How to have an icy character, what is the character of an indifferent person?

Fantasy, or that you look at the unique temperament of others, and then you have to have a temperament than others, in this way, it is like saying that you are the phoenix among people, or the dragon among people, and then train yourself, if the family conditions are better, you will learn some etiquette, or learn some tea ceremony, which is better for self-cultivation, and it is easier to devote yourself to it.

Like me, I don't know myself, because I have read countless people, so all kinds of people have seen it, sometimes because I am very strong, so sometimes I see that kind of arrogant people are more arrogant than them, and then they have to be very temperamental, so, if you have a cold character, you can train yourself, try not to do more contact with the crowd, and then study yourself!!

Because I don't know how to describe it, let's experience it for myself!!

On the first floor, you said that it was a monk.

Don't ask any more questions, and don't ask any more questions. Even if you have hemorrhoids, don't say you've used Ma Yinglong. Even if you like to drink, don't say you know Wuliangye.

Ignore what you see and refuse all that is given

Why is it cold? I've become very cheerful myself, but there are still times when people who meet me for the first time think I'm cold... I want to ask why (maybe I'm cold from the bottom of my bones).

To be a cold person, as if there is nothing, I hope you are just joking for a while...

Dizzy! Does the quality of learning have anything to do with the cold personality?

All you want is how to concentrate on your studies! There's no need to turn yourself into that kind of person.

99% of the cold personality is caused by family reasons, such as children from single-parent families"Icy cold".

Don't like things. Don't be sad.

Stand out from it all. The seven emotions and six desires are all other things.

Is this still human?

I rub ... It's good not to talk, not to laugh wow. But that's also superficial.

If you want to become like this in your heart, hehehe.

The personality of an indifferent person: he talks little, he doesn't like to laugh, he doesn't know how to love people, he doesn't care about anything, and this type of person tends to have a small social circle.

Indifference is "expressionless, very cold, don't like to talk, don't know how to care about others, don't know how to love others, don't care about anything", the real character of indifference, I think it should be like setting up a door for yourself in your heart, locking a lock, not letting others into yourself.

The real personality is indifferent and easy to lose his temper with others, in essence, he is losing his temper with himself, but he wants to communicate with others, which is very contradictory, which has a lot to do with the environment in which he grew up.

In fact, people who are indifferent in their hearts are often more difficult to detect, and they will participate in various activities and gatherings like ordinary people, and behave like ordinary people.

However, at the same time of in-depth communication, it is often more difficult to find topics that the indifferent person will talk about, and it will be obvious that the indifferent person has few words, has always been in the position of an observer, and the way of speaking is different from the indifference of ordinary people, but an attitude that does not care about the feelings of others. When talking to people who are indifferent in their hearts, you can feel the coldness that emanates from the bottom of your heart.

Coldness It refers to a person's personality is very quiet and indifferent, unwilling to communicate with others, relatively cold and vulgar, and cold.

The cold personality is related to the growth environment and the idea of looking at things, generally an unhappy childhood, or the education of parents, resulting in a cold temperament, this kind of person is usually cold on the outside and hot on the inside, although it is slow to warm strangers, but if it is a good friend, it is also sincere.

Because of the lack of security in the heart, the fear of injury, and the unwillingness to invest easily, it is difficult to reveal a cold temperament without this quality in the bones!

Gao Leng, I'm not interested in anything.

In general, basic desires and basic fears emerge, the self replaces the true self, the self is over-inflated, the self-defense mechanism appears, the psychology becomes unbalanced, it is easy to conflict with others, in order to satisfy the basic desires, it is possible to harm others at all costs, and it is easy to succumb to the shadow of society, and the advantages of personality are not fully utilized.

Severe cases can lead to psychosis and even self-destruction. When the personality is extremely healthy and unhealthy, there is a phenomenon of integration and falling, which can lead to misjudging the basic personality of the person, especially when it is extremely healthy.

The characteristics of inner indifference are: not talking much, not laughing, not knowing how to love people, and not caring about anything, such people tend to have a small social circle.

In fact, people who are indifferent are often more difficult to detect, they will participate in various activities and gatherings like ordinary people, and behave like ordinary people, but at the same time of in-depth communication, it is often more difficult for people with indifferent hearts to find topics that people with indifferent hearts will talk about.

It will be obvious that the indifferent person has very few words, is always in the position of an observer, and speaks in a way that is different from the indifference of ordinary people, but an attitude that does not care about the feelings of others. When talking to people who are indifferent in their hearts, you can feel the coldness that emanates from the bottom of your heart.

People who are indifferent on the surface seem to be no different from others, and people who are indifferent on the surface tend to be calmer on the surface. People who are indifferent in their hearts are not really indifferent, people who are indifferent in their hearts are not like people who are indifferent on the outside, and people who are indifferent in their hearts often have layers of things in their hearts to wrap themselves, which makes people who are indifferent in their hearts have been trying to protect the private land in their hearts when they get along with everyone, and do not let everyone dig into their inner world, and people who are indifferent in their hearts are often more afraid of being hurt.

Therefore, people who are indifferent in their hearts are more difficult to detect, and people who are indifferent in their hearts will participate in various activities and gatherings like ordinary people, and behave no different from ordinary people, but at the same time of communication, it is often more difficult for everyone to enter the topic of indifferent people, and everyone will always feel that there are few words of indifferent people, as if there is nothing to say, and the way of speaking will not be as peaceful as ordinary people.

Apathetic people have a cowardly character, and they do not dare to lend a helping hand when they encounter someone in need because they are afraid of losing themselves. It's not that they don't have a sense of justice, but after choosing to ignore and develop a habit in the face of others' plight for a long time, they have weakened their inner morality to judge themselves, and they will never seek justice again.

Apathetic people are more remote and selfish. Maybe it's because they have been treated unfairly for a long time, which makes them have a bad mentality and are occupied by negative energy. He will be more indifferent to others, thinking about what is going on with me, and he will turn a blind eye to everything that happens to others.

Ruthless people generally have the following characteristics:

First, too rational, reasonable and not emotional, this kind of person has a more old-fashioned personality, as long as it is the thing he recognizes, it is almost not mixed with any emotion, of course, due to excessive reasoning, there is a little less warmth, and it is difficult to get close to people.

Second, the personality is more direct, and it is particularly strange, this kind of person in the process of interacting with others, never intercede and speak straightforwardly, and rarely scruples and consider the faces of others, and do things ruthlessly.

Third, there is relatively little language, rarely communicates with people, looks indifferent on the outside, and the thoughts are also changeable.

A person with an indifferent personality feels that other people's affairs have nothing to do with him, will not waste time on others, and will not care about other people's opinions, go his own way, keep a distance from others, have a cold personality, and are not enthusiastic about people.

People with an indifferent personality seem to be very hostile to others, and they don't like anyone, and they don't really treat a person, they don't consider the feelings of others, and they only care about their own thoughts.

People with an indifferent personality will not get very close to people, and they don't like to have physical contact with others, such as walking too close to each other, talking and laughing, they won't do this, they feel very rational, and people have a sense of distance.

People with indifferent personalities don't care about others, and they don't say very warm words, as if they are not interested in anything, and after marrying such a person, they can't feel each other's love, and they feel very cold and ruthless, like two strangers together, without a little warmth.

I think people with a cold personality are very difficult to get along with, and you will only come into contact with you if you go into his heart and think that you are a good person. If you are a very humorous person, you can joke with him a lot, although he will ignore you, he will slowly feel your sadness, so that you will become good friends.

A person's indifferent personality, I believe it is more caused by acquired environmental factors, due to various reasons that lead to his current character condition, but the nature of these people is also part of enthusiasm. So you can observe his interests more, start from his interests, and then have the opportunity to communicate more with him.

Maybe she just has a cold personality, but people actually get along okay. When I was in high school, I was a woman at the same table, very autistic, not very communicative with people, I think he may be a little cold, after trying to communicate with him directly, slowly a little bit to get along with him, show your friendliness, sense of humor, let him feel that you are not deliberately close, express your sincerity, so that you will be close, and it will be convenient to communicate.

Most people with an apathetic personality are actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and they are very fragile on the inside, because few people are able to enter their hearts.

So with such people, you just need to know a little bit about them, to get to know them and to get to know them and get into their hearts.

When you get to know him and think from his point of view, you can become close friends.

In fact, if you want to get along with people with indifferent personalities, we must have a suitable method, in my opinion, people with indifferent personalities generally like to associate with people with more enthusiastic personalities, which may be opposites attracting, so we must treat everyone around us with our sincerity, so that we can get along well.

I don't think this kind of person is really indifferent, it's just that he's not good at communicating and expressing himself. In fact, it's not that this kind of person can't chat, but it takes time to get familiar with it, and after getting acquainted, it will slowly get better, so getting along with this kind of person requires patience.

For a person with an indifferent personality, they are insecure, lack of communication and care, in the face of such a person, you want to be good friends with him, then you must pay more patience, careful, care more about him, take care of him, communicate with him more, express your thoughts, let him feel your heart, and slowly open his heart.

Some people are more enthusiastic and cheerful, and some people are cold, and they are reluctant to express their emotions too much and reveal too much about their lives in many cases.

Then when we communicate with these people, we also try not to participate too much in some chats in private life.

In addition, if you have some sense of distance and respect for these people, they will be very easy to accept you and be willing to have a private communication with you.

Ahem, indifferent people want to be divided, one is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, sometimes it is a straight man and a straight woman, this kind of person doesn't have to worry too much, this kind of person either likes to be alone, likes to think, you have something to find him, it's good to chat occasionally if you have nothing to do, there is a distance but not far, or it is the kind of person who is actually shy in his heart and does not dare to take the initiative to talk to others or take the initiative to find a topic, after slowly getting acquainted with it, this kind of person generally needs a heartless person to be a friend, and it is not suitable for those who are too sensitive, Each other will slow down and then inadvertently hurt each other.

A kind of indifferent person is probably the kind of person who is a little selfish, only sees himself in everything, not that kind of spiritual cleanliness, but that kind of refined egoism, it is recommended that such a person should not have interests entangled when getting along, it will be very unpleasant.

Summary. In our daily lives, we should consciously reinforce our loving behavior. When we see someone in need, whether or not we can stir up some waves in our hearts, we should tell ourselves that they need help and think about what we can do.

Such a conscious appeal to ourselves allows us to strengthen our ability to empathize. Over time, helping others becomes our habit. At that time, the indifferent character can also be resolved.

Hello to change the cold character, the most important thing is to open your heart and feel the temperature of the outside world of the spine Indifferent people, perhaps affected by the environment that grew up in the world, always feel that the outside world is so cold, and over time, I also believe that there is no warmth in this world, in response to such a situation, why not open your heart, with practical actions, boldly feel the warmth of the outside world.

In our daily lives, we should consciously force and dissipate our loving behavior. When we see someone in need, whether or not we can stir up some waves in our hearts, we should tell ourselves that they need help and think about what we can do. Such a conscious appeal to ourselves can quietly strengthen our ability to empathize.

Over time, helping others becomes our habit. At that time, the indifferent character can also be resolved.

A lot of times, an indifferent person is looking at every thing that happens around him as a bystander. The solution to this is to learn to put yourself in their shoes. If we want to truly care about others, we must stand in the shoes of others, empathize, think for others, feel the psychology of others from the perspective of others, so as to realize that everyone wants to be cared for and helped, and then change their own indifference.

Cons bend and collapse. Subject says I'm cold all day long, what should I do?

This situation is that he doesn't feel your love for him.

I don't feel that you care about him in every detail.

But I've done a good job, but she still doesn't think I love her enough.

You have to start with the details.

Girls love details.

What does he think you're not doing well enough? What kind of things do you usually quarrel about?