How to go about a daughter s work in love and marriage

Updated on society 2024-02-08
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After all, it's professional knowledge, and I know this business. Specialize in this line. Find another way out, time, money, and opportunities.

    Hold on. After the storm, there is a rainbow.

    The industry itself is a profession that relies on years. Doing a lot. Naturally, the horizon is high.

    Young people do more. But it can be persevered. There really are very few.

    Go one. Come one. You're the old man.

    Let's take it one step at a time. Want. There is no way not to give.

    Besides. 20 years old. Only 20 years old. I'm in a hurry when I it. Too conservative in thinking. There are a lot of people in big cities who get married or get married.

    20..Now is the beginning of my career. Child-like affection.

    How can you put your mind on your work and career. Damn, you have to look farther. Have faith in your daughter.

    I really can't stand it anymore with encouragement. Accompany her shopping. Let's chat.

    There are still 7 or 8 years to get married, and it doesn't have to be limited to the company. And classmates. Friend. Fate is here. It's also fast.

    First of all, I wish you and your daughter all the best in your work. All the best, find your son-in-law, her good husband, as soon as possible!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and the feelings of parents can be more or less understood by children, but the children's path needs to be walked by themselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, the work mentality, since you have chosen, not every job will cry to do it. Discover the joy of work. Only when people are happy can they have spirit. Good luck will accompany you. Come on. Change your mindset.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Pay attention, you help her choose a major, and now you want to help her decide on work, love, and marriage, I have to say, Auntie, your mother seems to be a little too dutiful, as far as I'm concerned, you better let it go, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, work is your daughter's, lover is your daughter's, marriage is your daughter's, you are an outsider (although I don't want to say, but I have to admit that even a mother, in her own marriage is still an outsider) You can't help her make the decision, what you can do is to give her advice as much as you canWhen her decision deviates from your ideals, I suggest that you support her, no one will be happy that their life is decided by someone, even a mother can't, for a mother's words, I prefer that she can advise me and support me, and I prefer that we can have discussions between us, like friends. I wish your daughter happiness and hope that you can discuss it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let your daughter choose her own path, as a parent, as long as you support.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't meddle in this matter, her path has already been mistaken by you once, why do you want to make a mistake again, if you are my mother, I will really hate you, you just tell your daughter, if you don't want to do it, go home, your mother raised you, the object is in love and married, do you still want to cover it all, this is unscientific, auntie.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Really find someone who is good to your daughter, otherwise all your current considerations are just phantoms.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's up to her own thoughts, it's the most important thing!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Too much worry is in vain, the child is older and has his own opinions, as an elder, he can only be a gatekeeper and cannot be forced, otherwise it will cause rebellion or estrangement.

    First of all, at the work level, use the relationships around you as much as possible to get an errand, and improve and change your personality or attitude from other environments and people;

    At the marriage level, only if you keep your child by your side, can you better be her guiding light, of course, this does not mean that you want to arrange a marriage, and the child has the right to choose for herself.

    In view of the fact that the little girl is only 20 years old, so you don't have to worry about it, young people have a lot of surprises and opportunities, and the opportunity is also left to the people who are ready for yo, not because of your worries, the boredom of life will dodge away, I hope you give the little girl more strong self-confidence. Good luck!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Look at what that man should do, because if he really loves your daughter, he will come here, if you can't insist, then it is a wise choice for your daughter to break off with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it is in the face of your confession and tells you that you don't want to fall in love, it is basically a euphemistic rejection of you. The reason for rejection may be that you don't understand you, you have concerns, or you may like someone else and are still waiting for an opportunity, of course, it may also be that you are under pressure to study, life is stressful, and you really don't have the energy to take care of love. So pay attention.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone has their own ideas and wants to choose their own life.

    In fact, parents should be friends with their children, respect each other, and give their children space for their own freedom.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The play focuses on three post-80s girls with different personalities and growing up in different environmental backgrounds and their three kinds of love, telling the story of the work and love problems that young people have to face after they just step into society, and how young people born in the 80s will show their outlook on love and life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal to be unwilling, so why do you have to force it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This situation is actually quite embarrassing, because it is very likely that your subordinates will use this reason to build a relationship with you, or even ask for a promotionIf your father-in-law is a person with a good character, then there is no need to worry about this happening, and the most feared thing is that he will use this relationship to promote his position, which will make you feel very embarrassed.

    Therefore, when these situations occur, in any case, we must first make it clear to my father-in-law that I and him are subordinates at work, even if the two people have an extra layer of relationship in reality, but if the work is affected because of the relationship in reality, then it will affect the work, which is a result that no one wants to see.

    Therefore, when this situation occurs, you can first explain the work and life problems to the other party, and if this situation really occurs, it is inevitable to keep a certain distance from work, but in life you still have to find opportunities to explain to him the reasons for doing so, otherwise it will cause greater estrangement。And if the subordinate is a person with a fairly good character, then there is no need to worry about such a situation at this time, and you can appear more intimate at work, although this may make others gossip behind your back, but these gossip will not affect the normal relationship, so there is no problem.

    And help the other party at the right time, help here does not mean to help the other party get promoted, but to give some help when the other party has difficulties in workIn this way, you can also improve the relationship between yourself and your subordinates, achieving the best of both worlds, but in reality, this situation is also difficult to be as ideal as we would like.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you fall in love with the daughter of your subordinate, and the future husband who is facing her at work is also a current colleague, then you still have to do business in the unit, even if there are any problems, you must face him correctly, treat him as a normal worker, and be your real father-in-law in private.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Have confidence in yourself, which is the most important thing, to fully display your talents and abilities in front of your future father-in-law and mother-in-law, behave naturally and generously, and let them have a good impression of themselves. 2. Express your deep love and cherishment for your girlfriend, so that your future father-in-law and mother-in-law can rest assured that your daughter will be handed over to you. 3. Seek advice from your girlfriend in advance to see what kind of conversation atmosphere and environment the second elder likes, what topics he likes, and what hobbies he likes, so that he can prescribe the right medicine and be invincible.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's okay to treat it normally, but you must be measured, you can't be in a hurry, you don't need to be too eager for quick success, and you don't need to curry favor.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's good to get along normally, treat subordinates with a normal heart at work, and the same is true for the father-in-law, you can help the father-in-law more in private, and the public and private are clear.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The best way to get along with the future husband is to make sure that the husband thinks that you are a very good person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Work belongs to work, feelings belong to feelings, and real power in your hands can give you some benefits.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Work is work, we must be conscientious and responsible in our work, don't be close, we must do what we should do.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let my husband retire early! Take him and his daughter around on the waves!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This job is work, and it is private and private, and it will be more likable to distinguish clearly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's really awkward to get along with, so it's best to leave the company.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    At work, it is natural to have a subordinate relationship, but when arranging work, you should try to be humble, and in life, you should be like a junior and respect your elders.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't deliberately get close, I don't deliberately forgive, and if I work hours, I can take care of it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Private affairs are official, and the father-in-law is comfortable.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't you think it's inappropriate, forcing people to resign in disguise.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello. The first thing to do is to determine your daughter's sexual orientation.

    Whether it's male or female.

    Secondly, it is necessary to make sure that the daughter is 24 hours a day.

    What are you doing?

    Analyze the factors that affect your daughter's love.

    After finding this factor.

    Moderate bootstrapping.

    Correct and not overly communicative.

    The most important thing is to support your daughter's choice.

    If it is a work and living environment, you can't get in touch with someone who is suitable for love.

    You can encourage your daughter to go out and walk more.

    Lack of knowledge and contact interest.

    People who love life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Mother's greatest wish, the daughter finds a good man of her own who lacks grip and sends a ruined family, healthy, happy, safe and happy. It is the mother's greatest wish, and it is also beneficial to urge her daughter to talk about marriage and urge Fu Xianqing to celebrate.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This parent must talk to her daughter to see what her daughter likes about each other, otherwise how can she be productive with the unemployed vagrant, and she will definitely regret it in the future, otherwise she will be together because of impulse.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Communicate more, understand the reasons why your daughter chooses each other, and then guide them. Don't object outright.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If he really likes your daughter. Will change for your daughter. How is the character.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It is recommended to make it clear to her daughter that at this time she is carried away by love, and thinks that as long as she has love, she can do it, regardless of whether the other party has a job or not, whether she is self-motivated, but she has not considered the future path, so parents should explain it to her clearly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Since the daughter is already old and has his own ideas, his personal emotional problems, parents can't be too dry, they can only give him a little advice.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    For every parent, if their daughter is in love, then the parent will be more worriedBecause girls in love generally do not have the ability to think independently, it is easy to suffer losses and be wronged during the relationshipIf you don't tell your daughter about these in advance, even if you suffer a loss, you can only eat Coptis chinensis dumbly, and you can't say anything about your suffering.

    For the daughter to fall in love,

    If you are not very old and it is inconvenient to express it directly, you need the mother's warning at this time, and the mother can first negotiate with her daughter and tell her daughter some common sense and possible problemsLet the daughter know the taboos during the relationship, and at the same time the father can also negotiate with the daughter's boyfriend, take some verbal warnings, so that both parties know what to do and what not to do during the relationship, and at the same time have to give his daughter a verbal warning to make her fearful.

    If the daughter is of legal age

    Many things are clear to everyone, so there is no need to avoid it too much, just say what you want, if you don't want to get married, you need your daughter to be responsible for herselfAt the same time, it is good to clean yourself, because when you are old enough, what parents say can only be a reference for their daughters, and what they say depends on what their daughters think.

    So for my daughter to fall in love,

    Regardless of the age group, parents should negotiate as early as possibleOtherwise, if you are wronged in the end, you can only break your teeth and swallow it in your stomach, after all, every child has a natural respect for their parents, and will not offend their parents for boys, so when you encounter this kind of thing, you must say it as soon as possible, and you can't drag it out.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Parents can not interfere with their children's love, but ask their daughters to limit themselves to holding hands, and do not cross the red line in other ways.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    For example, you must know words like self-esteem and self-love, so that your children can keep the bottom line and not do excessive things.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You can discuss this issue with your child appropriately, and if you are not sure that it will be him in the future, it is best not to take that step.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Find a private opportunity to tell your daughter directly alone, since she is in love, she understands these things, and parents can remind them appropriately.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I think it's just not to interfere too much, but to tell my daughter to protect herself.

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