Or decided to knock the child out, what do you need to pay attention to?

Alas, to be honest, there's really no way to do it! I have a person I know, who once wanted to beat the child, but I couldn't bear it, the child was born very smart, healthy and filial, fortunately I didn't beat it at that time! If the child is knocked out, the regeneration may not be so healthy and smart.

Abortion is really harmful! Many hospitals will kill you, although the ** seen in advance is not very expensive, but the cost of the later increase is really surprising to you, they will swear that the technology is no sequelae and no danger, but in fact, many people have all kinds of sequelae and regret their previous abortion. The drug flow is not good, the drug flow ** also has severe pain, and there are more sequelae, and some people even die because of it.

Some people are infertile for life because of this, some have habitual miscarriages, some suffer from serious psychological problems, and some have indescribable ** inflammation, in short, the harm is greater than imagined, and the harm of abortion is really great! I highly recommend giving birth because I've seen too many people regret losing their future happiness because of it. There is no way to get back your job, money, or anything, but your children and health may be hated for eternity because of this!

Why knock it out? In order not to regret it, it is better to be born!

The child should be left behind.

My husband left when I was pregnant, but I didn't bother at all, and I gave birth to my son, who is now 9 years old, and I feel very satisfied.

Stay, so that the in-laws will also have some comfort.

The child is not very pitiful without a father, there are so many single parents and orphans in the world, and it is pitiful that the child has been killed alive without doing anything.

It's me and I'm sure I'll stay, first, I'm reluctant, second, the economic conditions are good, after all, it's a life, and third, I can't let go of my husband's feelings.

I'm a woman, and frankly speaking, this pregnant mother really shouldn't be entangled in the question of whether to keep the baby. Even if you don't think about your deceased husband and think about yourself, if you lose your husband, do you want to lose your trusting children......Just so that I can live a better and easier life in the future? Anyway, I think she will regret it in the future if she doesn't keep the baby, it's better to muster up the courage to face it, what has been lost has been lost, and she is destined to bear the pain of losing her husband, so don't weigh the pros and con......s anymore

This child should not have been left behind

It's really pitiful for a child to have no father, and you can consider not having it in five months.

Don't stay. A child who has lost his father from birth. If you are already in pain enough, don't give your child any more pain.

The person who left has already gone, the living person has to continue to live, the child is born without a father, and it is not divorced forever, is it fair to him.

There should be no moral kidnapping scum to accompany him. Her husband is gone, how hard it is for her to raise children alone, and she has to go to work and take care of her children. And this woman is so young, she must be remarried, how can she find her own happiness with children?

Depending on the actual situation, it is decided whether to stay or not

If the parents-in-law have a bad family, they will not stay; If the conditions are passable and you have feelings with a man, you will stay.

See what you think. There's nothing wrong with staying or not staying!

If you have a good relationship with your husband and your in-laws' conditions are good enough to support, leave a thought for the old couple!

Everyone should replace it with their own daughter, what do you think, and what advice will you give your daughter? I think it's right to stay or not.

Be rational: knock it out.

Be sensitive: Keep it.

In fact, you want to leave a bloodline for your husband in your heart, you feel that your husband has left, and the child is the only thing he has left in the world, and you really want to keep it for him.

The people in your husband's family want you to keep the children, and they only consider the problem from their point of view. Because they don't care if you live or die, happy or not, and bumpy in the future. To put it mildly, your husband has passed away, and if you don't have children, maybe they will still call you Kefu.

But with a child, I am naturally obedient to you at present, speaking all kinds of nice words and all kinds of promises. As soon as the child landed, all promises came to naught. I don't want to think of people as vicious, but in reality, human nature really doesn't stand the test.

Your family, your relatives and friends, and people who really care about you want you to get rid of your child. It's the best policy for you to knock it out. If you beat the child, you are the same as an unmarried woman, you can find a good man, have a good marriage, and the child will have a father in the future, and the family will be happy.

Keep the child, you are a single mother, with a drag oil bottle, a man with good conditions, a good man in the Hashiga family, generally has nothing to do with you. (Rationally speaking, what so-and-so, with a few drag oil bottles, married a billionaire, this kind of low-probability event, let's not dream.) ）

My mind is: long pain is better than short pain, knock it out.

If your husband dies and you beat your child, you will definitely have a lot of holes in your heart in the next two years. Stay up slowly, survive two years, and let time ** your pain.

After a few years, you have to start a new life, and life is not easy.

Life is like a white horse, just a moment, and indecisive people have always been unhappy.

Bless you! Supplemental ......

It's really cruel to beat the child out, it's sad in my heart.

There is another situation, the husband's family conditions are good, there is a house (more than two houses, no loan in full), a car and a deposit, the in-laws are reasonable, and the children can consider staying.

At this time, it hurts to raise money, but it is still necessary to be rational, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, and it is difficult to move an inch without money.

If Min Huiguo's husband's family is rich and there is no financial pressure at all if he has children, children can still be born, so leave some blood for her husband and some courage for her in-laws to live.

After the abortion, it is necessary to have a small confinement, which should be the same as the confinement, not cold, no wind, bed rest, and at least half a year after the abortion before you can get pregnant again, so that the uterus can be restored to the best state.

In fact, there is no question of whether it should be or not, the initiative is in your hands, and the idea must be taken by yourself. A few months old baby already has the perception of life, at this time he will move in the belly, and even laugh, make trouble and hiccups. It's a bit cruel to be deprived of your life like this.

1. If you and your husband have a deep relationship, you will always be in love; If you are prepared to endure hardship; If your in-laws and parents support Paison and promise to help you raise the child in the future, you might as well leave the child behind, because it is an innocent and unfortunate life, and it is the fruit of your love.

Second, of course, we can't morally kidnap you, after all, the final decision is up to you.

My suggestion is that you can talk to the man's family and see how they are about the child. Because the man's family lost their son, the baby is their favorite bloodline. If you don't want the baby to drag down your life, you can consider giving the baby to the man's parents after giving birth.

In the future, you don't have to take care of this child, and the child will not drag you down, so that your husband can also leave a bloodline, which is also a hope for their family.

Third, after all, you have to get married and have children again in the future, if the man's family does not want this child, and they have other sons, then you will go and beat the child. After all, it is very hard to raise a child alone, you can't go out to work, there is no economy, the child will not have a good life, the child will pass casually for three or four years, and if you don't find your partner, your youth will be gone.

Fourth, it is recommended to discuss this matter with the man's parents. I believe that if his parents value the life of this child, even if they break the bank and give you money, they are willing to let you keep this child, and they will not interfere with your future life by raising them themselves.

Fifth, you must be mentally prepared. It is not easy to be a single mother, and the difficulties encountered are far more than you think. In addition, if you remarry with children in the future, the problems encountered are much more complicated than those of remarrying singlely.

But if you have made up your mind after much consideration, I would like to wish you a speedy way out of your pain and face a new life!

Summary: You must think carefully about what you do. First of all, you must be worthy of your lost husband and parents-in-law. You also have to ask your conscience, a living little life, where to go, is in your thoughts.