Why are junior high school classmates so hypocritical and difficult to make friends!

To be honest, it is indeed difficult to make a close friend now, but, in fact, you may learn to be alone, but at the same time, you must also learn to endure the people around you, look down on the people and things around you, junior high school is really a lot of right and wrong, cherish a person's time Sometimes you will also find that the joys and sorrows of the people around you, maybe you can see the true thoughts of those people, after all, the age of junior high school is full of teachers' favoritism for good students, and the preference for class cadres, if you are a class cadre, Don't let your classmates think you're superior, if you're just an ordinary classmate, do your own thing, others won't mess with you, and, I think there shouldn't be only one like you in your class who doesn't believe in the people around you, good at discovering, you will get a confidant friend, I used to be a little bit of a good true friend, but try to make friends with your heart, take the initiative to make friends, there will be, I also made a true friend in the second year of junior high school, come on!

Actually, it's all like that. But there are still more sincere. 、Who doesn't have a few dead friends,。

Everyone is not familiar with each other when I first enter junior high school, and it takes time to make friends.

I'm in my second year of junior high school. When we entered junior high school, we thought we were adults, and we had a rebellious mentality. Be patient with your classmates. What kind of class are yours, our class is harmonious, and the class leader sits behind me and "annoys" me every day.

Be simple and diligent.

Well, because the classmates in elementary school are six years of running-in, the classmates in junior high school are just in contact with the former classmates who understand your reverse scale, and the current classmates think that you are good to you, there is no malice, and it seems hypocritical and selfish, that is also a kind of protection for yourself, when everyone is familiar with each other, it will not be As for respect, why not start with yourself first? Respect yourself first, and then everyone will respect you!!

Upstairs, don't talk nonsense...

Lou: To put it a little more broadly, junior high school classmates, everyone has arrived in a new environment, and many of their former best friends are not with him or her.

You'll feel a little lonely, and you'll unconsciously compare your junior high school classmates with your best friends in elementary school. Can a stranger treat you like a good friend?

After that, I feel very annoyed with my current classmates, and then I will be too hypocritical, selfish, and not understand personality and respect.

Sometimes, even if you talk very loudly, the other person pretends not to hear.

Lou: Do you suggest that I tell the truth?

Actually, your affinity is not enough...

I just arrived at the new school to make up for a day's lessons, and the next day, someone from the new school asked me to play...

And if there's anything good, let me know as soon as possible...

To sum up, it is recommended that you have to exercise and exercise your affinity, don't ask me why do you know so much.

I don't know why - -

As for the upstairs said high school classmates.

Because everyone has gone through a lot of junior high school. Tasteless. Therefore, you will cherish emotions more.

For social reasons. Also, when we were young, we were all naïve and didn't pay attention to a lot of things. Now that we have grown up, we know more, and we should face more and bear more.

Of course, everybody is growing up. All the experiences will be more and more. Thinking about things will become more and more complicated.

Everyone has their own ideas and ways of doing things, and they don't have to care too much about those bad people and things, as long as they don't harm others and benefit themselves, and they don't be selfish. I still have a lot of friends around me. You'll be happy that way, too.

Go your own way! I'm sure you'll get used to the world slowly.

I haven't experienced a kind of self-righteous and immature concept of right and wrong, and I don't think it will cause any bad results, but in fact, this kind of person will not have any good results, after all, society is to eliminate people one by one.

You can understand these things in junior high school, and if you enter society, you won't be scared to death!

Sometimes when you talk about others, think more about yourself, whether you have done something bad! If you want to be respected by others, you must learn to respect others first! As for selfishness, everyone is selfish! Including yourself!

Because elementary school classmates are elementary school students, junior high school classmates are junior high school students. Junior high school students are in adolescence, just teething all kinds of emotions, in the subjective and objective situation where I am the main and not good at thinking about things, and I am very impulsive!

People in junior high school have just entered puberty, and they are all like this.

I think my junior high school classmates are the best. Because the students we meet are all different. This is normal, and there are only a few people who always play together after college.

Self-consciousness formation in the period of ignorance.

yes......When I was in elementary school, I didn't have anything to do with my classmates......After junior high school, there are scandals ...... when you ask questions

The troubles in growing up, the establishment of the outlook on life is vague and gradual, good is good when it is good, evil is evil, grasp yourself, the key to life is just a few steps.

The more you experience, the more you will deteriorate, and as people say, society is a big dye vat.

People will grow up. People of every age. There will be different hearts of friends.

It's quite selfish, I didn't come to class one day to ask my classmates to borrow notes, she said that my notes don't show others, I'm also very selfish now, I'm not qualified to talk about others, I have some eyes, now it's not okay to have no eyes, in short, a lot of things are chilling.

Yes, I feel the same way.

I feel like my classmates in elementary and high school are the best.

But junior high school also has good classmates, but the number is not much, and the quality is the same.

Maybe it was a rebellious period ...

Emotions in junior high school are only temporary, and the same is true in high school, so if you look at it, everyone will have a mask, a mask of hypocrisy.

Because when you were in junior high school, you didn't think so much about hypocrisy, it didn't matter if you were hypocritical or not, everyone in high school grew up, their ideas were different, and the way of doing things changed, in fact, it can't be said that hypocrisy is just a manifestation of human nature

Everybody is a little cautious again, and the bigger the person, the more mindful he is.

When people grow up, their psychology becomes complicated.

Hehe, that's just a feeling, it can be changed.

Why do you feel so ... Don't think so, you think about people like this, and you will also feel this way when you do the same thing... If it's between friends, the most important thing is understanding.,As for the boring things of classmates.,Just laugh it off.。。

Don't think about being so terrifying, compare your heart to your heart... If you're sincere to them, they still give you that feeling, and you can't blame them, it's just that they haven't figured it out, or you haven't figured it out yourself... You think people are hypocritical.

It's you who think, it doesn't mean that they are really like this, although people are so subjective, since you think that you are unhappy like this, why not think about it in another direction...

High school students should not be associated with the word hypocrisy in the eyes of college students, maybe you happen to meet a hypocritical person, you will have such a feeling, but I want to say that in this world, there seems to be no hypocritical person, so you don't have to worry about this, on the other hand, maybe you can find the answer from yourself, maybe it is the behavior or language of the people around you, people, only from yourself to find the reason, will you live a little happier.

？？？Friend, your voice is a bit extreme, ahem......You have to learn to deal with different people, anyway, this is the way the world is, there is hypocrisy everywhere...

This society is like this, what he does to you, you can do to him, you must not have the heart of harming others, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable.

I've met it.,I went to help them.,I didn't expect it.,I have something to find them, and they make excuses.。。

I'm used to it, and I'm looking at it. Besides, who is not hypocritical, although I hate them very much, but every day I see them still smiling, still greeting each other, and pretending to have good feelings.

In fact, everyone knows what the situation is, just go on the surface, and don't ask them for anything. When you are strong, they will naturally slap you.

One of my classmates who played well in the class, the last time she had a quarrel over a trivial matter, she later admitted that it was her fault, and during the quarrel someone told me that she kept talking about me behind my back. Every time I buy cosmetics, I invite her to dinner, I invite her every time, I tried her at noon today, whether to invite me to dinner I didn't bring money, she said I can borrow you, I want to buy things at night with this money, and then I said no, I bring the money.

You can't expect anything to be reciprocated by others.

Well, there is nothing hypocritical, just your subjective conjecture, lower your mentality, communicate more, and you will naturally make true friends. Have a nice day!

Alas. You're new here, like you've just started elementary school. I also think that my classmates are too hypocritical, but you slowly get to know them and learn about their hobbies and hobbies. You talk to him about it too, and you'll be good friends! Hope to adopt!

You feel that way because you don't know each other well enough, and you both have a grudge. As long as you open your heart, you will find that new classmates have their own strengths, and they will naturally make friends.

People are like this, and there are people around me who tell a few lies based on the topic of conversation in order to be able to interject a few words when others are talking, and have a common topic with others. I'm not accepted because I won't lie about this situation, are you?

In fact, some people who seem to be hypocritical have sensitive hearts, you should get in touch with them, let go of your little prejudice against them, and feel them with sincerity.

Either get used to solitude, or learn hypocrisy. If you are surrounded by hypocritical people, it is really difficult to find a compatible one, not to mention that there is no chance. If you don't want to be ostracized right away, learn their hypocrisy for a while, and when you see that someone's temper is very compatible with yours, play with them.

It doesn't matter what other people say, it's what you think.

You can try talking to them first to see how they are and whether to make friends with them.

Engage with them a little more, maybe it's not as bad as you think. And you're talking about "a lot", not all of them, you can make friends with classmates who are not hypocritical. After a few weeks, I know the hearts of the people, and everyone is familiar with them, and there are still gods and horses that are not easy to say?

There is nothing difficult in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Calm down, making friends is like making wine, don't be anxious, don't be deliberate, get along for a long time, classmates will know each other's characteristics, know who they want to make friends, know the horsepower, see people's hearts for a long time, come on!

Supplement: To see the truth in the subtleties, first of all, you have to think about your own life, don't just think about the problem from your own point of view, think more about them from the perspective of others, otherwise sometimes you do good things, but it is a bad thing for them. Then, pay more, pay your own sincerity, pay your own sweat, pay your own help.

Moreover, study hard, accumulate true knowledge, and people with real skills can finally bloom their own brilliance, you must know that things gather by like, people by groups, I hope you can harvest your true friends in this circle.