Why am I absent minded when I can t see her 40

I'll tell you a story that might help you!

Once upon a time, there was a boy who fell in love with a princess, but the difference between the two of them was too big, and the princess didn't look down on him at all, no matter how the boy confessed his loyalty, the princess would not take a fancy to him. Finally the two of them made an agreement that if the boy sat outside the palace without eating or drinking for a month, the princess would promise him. As a result, this boy really sat there without eating or drinking.

A day, two days, a week passed, and the princess began to be moved, and secretly looked at the boy every day. Twenty-nine days passed, the boy really did not eat a single bite of food and water, thin and skinny, the princess was finally moved, she was ready to promise the boy the next morning, but the next day before dawn, the boy had already packed up his things and left.

What does this story illustrate?

This boy confessed his feelings and protected his dignity, but more importantly, he didn't force the princess to fulfill his promise in the end!

It would be nice to see her.

If you haven't seen her for a few days, you'll be very disappointed.

And so on and so forth. That's it for now.

I've had the same experience with Responsibly Telling You You Can Give Up.

Take some courage and try to fight for it, it's man-made.

Pluck up your courage, you're a man.

How about impressing her with **?

In fact, everyone will encounter situations like what you are talking about.

You always feel like you're doing something you don't like, or something you enjoy but after a while you're not interested, and that's something we've all been in before.

I think if you want to solve this problem, you must first get your mindset right.

One: Rebuild self-confidence! Personally, I think self-confidence is the most important thing in life.

Or the old saying, if a person doesn't even believe in this, how can he make others believe in himself? Before you do anything, first tell yourself if you think you can do it well, and if the answer is yes, then do it without hesitation, because you can do it! When you're done, you'll feel a sense of accomplishment!

That also lays the foundation for a good mindset in the future. If you don't think you're doing well, give up. Because you don't have self-confidence at this time, in the absence of self-confidence, most of the time things will not be done well, which not only wastes time, but also increases your frustration.

At this time you should think that this thing is not for you to do, but for others, because you can't do everything in the world by yourself.

Two: Be calm and sensible. Because people's abilities are always limited, you don't rush to achieve results, this will do half the work. When you do things, you will not do it blindly, and be organized!

Three: Don't push yourself! Don't push yourself to do things you don't want to do, especially at this stage where you feel like the future is very small and think that nothing means anything to you.

At this time, I suggest that you do more things that you enjoy and tell yourself that you can do it well, giving yourself a positive psychological cue.

Actually, I've felt the same way as you, really. Actually, it's nothing, it's all very normal. It's just that you haven't found your own coordinates in this society yet, and when you get older one day and you think back to your current self, I think you will only smile slightly.

Friend, that's because there are people or things in my heart that I can't let go. There are always these things that are difficult to organize in my heart. Why don't you wake up early in the morning, smile at yourself in the mirror and say, I can do it, I'm the best.

Nothing can bother me! Breathe in the fresh air outside. Under the morning exercise, you will feel that the mood is very different, everyone in life has more or less troubles, no one in real life is smooth, for the things that you can't solve, it is up to God to arrange and guide it.

Absent-mindedness means that the person's mind is not on it, and he is not concentrating, doing this thing, but his mind is thinking about something else. The source of the idiom is Dai Sheng's "Book of Rites and Rites" in the Western Han Dynasty.

The sense of responsibility and the purpose of action are reduced.

Do exercise aerobic breathing, adjust your mentality.

Is it the reason for the unhappy nonsense that happened around you?