Alas, I m not in a good mood, I feel that the future is very confused, and my dreams are far away, c

A person's optimism and flexibility are more practical than going to college.

As long as you learn to be optimistic and flexible, you will naturally find a way to live, get ahead, and have a happy family.

I read your narrative carefully.

First of all, you have a good cultural foundation. So, you have to take advantage of it.

Secondly, you have an undecided girlfriend who loves you very much, and it is not easy to meet someone who loves you for a lifetime.

Again, you are a good young man who is motivated, and your biggest problem at this stage is your mobile phone SIM card. The internet card you have in your hand is like a demon for a high school student who is about to decide his or her lifelong destiny. It can also be said to be one of your demons.

You can go to the Internet anytime, and when you are admitted to the ideal university, you can go to it as much as you want. 、

Now, this internet card, not only disrupts your mind and distracts you, but also seriously affects your sleep time and rest time.

Therefore, you must make up your mind to cancel the Internet traffic, if you are worried that you will open the Internet traffic again, then I recommend that you change to a mobile phone that cannot access the Internet, such as Nokia 1208 is good, only more than 100 yuan.

In the meantime, it is recommended that you take a good look at the movie Butterfly Effect 1. If you don't understand it, read it several times.

A small decision you make now may be able to change the course of your life.

Finally, on the question of the Chinese People's University, people are doing it, and the sky is watching.

So, it's useless to be in a hurry.

As long as you work hard and take one step at a time, you can get closer and closer to your ideal university.

Otherwise, it will only get farther and farther away.

I wish you good luck.

Don't think so much about things in love, you are not young, focus on learning first, love can be discussed, but you can't be too involved.

Find a job first, or find a goal first, for example, if you fall in love with a woman who is desperate for herself, then you have to fight if you want to get it.

Looking for a job first is to prepare for a rainy day, because without money, you can't do anything, Harvard University has a motto, when you realize that the moment is never too late, that is the beginning, I recommend that you pack up your mood and start anew in life.

25 years old is very young, because I am young, I am confused, but after the confusion, we have to set goals, take one step at a time, and we will definitely succeed.

First go to school, learn some technical secondary school, junior college and the like, and then go out to find a job.

The most important thing is to be honest, not narrow-minded, to be sincere, to learn to tolerate, to be modest and cautious, to be able to endure, not to be competitive, not greedy, not to worry about gains and losses with others, to know how to care and considerate, etc., it is difficult to be a man, it is more difficult to be a good person, but it is not difficult to do anything well.

We must treat everything with a normal heart, and there is a saying called contentment and happiness.

When you meet someone you can trust, you have to get along with (her) well

When you meet a noble person, you must thank (her and him), and when you meet someone who does not trust you, you must examine yourself, and you must try to correct the reasons why you do not trust yourself, because only in this way can you know you and trust you again, and it is possible to become your friend.

When you meet someone you once hated, greet (her) with a smile; Because rotten (she, he) makes you stronger.

If you promise others, you have to do it, and if you can't do it, don't agree to it, and be honest and honest. Only honest people will be recognized by everyone, only continuous efforts and innovation will have new harvests, do not be pessimistic, with their own minds and hands to change their own destiny.

You have to do what you want others to do to you.

If you want to treat others as you would like to be treated, you have to treat them as you would like to be treated. Do this and you will find that everyone is a friend of you. You will get real happiness and get real good friends.

We can't let difficulties and pain control ourselves, we must face everything with a strong posture, turn grief and sorrow into strength, let us share the joy of happiness together.

Most people are like this when you're young, make a few more friends, and friends can show you the way when you're struggling.