My girlfriend said that she didn t want to get married now, but she wanted to get engaged now, why?

The simplest, concise explanation is: I don't want to get married because I'm afraid of constraints, and I want to get engaged because I'm afraid that you'll run away.

Of course not, marriage is a very important thing, you must think about it before you can make a decision, marriage means that two people have to live together, bear everything together, engagement is not, in fact, engagement and falling in love are almost the same, engagement just wants to make a promise to you, if you don't even want to give her a promise, then how can she have the courage to marry you.

It's not to cheat the wedding ring, she is willing to get engaged to you, isn't it equivalent to agreeing to marry you?

Maybe it's just trying to put yourself at ease. After all, there are fewer things that can happen when you are engaged.

Don't think of women as worldly.

How much is a ring, 10,000 dollars.

It is a good thing to be deceived now, so as not to be deceived for the rest of your life.

You can't rule out the possibility that you're talking about, but it's possible that you think it's not the right time.

I think she has other ideas.

She is not willing to marry you.

But I want to have a spare tire.

But no one knows what the truth is.

I think you'll know if you communicate with her.

The wedding banquet is ready, and the girlfriend suddenly says that she doesn't want to get married, then the first thing is to figure out the situation of the two people, why the girlfriend suddenly feels that she doesn't want to get married, is it because she doesn't love anymore, or does she want to marry you, saying that the girlfriend has symptoms of fear of marriage, and then I will solve the problem according to this series of problems, if you really don't want to marry me and don't love anymore, then the wedding can be canceled.

I think before getting married, your girlfriend said that she didn't want to get married, in fact, it's still too late, you have to think carefully about whether your relationship with each other can really lead to marriage. You can ask your girlfriend what kind of concerns she has, and the two of you will make a decision after consultation.

I think your girlfriend has someone else in mind, so the twisted melon is not sweet, so I suggest that you should break up and cancel the wedding reception.

If our girlfriend suddenly tells us that she doesn't want to get married, it is likely that she is in a state of fear of marriage. We should calmly sit down with our girlfriend and talk about why she doesn't want to get married. At the same time, we must also patiently explain the current situation to the other person and tell the other person that we love her.

We should try our best to calm our girlfriend's emotions so that she can face the future optimistically.

You can have a good chat with your girlfriend to see why she doesn't want to get married, and calm her heart.

I think the two of them should postpone for a while, after all, to respect the real feelings of their girlfriends.

In your case, I think you can talk to your girlfriend and ask her what she really thinks and what she plans to do in the future.

Generally speaking, if you are engaged for about a year, you will definitely get married, you have been engaged for two years, and your girlfriend still doesn't want to get married, I think there will definitely be her own reasons. If her reasons are reasonable and acceptable, then you can wait a little longer, and if you feel that her reasons are unreasonable and just dragging out time, then I think you should think about the marriage of the two of you.

If your girlfriend may feel that the two of you are not in a suitable state to get married, you may not have the financial ability to be fully independent, or you may not have the kind of financial conditions that are completely suitable for marriage. She hopes that after you get married, you can have a real little life for the two of you, and you can live in a two-person world, and you don't have to worry about raising these children when you have children in the future. If that's the reason, I think you can work hard with your girlfriend for a few more years, improve your own conditions, and then get married, it's not too late, after all, if you really love each other, it's the same if you get married early or late.

But if your girlfriend can't say a particularly good reason, or her reason, which you can't believe, then I think he's really just dragging his feet. In fact, I have also met those who regret their marriage after they are engaged, and under normal circumstances, the party who regrets the marriage has to make a part of the compensation, and then the gift money and bride price that the other party gave before must be returned. She actually doesn't want to marry you now, but is just waiting for you to propose not to marry, so that he doesn't need to pay your part of the compensation anymore.

If that's really the case, then I don't think you really need to have a little bit of nostalgia for a woman like this.

I think in fact, if my girlfriend doesn't want to get married, it must be that he still has some unfulfilled wishes, or some regrets, I think in fact, at this time, you can take the initiative to ask him, why don't you want to get married, in fact, I think in the final analysis, you will definitely ask a reason, and then two people work together for this reason, and then solve it, in fact, I think that after all, both of them have been engaged for two years, and it will be really a little late if you don't get married, so if you can, We must solve that problem as soon as possible, then get married quickly, in fact, I think sometimes my girlfriend may feel that there is still a little bit of feeling between the two of you, anyway, she can give her whatever she wants.

And I think in fact, sometimes you just say that your girlfriend doesn't want to get married, have you proposed to her, maybe sometimes you didn't make that effort, so he was embarrassed to say anything, and then the two of you may not be too embarrassed to mention this matter, you quietly asked him if the two of you plan to get married, and you didn't propose to others, how could she marry you, really, in fact, sometimes I think a bigger proposal may be able for him to really agree, He may just need that feeling sometimes, and I think it's in your hands, give her a good proposal, maybe she'll marry you.

So let's see what kind of attitude your girlfriend has, I think you can actually propose to her first, if he doesn't agree, you ask him why he doesn't agree, and then see if there is any possibility that the two of them will continue to be together, and finally I hope you can hug the beauty as soon as possible.

According to the general custom, engagement is the prelude to marriage, as long as the engagement and marriage is just around the corner, and the interval between the two is generally not too long, most of them are within a year.

Because from an emotional point of view, since two people can choose to get engaged, they must have a very deep relationship and have gone in the direction of marriage, otherwise there can be no engagement. The engagement is bound to alarm both parents, and even many relatives and friends, and some engagements in the countryside require various ceremonies, which are even as grand as marriage. Therefore, if there is no real relationship, no couple will have enough to get engaged to make trouble for themselves.

From a reasonable point of view, since you are already engaged, you are basically sure to get married, so from the day of the engagement, you can start preparing for marriage. Whether it's preparing a wedding room, booking a hotel, taking wedding dresses, or placing invitations, no matter how much time you have to prepare, one year is enough.

Therefore, no matter how reasonable it is, it is really abnormal that you don't want to get married after two years of engagement. Faced with this situation, I think it is necessary for you to have a very serious conversation with your girlfriend to see what her reasons are for not wanting to get married.

If she is due to some objective conditions, such as dissatisfaction with what you have done or too busy with work, I think you can enlighten her as much as possible and help her solve her worries. Of course, the most important thing is to show that you really can't afford to wait, and if you don't get married, you even have to wonder if you can go on, and test her mind.

If she has changed her mind and regrets it after getting engaged, then please ask her to explain it to you as soon as possible, so that everyone can get together and disperse quickly, and don't drag others down.

Since your girlfriend is not ready to get married, then don't rush her, the more you push her, the more disgusted she will be. When she wants to get married, she will naturally marry you.

Maybe your girlfriend hasn't had enough of her current life, marriage is everyone's lifelong event, and you can't rush it, so you have to plan well, you should also understand your girlfriend, just don't care too much.

You have to try to convince your girlfriend to hurry up and have a wedding for two people.

Engagement is a kind of folklore in some places, so get engaged.

Betrothal, also known as marriage contract, according to Chinese folk customs, usually precedes marriage with an engagement ceremony: making a marriage letter, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker, etc. However, according to the current laws of our country, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and a marriage without engagement does not lose the validity of the marriage.

Engagement is legally a contract, a status contract. This identity contract has several characteristics:

1. The conclusion of the marriage contract shall not be **, otherwise it will not have legal effect; In other words, a marriage contract can only be formed if both the man and the woman agree with each other.

2. Only those who have the legal ability to engage in engagement can engage in engagement. The legal definition of betrothal capacity is based on age: a man is 17 years old and a woman is 15 years old.

If a marriage contract is entered into in violation of this provision, the marriage contract is not invalid, but the parties or legal persons may apply to the court for annulment. Because, for minors under the age of 20, their marriage contract must be approved by the legal person.

3. The marriage contract shall not be enforced. The marriage contract should be observed, but it should also be in accordance with the wishes of both the man and the woman. If one of the parties is unable to perform, it cannot be enforced.