Do we continue with SOS 15

One is in the south and the other is in the north, the distance is not too far, and many couples are separated due to the problem of distance. Of course, if you are sure, you should seize the opportunity. Don't let yourself regret it for the rest of your life.

If you have the opportunity, you have to seize it, and now you have waited for 4 years, and now the opportunity comes, but you choose to give up, so you have waited for 4 years in vain?

Give each of you a little time, everyone calm down, and think a little more clearly!

If, after a period of time, neither of them can forget, then let's be together!

See if you can be in one place if you have the opportunity, otherwise even if you talk, the distance will dilute the feelings, not to mention that you don't know what kind of psychology she is, if I used to be in love, not in a place of love, it doesn't matter if there is more or less one, I won't be serious.

This friend, what you said above is not very clear, we can't understand it, we can't help you, I'm sorry!

Go ahead!!! Love is in your own hands.

If you really don't feel anything about him, I advise you to tell him clearly, let him die, from your words, I can see that you care about this friend, in the perspective of a friend, you don't hesitate, so you will hurt him! Of course, whether he really likes you or not, after all, you can't know a person's heart without much understanding of reality, can you?

I think if he agrees to you being friends, you tell him not to say those things again, and if not, I advise you to be strangers! Good for both sides! You tell me?

If you don't feel, just be a good friend. You don't have to be too hard to avoid strengthening yourself, feelings are all things that can't come reluctantly. "He doesn't bother my life in reality", that's enough to be a good friend.

However, it is best not to meet each other, and to talk less about sensitive topics, so as to avoid illusions. In fact, it is rare to have a friend to talk to on the Internet. Unless, he's always pestering and courting you.

This is just my personal opinion.

If he really loves you, he will understand what you mean. If his love for you has changed, it's best not to contact you. Everybody has a friend to talk to, but not necessarily a lover, you know what I mean.

Maybe being a stranger is also a good choice.

Hehe, it seems to be very similar to me, I chatted with a netizen who came to talk more, every time I said that I wanted to meet her, he refused, I don't know why, maybe meeting doesn't mean anything, you won't have results, maybe you don't want to be friends, but you are still friends in the end. That's all.

Sometimes it's because you like it because you get used to it, not because you like it!

Time will prove everything, whether you love or not, you won't know until you meet another person. Maybe your so-called fading means less communication, maybe your relationship is fading, but it's definitely not because you don't love anymore because you're used to it!

Give everyone some time to think about what to do in the future, calm down, and then find a time for you to talk well, and you still have to communicate more and understand each other in the future, every man hopes that his girlfriend can understand things.

Then find something to do to sublimate your feelings.

The relationship is like this after the hot love period.

The hardest part of love is also here.

Only when separated can we know that they are inseparable. The 4th floor is right.

Don't give up.

The process of a boy chasing a girl is that after doing all the things that have lost power and humiliated the country, he can finally start doing things that have no conscience.

Do you think he's still nostalgic for you?

This one is the most important.

Since they already think that you are not suitable. So why get married? Just because you break up doesn't mean you're not responsible.

It just means that you like the word marriage very much. You want your wife to be someone who loves you and is a good fit for you. But if you don't know the consequences for your girlfriend.

How do I talk to my family? You can talk to them. Say she's not for you.

We have a lot of differences. If you get married, it can only be said to be a harm to both parties. As long as you insist.

Regardless of the opposition of the family. Wait for their understanding.

Leaving her should be a little hurt. After all, I've been in love for 4 years. But you said it.

You feel like she doesn't love you. You're already starting to doubt the love between you. Is it necessary to continue this love?

I'm afraid that the suspicion will continue as wellIf it continues. You will cause her more damage to her.

Suppose you are married and divorced. Think about it? You are divorced people.

Isn't it a stain on anyone's future?

Let's break up.

I think it's weird. Here you say that you are tired of feelings, but then you say that she doesn't love you anymore?? It's you who want to escape. If you don't love it, you can quickly say it and let them go.

4 years is nothing compared to a lifetime, and since you are tired of it, of course you can't force it!

Get out of the way for a while.

It's going to be fine. It will be fine to separate for a while.

You have the idea of divorce I really don't know what to say, personal opinion, don't be too impulsive, experts are advised"Try to divorce", at least this gives everyone a chance, and there will be no regrets in the future.

Another way is to see a psychiatrist together and talk to see if you can change him!

Ask yourself in your heart, what is the purpose of marrying him, if you quarrel because you care, you have feelings for each other, then you will make adjustments appropriately, and if you are just tired of understanding each other and can't accept each other, then it doesn't make much sense to continue, if you still have nostalgia for marriage, then live well, if both of you feel hard, it's better to make a break as soon as possible, at least you won't be sorry for yourself.

Bear with each other and understand each other.

If you want me to see it, such a man is not worthy of you to continue to walk with him.

But feelings are always something that others can't interfere with, and if you want to, no matter what others say, it's superfluous.

I just can't understand why you can't make up your mind to leave him when you're tired, what's so good about him that you are so reluctant to give up??

If you don't listen to your friends, or ignore the admonitions of your parents, relatives and friends, will you accept our opinions?!

Be brave! It's not that you can't do without him, and you leave to make yourself happier.

Listen to you or not.

The person you are talking about seems to be the same kind of person as the person next to my friend, and our friend can see it very clearly, so why can't the person concerned see it clearly? Let's separate, everyone is not tired.

If you love him, go on.

If it's worth it, go for it.

You are young and haven't experienced too many hardships in life.

And he's different.

If you really love each other, please cherish it.

You also have to take into account his feelings.

Of course, when you are free, the two of you will have a good talk, communicate and communicate, increase each other's common topics, and strive to solve your troubles in a happy conversation, and wish the landlord good luck.

He's divorced and has children, LZ you don't mind.

He's not successful in his career right now, and you don't seem to care too much.

I don't think the difference in age is a problem, it's just that people who have problems with themselves take it as a problem.

He tells you that letting go seems to be a good man, but a person is afraid of being alone.

LZ You are under pressure and want to get angry, which means that there is still hope in your heart.

This kind of thing is really difficult, and it is really difficult for us outsiders to say anything in the face of the worldly eyes in society.

Ask yourself in your heart If you really love him and really can't bear him, just keep going, but in the process of persevering, you have to slowly enlighten him, tell him what you think in your heart, and hope that he can change, if you really don't love and are tired, I think you better let go as soon as possible Men can afford to drag Women don't have the time and youth to drag From your description, I personally think that the man doesn't seem to have much love for you It's just a personal feeling In fact, both men and women will be bound by their own children I think maybe his heart lies in his more children, and he may sometimes ignore you, and it's up to you, and it's really tiring to be a stepmother, but it's very happy to be a successful stepmother (which is also sweat and hard work), and you just think about it yourself.

You love him, there must be something worth loving in him, some of the current marriages are very realistic, simple love is very pale in front of reality, I feel that you should be realistic, marriage includes a lot of things, not only you love him or he loves you, but also the combination of two families, I personally artificial, in some cases without the support or consent of parents, this kind of marriage is sometimes very tiring.

If you choose to continue to be cowardly, I can think that his bad temper is caused by your weakness, so you should deal with it reasonably. It's all up to you

Excessive permissiveness is called indulgence, and it is not good for you or her to go on like this.

I have a friend who is good to his girlfriend, better than you, their home is far away, my friend is a man, he has to go to class in the morning, he is afraid that his girlfriend will be hungry, so he gets up at 4 o'clock in the morning and drives to buy it early and send it to his girlfriend's house. If you are used to it, you will be energetic. Later, the woman also mentioned breaking up, saying that the man didn't know anything about it.

I'll tell him that you will be cold to her for two days, don't always take the initiative to send her a message and call **, habits have become natural, and you can't wait for the skin to be on your face. Afterward. A few days later he came to thank me, you know what I mean.

It's up to you to do it yourself.

First of all, I understand you very well, you can really love someone to the point of selflessness, and I believe you are willing to do anything for her. Such a person doesn't know how to cherish you As you said If this kind of thing happens once in a while, it can only mean that she is more arrogant and jokes with you without thinking carefully If you talk about it often, I suggest that you break it up With your character, there is no way to go on with her Blindly tolerating will only make you less and less confident If a man doesn't even have self-confidence Then what else is there to say What can't hurt a man's self-esteem She doesn't give you face shows that she doesn't love you! What else is there to give to someone who doesn't love you?

Oh, it's easy to solve if she's a girl, and girls love duplicity. There were some things she didn't want to say. Instead, I'm embarrassed to speak.

She may be testing you to see if you have a heart-to-heart with her. But you never understood what she meant. Scolding you"Thirty-eight"The shallow lines are"Dislike.

Why doesn't he understand it yet? "As a boy, you need to be proactive. Be careful.

See what she's thinking? It would be nice to communicate a lot.

You'd better forget it, it's not worth it! If people don't have you in their hearts, what's the point of your wishful thinking? Don't let the idol dramas on TV be stupid, how can there be so many idealistic and romantic things in real life?

Falling in love is a matter of two people.

It should be based on mutual respect.

It's up to you to decide whether or not to do it.

LZ is too cautious, this little thing is depressing, I think it's funny. How is it possible to be together without friction and without jokes? To love each other is to learn to be tolerant.

If you really feel that the other person doesn't love you anymore, just wait for the relationship to break off. If you really love her, reflect on what you have done.

Women are coaxing, but not conniving, and must have their own principles.

To change yourself and love others, you must first love your own dignity, and if you love her for 3 points, it will already be good.

I suggest you break up, a man should be able to afford to let go, and the other party is not so desperate to love you. You must understand that men have to do a lot of things every day, because their burden is very heavy, and they can be said to be the pillars of the family, you must know that what you want is someone who can understand you and care about you, not to tell you that this is not good or that is not good for you one day. Do some soul-searching and find someone who loves you, not someone you love.

Take a look.

Leave her with her Even if you care about her, don't show it.

If she cares about you, she'll show it.

On the other hand, let her go.

In this way, there is no need to break such a situation between the two at the beginning.

It's terrible....How can you pinch like this....

Some deep feelings need to be cultivated, but if they still don't exist after a period of time, then give up.

Maybe it's because the feelings are not deep, but if you have this mentality, I think it's better to give up early.

You can understand your feelings.

She is a grape on the road of your life, a grape that is not suitable for you, and there are many grapes behind you, which are suitable for you in the back.

Relationships are subject to change over time, experience, economy, power, feelings, and other factors, can you guarantee that you will still be able to maintain this relationship after five years?

Judging from her experience, she is a girl who is not dedicated enough to her feelings, your feelings for each other are not enough to support you together, two people together need to respect and understand each other, trust and tolerance, care and consideration, two people with different personalities, different family environments to grow up, together is the need to understand each other, different culture and education level is also a factor that affects each other's considerations, values, and other things, marriage is the need to operate, feelings are the basic economy is the link, communication and exchange is the bridge.

She is not suitable for you, you have to distinguish what is love and what is sympathy, and at the same time, you also have to think clearly, whether you can bear the impact of her past on you, whether you can deal with the problem of thought and reality.

Her life is determined by herself, your life is decided by yourself, you don't want to be naïve and naïve to think that there will be a good result with her, you have no experience, just simply consider the emotional factor, marriage is not just this point, it is two families, it is to consider the social environment, the living environment, consider the views and feelings of others, so it is not a simple problem.

The deeper level is that you have to think about your next generation, you have to think about genetics.

So you have to think through and make the right decision.

I believe you will make the right decision and be happy every day!