How to be the designer of your own destiny?

I am the designer of my own destiny" The book was given to me by a friend a few years ago, and I kept it in the corner to rest until yesterday, when I picked up the book and read it. I was reluctant to let go when I saw it. It's like a treasure!

This book is very simple, and Mr. Qin tells us with his own personal experience that a person's fate can be changed. You can be your own designer. The well-known feng shui master counted him as not living to be 25 years old and had no children.

The teacher himself rewrote his fate. He lived past the age of 25, got married, gave birth to a boy, and married a very virtuous wife. Mr. Qin only read the third grade of primary school, but he rewrote his fate with actions and gave lectures to major colleges and universities.

Helped a lot of destined people.

Reading this book, I thought of the "Four Teachings of Liaofan" that I listened to and read a few years ago, and I have been wanting to read this book for a long time, but I have never read it. Until a few years ago, Xiang Shurang listened to the teacher talk about this book on his mobile phone, and he also felt that it was too late to read this book. If I had read the book "The Four Teachings of Liaofan" earlier, would my life not have taken a lot of detours like today.

But after all, there is no turning back in life, and there is no regret medicine. Fortunately, I am reading such a good book now. It is no wonder that the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection recommends civil servants, and party members must read the book "The Four Trainings of Liaofan".

This book is a good family style, a family letter.

And Mr. Qin, the protagonist of "I am the designer of my own destiny", has the same experience as Fan. I calculated what happened to the fortune teller, and I rewrote my fate through my efforts. The most classic words:

The life is made by me, and I ask for it myself. Destiny is in your own hands, and happiness is created by your own efforts.

I have been studying the I Ching by myself for several years, and I have learned the eight characters, feng shui, face, palmistry, and name. I just blindly believe that many of them are fixed numbers. Just like this year of the Ox, I have reached the year of my natal life.

According to the eight-character flow of the year, the fortune of the natal annual meeting is greatly affected, and you need to spend money to resolve it, the key is that you are psychologically pressured and afraid that something bad will happen. Now that I've read these two books, it's dawned on me. I will make my life, and I will ask for my own blessing.

Don't overthink it, just try to do it.

In Mr. Qin's book, I summarized that changing fate is 12 words: filial piety to parents, brotherhood, and love between husband and wife. If you do these three things well, you can change your destiny and make the road simpler!

I'm going to try to do it well. I'm glad I've always been filial. Dad has been sick for more than eight months, I have not given up, I have been back for more than a month a year ago, and I can take care of more than I can.

It didn't take long for me to go out to work. In my heart, I felt that the time at home was too fast. There are too few to accompany and take care of your parents.

Cherish every day! Thanksgiving parents! Be filial to your parents!

In the new year, try to make yourself better!

I listened to the book "You Are the Designer of Your Own Destiny" on the Himalayas, and I felt that this book was about feng shui, and it was also about being a person and doing things. The book mentions that as a wife, you should do your duty, praise your husband more, understand your husband's dedication more, and as a husband, of course, you also need to be a wife who praises herself in front of your children or parents, and understands that it is not easy for your wife. As a parent to educate their children, they should start from their own words and deeds, do more good deeds, do not do bad things, and set a good example for their children, so that they can truly teach by word and deed.

Between brothers and sisters, you need me to let you, and I let you live in harmony, and you can't forget the brotherhood between you for the sake of earning things or fighting for family property; As children, they should be filial to their parents, understand their parents, think more about their parents, and do more things that their parents like, instead of dedicating things to their parents with what they like, and this kind of imposed filial piety is not real filial piety.

In the book, friends also said that good feng shui is family harmony, you love me, I love you, brothers and sisters tolerate each other, the yang energy in the family will become more and more vigorous, and it will definitely be able to suppress the evil energy, even if there are difficulties, when encountering bad things, as long as the family can unite and overcome difficulties.

1.To obtain the best Feng Shui, not in the house and ancestral tomb, the key is in one's own body, good deeds, thinking is the root of the best Feng Shui, if you want to obtain the best Feng Shui, it is necessary to manage the three cornerstones of maintaining a good family:

Trouser curl 1The love of husband and wife.

2.Brotherhood.

3.Filial piety to parents.

The eyes should learn to laugh, the mouth should be kind words, the ears should be able to listen to good words, and the number of people should always think about people's kindness and goodness, which is called spotlight.

Words are all over the world without words, and deeds are all over the world without resentment).

Two. Laughter is the root of fine feng shui, as the saying goes: there is a seat in heaven for a smile, and a sorrow for hell is open.

Three. Honoring one's parents should do four things:

1.Adoptive Parents' Aspirations.

2.Adoptive parents.

3.The heart of an adoptive parent.

4.The spirit of adoptive parents.

Four. The feng shui of the pure house affects about 60% of a person's luck, but only affects a person's life, and the feng shui of the ancestral tomb affects about 40% of a person's luck, but affects five generations.

Five. The importance of a home is mainly reflected in:

1.Wealth. 2.Wenchang bit.

3.Talent position.

Six. If you want to get the best feng shui, you must have family harmony, and family harmony can be resolved even if you encounter an evil feng shui pattern.

Last year, I read a book called "You Are the Designer of Your Own Destiny", which was compiled by volunteers who admired Qin Dongkui based on the recording of his speech, and Mr. Ren Dengdi wrote the preface. Mr. Ren called this book a veritable book of sages.

Is man's wealth predestined? Is longevity predestined? Isn't it possible for everyone to change their own destiny? Is a governor born a governor, a minister born a minister, and a beggar born a beggar?

The Book of Changes says, "The house of goodness must have afterglow; and the house of the ungood will be destroyed." That is to say, the family that does good deeds will have auspicious celebrations, and the families of Yechaqi who do evil deeds will have aftermath. Many people's lives have ups and downs, and when they encounter unsatisfactory conditions, they will burn incense and kowtow, and ask for immortals and gods.

Did it work? God, no Bodhisattva, no god can bless us, "there is no way for good or evil, only people call themselves", it has nothing to do with heaven and earth, ghosts and gods, it has nothing to do with Feng Shui, it has nothing to do with our own behavior, we can only rely on our own deeds.

So, how to change fate?

In this book, Qin Dongkui tells people that the superior destiny lies in themselves, the harmony between husband and wife is the beginning of a prosperous career, and filial piety and ancestor worship are the foundation of family prosperity. Blessing is not sought, blessed people live in blessed land, blessed land and blessed people live. The five senses of a person contain the code to change fate, and the family can resolve all disasters.

The eyes should learn to laugh, the mouth should speak kindly, the ears should be able to listen to good words, be able to distinguish evil words, sit quietly and always think about one's own faults, and always think about the good of others, this is called spotlight. Filial piety to parents, husband and wife love, brotherhood, these three cornerstones, is the key to changing the fate, good management, maintain the family relationship these three cornerstones, your good luck will naturally come.

The magic weapon to change fate mentioned in this book, like Mr. Wang Fengyi and Liu Shanren, is the true inheritance of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism classics that are carriers of traditional Chinese culture, and they are all the outpouring of self-nature and the crystallization of immeasurable wisdom. It can be called a sharp tool for people to solve problems, and it is people's greatest spiritual enjoyment, which makes people see clearly and feel happy.