their minds to distance themselves from you and forces you to break up coldly and violently, then you can't help it!

Everyone encounters a plateau when they are in love. When you just start to fall in love, you will find that two people have a lot to talk about, and there are a lot of interests and hobbies to communicate, but as time goes by, you get to know each other more and more, and you will find many shortcomings in each other, and after a while you may find that you have nothing to say, at this time many people will mistakenly think that the relationship between you will come to an end, but in fact, if you cross this mountain, you can go on directly.

Don't give up on your relationship at the last minute, it's not easy to cultivate a relationship.

Let's talk about my personal opinion, I read your description very seriously and carefully, objectively speaking, a description of thousands of words, your husband is nothing good, he is not a person who can be entrusted to you for life, maybe in this situation, you should have divorced a long time ago, and you have been with him for 5 years, for what?

Because you are marrying into his family with your daughter, it means that you have already experienced a failed marriage, so why did you choose him when you chose again? A person who is useless in your eyes, a person who does not know how to be considerate, who does not know how to care, who does not know how to have fun, a person who is lazy, what do you fancy about him? Why did you marry such a person!?

Because it's all your own description, others can't judge objectively, but, as the saying goes, a slap doesn't make a sound, it's obvious that you have a problem, all say your good things, and say your good things along your topic, it doesn't help you, feel bad, then divorce! No one can stop you, anyway, there is a first time, so it doesn't matter if it's the second time, is it this thing! Divorce believes that this is not the result you want, from your intermittent 5 years, you still want to get along well, but, how to get along, how to manage the relationship, is really exactly what you want, as for what kind of choice, you have to make your own decision, other people's opinions are only for reference.

A little personal understanding, I hope it can help you, the words are not rough, don't blame if you don't like it!