There are a lot of questions. We have a three year old child, should I get a divorce? 10

The child is innocent! Fortunately, he is only 3 years old, and this thing can't I think: two people love each other to get married, and betrayal is unforgivable!

Just like the attraction and centrifugal force of the earth, the tilt of either side will cause the satellite of love to never appear in its original orbit! A word of advice: If you want to leave early, if you don't leave, you have to forgive her Don't wait for the child to be sensible and can't forget this injury!

Children should think about it first and be decisive The most important thing is to choose for themselves, and don't regret choosing it!

If you are a small child.

Would you rather live in a single-parent family or a family that may be full of domestic violence?

It's obvious. If you believe that the woman can treat your child well, you might as well divide it. While the child is still young.

I guess the upstairs has nothing to say after reading the problem supplement.,If I didn't see the supplement, I'd say the same.,But I didn't say it.。

If you really can't do it, let's make it clear.,It's no fun for the two of you to be together now.,Let's find their own happiness.。

Tell her that it's okay, it's good if she's willing to accept it, and pull it down if she doesn't want to. The man is afraid that he will not find his wife.

If you want to abandon your wife and children, don't make excuses for yourself, disgusting!

If you are for the sake of your 3-year-old child, then you should not go for a divorce. If you get divorced, Zhang Dahou will have a great influence on the children of the landlord.

But if you really can't forgive your wife, you should think about it for the sake of yourself and the girl. Remember not to hurt the innocent

I think like this, the child will be bigger, but parents must have their own space, and there is no need to grieve themselves for the sake of their children Because I am a child of a single parent, I understand my parents very well What's more, your wife has betrayed and can't forget, so let's break up, because if you continue to live, you will all be unhappy If you are not happy, then what is the reason for living together again? What do you think? And for that girl, I think you should be honest, because sooner or later she will know, rather than hide it now, it is better to confess, so that at least the damage is minimized, I think so, hehe.

Away from thinking about the child Not away from thinking about your own life can not continue The choice lies with you. Upstairs, the two brothers both gave their own explanations to the two sons and children, and the landlord combined them to see which one was light and which one was important, and the choice was good.

What about children, your life is still long, you can consider divorce.

Let's take a look at the girl's attitude, you say.

Legal analysis: If the two parties divorce and the child is under the age of 3, who will be awarded depends mainly on the various conditions of both parties. To fight for child custody, you must be able to prove that raising your child is conducive to the child's growth.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Your biggest question right now is whether your divorce will affect your children's development.

Since you don't love each other and can't accept each other's habits and circles, it's also a wise choice to separate, after all, it's a lifelong thing.

When dealing with your child, you should give proper consideration to your child's aspect.

Now the child is only three years old, and he is not sensible, so it is also a good time to divorce now, it has been delayed for a long time, and the child is getting older, and it will hurt the child to leave at that time.

Divorce is just that you are separated, and for the children, the parents are still there.

If you have the idea of divorce if it is a momentary anger, then I do not recommend you to divorce, if you have been thinking about it for a long time, then it means that you have considered it very clearly.

We don't need our help anymore.

So, you observe for a while, give him half a year, and leave if you can't communicate, and I believe that you can educate him well.

However, if there is no emotion, there is no such thing, and it is only pain in the end.

There are many things that do not divorce for the sake of children, of course, such a family will often be full of quarrels, do you want your children to live in a family that often quarrels and disharmony, or lack of an emotion for the father?

It doesn't have to be that if it depends, it's hard to say.

"Relationship has indeed broken down" is a substantive requirement and a legal condition for granting and not granting a divorce. "Failure of mediation" is a procedural provision and cannot be regarded as a statutory condition for a divorce. Mediation should be carried out in the trial of divorce cases, and many cases in which mediation is ineffective are cases where the relationship has indeed broken down, and in this sense, "mediation is ineffective" is a reflection of "the relationship has indeed broken down".

In some divorce cases, although "mediation is ineffective", it is not "the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down". In mediation work, there are often differences between focus and ineffectiveness, in-depth and in-depth, etc., which directly affect the mediation effect. Years of civil trial practice have shown that the meanings of "mediation failure" and "relationship has indeed broken down" are not exactly the same, and "mediation failure" is not the same as "relationship has indeed broken down".

Therefore, "ineffective mediation" should not be used as a basis for determining that "the relationship has indeed broken down". In trial practice, it is not necessary to completely equate "the relationship has indeed broken down" with "mediation has failed". Nor should "mediation fail" simply be used as a sign that "feelings have indeed broken down".

Don't even use "ineffective mediation" as a legal condition for deciding a divorce. The legal condition for a divorce is only that "the relationship has broken down".

Whether or not to divorce should be considered comprehensively in all aspects, not just the size of the child.

Besides, divorce is your own business, you must make your own decisions, and others can't tell you whether you should get a divorce or not.

Rather demolish ten temples, not break a marriage, the child is so young that he can bear the incomplete family, now he is still young and doesn't understand anything, when he grows up and is sensible, it is the terrible time, how many children of single-parent families are happy, and when you want to marry him, then you should know your future situation,

Don't always stare at his shortcomings, think about his good when you're angry, and think about the disadvantages when you're happy, so that you don't get confused. Be tolerant of some

If you can't leave, you can't leave, and the originally good family is broken like this. It has a very bad effect on the child.

It depends on the situation It is painful for a strong woman to find a man who cannot be recognized by herself.

If life is the first time we meet. You take a closer look at this sentence.

It's a mistake for you to get married, and your problem is bigger.

Give up the idea of divorce, your husband is actually pretty good.

If you really can't get by, I suggest you leave.

If the two sides can get along, it's best not to leave.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted.

For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18, and the standard of maintenance is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income. If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

1. The child is less than two years old.

Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers, and if the mother has any of the following circumstances, they may live with their fathers:

1. Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the child is not suitable to live with them;

2. There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3. For other reasons, the child is unable to live with the mother.

2. The child is over two years old.

For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother are required to live with them, and one of the parents may be given priority in any of the following circumstances:

1. Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2. The child has lived with him for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of the child;

3. There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4. The child lives with him, which is beneficial to the child's growth, and the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

5. If a child has lived alone with his or her grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the parent.

3. The child is over 10 years old.

1. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over the existence of a minor child living with the father or mother, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

2. Minor children over the age of 10 belong to persons with limited capacity for civil conduct and have a certain ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Therefore, in divorce cases, the personal wishes of the children should be taken into account when dealing with the question of who the children live with.

3. Considering the child's opinion is not that a minor child over the age of 10 can choose who to live with at will, the court generally considers the child's personal opinion when the father and mother are fighting for custody and both parties have the conditions to raise the child.

4. The husband's claim for custody of the child can be obtained on the grounds that he has a high income, has the ability to support the child and has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents require and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild.

The court will take full account of the child's actual age when deciding on child custody, and if the child is under 2 years old, then the custody will generally be awarded to the woman, and if the child is over 10 years old, then the child's opinion will be sought.