Why do people born in the 80s feel tired in life now?

People in the 80s are now almost all old and young, and now the work pressure is high, the price is high, and it is normal to feel tired in life.

Because people born in the 80s are in the stage, the pressure of work, the pressure of life, so they will feel more tired.

Because it is developing very rapidly now, it is completely different from the life at that time, and it will be somewhat uncomfortable.

Because people born in the eighties are now in their thirties, their children are in school, and their parents are old, so the pressure is particularly high.

Maybe it's because life is more stressful, after all, it's going to be very hard.

The reason why I feel tired in life may be because the post-80s generation is now in the stage of being old and young, and then there is a lot of pressure.

In fact, the life of the post-80s generation is still relatively hard, they have people in their 60s, and then they have teenagers, so they will really feel tired.

There will always be some post-80s people who feel that life is more tired, because they have to support both the elderly and children, which will be more difficult.

Some post-80s people feel tired in life because their lives are particularly stressful now, and they have reached a certain age. I will feel that my current life is very tiring.

They are basically middle-aged now, and their family pressure, or life pressure, and work pressure are very high, so they will feel tired in life.

Because the life of the post-80s generation is relatively tiring, and life is quite tiring. The pressure on them is also high.

The post-80s generation has unconsciously passed half of our lives, and we live in such a competitive society today. We deeply lamented that the life of our post-80s generation is really difficult. This hardship is what today's reality has given us.

We are desperate or desperate. But our desperate efforts still can't change our sad reality.

Most of today's post-80s generation can be said to have started a family. We carry the responsibilities of family on our backs. There are elderly parents on top and children waiting to be breastfed, and it is very stressful.

But reality is reality, and we have to face it. Now burdened with our post-80s generation, there are too many reasons for the pressure. Today, I will discuss with you the reasons why we are most stressed after the 80s.

One is that today's housing prices are too high. By the time we got married, China's housing prices have always been the best operation. How many of our friends have worked hard outside and still can't afford a house.

I'm still wandering outside. Who doesn't want to have a home away from home? This feeling can only be experienced by the post-80s generation, because we are experiencing it.

Second, there is fierce competition for work. Especially for the post-80s generation from the deep mountains, many of our friends may go out to work after graduating from junior high school in order to reduce the burden on their families, but in today's society, we will find that our education level is low at work. It is difficult to find a relatively high-paying job in a big city.

Many of my friends are basically working on the assembly line of the factory. At the very base of the factory, they do the hardest work, taking the lowest wage. But that's the reality.

Many of our post-80s friends are helpless. But it also has to be faced. Because we have a lot of responsibilities and obligations.

Had to go and persevere.

Third, it is more difficult to marry a wife, and when it comes to marrying a wife, the bride price in various places is rising. Tens of thousands, tens of thousands, and even hundreds of thousands. As a post-80s generation, we are really under pressure.

The post-80s generation who have no backing, according to the current requirements of this kind of bride price, there are many friends who are difficult to marry wives. This is a big thing that makes our post-80s generation feel anxious, but very helpless. Because today's girls are relatively demanding.

If you have a car, a house, and a deposit, you are handsome. Therefore, for us post-80s, this is a very difficult thing to achieve if we rely on our own efforts. So now some post-80s generations are desperate to give up the idea of marrying a wife.

It's not that they don't want to start a family, marry a wife and have children. Rather, it was defeated by the most realistic present. It's really sad and helpless.

The above three points are basically the practical difficulties that every post-80s generation has to face. I don't know if you have experienced the above three difficulties. But as a person in the mountains, I have a deep understanding of these three points.

Because of these three points, the post-80s generation has been given too much pressure and trouble. But the post-80s generation has to face it again. Because to survive, we have to continue to work hard.

Have you experienced any of these three points?

There are about 200 million post-80s generation in China, and they are the only child generation under the family planning policy. The pressure on the life of the post-80s generation is huge, bearing the pressure of an aging population and housing loans. Here's an explanation of the situation:

After the three major sources of stress.

The first place is work, and people think that the pressure comes from "the pressure of work, and it is too difficult to make a career"; In second place is the burden of living, and people believe that the pressure comes from "the pressure of living economically, such as buying a house, a car, raising children, etc."

In third place is the social evaluation system, and some people think that the pressure comes from "social pressure, tired to breathless"; At the end of the list is the expectations of parents, and some people feel that "parents have too high expectations of themselves".

2. House slaves. The survey found that eighty percent of the "post-80s" had a deposit of less than 100,000 yuan, which was not enough to make a down payment, and buying a house was obviously an unbearable burden.

Thirty-four percent chose to rent, 18 percent chose to live with their parents, only 29 percent bought a house and made a down payment, and only 14 percent paid off the mortgage. Regarding the money to buy a house, 26% of the people are "most funded by their parents, and a small part of their own (including spouse) savings", and only 14% are fully funded by their parents and relatives, and only 14% are paid by themselves.

Due to the shyness of money, some people claim that they will not buy a car in the past two years, and only 29% of car owners. In other words, only 3 out of 10 post-80s have cars.

3. Eighty percent of the post-80s generation has a monthly salary of less than 10,000 yuan.

More than half of the post-80s interviewed were born between 1986 and 1989, and they are mainly concentrated in China's first-tier cities and small and medium-sized cities, of which nearly half of the post-80s work in private enterprises, and state-owned enterprises and institutions account for two percent each. 42% of the people have a monthly income between 3,000 yuan and 5,999 yuan, with 2,999 yuan and 6,000 yuan to 9,999 yuan each.

I lived with my grandmother since I was a child, and my grandmother told me a lot about their previous lives, when they were engaged in collective production; Lack of food and clothing; There are many children in the family, and when the family eats, there is always a pot of water and only a small bowl of rice, and the children always have to argue that they are hungry; I really didn't have anything to eat, so I went to the mountains everywhere to dig wild vegetables and cut elm bark, and at that time a bowl of white rice and dry rice might not be eaten for the New Year; If you are sick, you can only drag it, and grandpa left when his father was only 9 years old because of this; At that time, the life of the family was even more difficult, but fortunately, after the reform and opening up, the land was contracted to the household, and life gradually improved. But grandma didn't enjoy a few years of good fortune... Dad also often told me about the hard life in the past, Dad only went out alone after the first year of junior high school, his grades were still very good at that time, he didn't want to study, but the scoundrel of life and the burden of the family; I'm doing well now, but whenever I hear my dad tell me about this; Although I said that the age was different, I knew that my father had pinned all his dreams on me...

Maybe I will never be able to live that kind of hard life, but I know that what the last few generations have experienced is something that we can't say and can't finish. Maybe we are really in the midst of blessings and don't know the blessings!

You can live how you want to live, you think too much, because there are many high-tech products that bring us too much convenience, and you think about how you can live without these things. It's like saying, you made a mistake and then saying what I thought in the first place. You say it's not hehe.

When you don't know what a light bulb is, how can you worry about running out of candles?

Most people born in the 80s also have their own families and stable careers.

The post-80s generation, who are in the stage between 30 and 40 years old in life, are actually in the most difficult stage of life; After getting married, you need to face the problem of having children, and you also have to take care of two families, and you have to work hard, the parents start to get old and the children start to grow up, and the pressure of work and family piles up all at once.

The rising standard of living is also forcing them to work harder, and the parents of the children also need to take care of them.

My mother was born in the 80s, and when she was a child, she had many brothers and sisters in the family, and her life was miserable and she suffered a lot of grievances.

Now that my life is richer, my standard of living has improved, I am also married and have children, and my mother has reached retirement age.

Nowadays, she has a very chic life, dancing square dances with a group of peers in the community square all day long, full of energy, the whole person is much more energetic, and I feel more energetic than me.

Most of the people born in the 80s are married now, right? Of course, there are a few people who are more stubborn and still not married, so the gap between their lives should be particularly large, some people are still single and pursue what they want to pursue, and they are relatively anxious about getting married, but some people have begun to live a good life, a safe and stable life, and the children are several years old, after all, the time period of this condition in the 80s is still very long, so the gap between their lives is also very large.

People born in the 80s are now as young as 30 years old. My lobby brother is 89 years old, and now at the age of 30, he has a family, a virtuous wife, two sensible children, a happy family, and his career is relatively successful, and recently he is considering the expansion of the factory. So I think his life is still very good now, after all, he has a successful career and a happy family.

I am a person in the mid-80s, and now my life is plain and happy, I have my own small family with children, and I work every day, and my children and housework are the three main aspects. Sometimes I will be confused, I will think that my dream has gone, and whether I have the ability to realize it; Most of the time, they will be very patient to play with their children, and occasionally when the children are bitter and can't be coaxed, they will have a breakdown and will hold the children and cry; It's good to cry, and it will never take days to adjust to crying like a long time ago; Looking at Bensi's self, I will comfort myself many times, such days are also very good, don't think too much.

After the 80s, they are now married and have children. For them, life is a fight, not only for the individual, but also for the family. They have a bright future because the post-00s were born!

Life is very fulfilling, the children have grown up, and they also have their own jobs and careers.