I worked for my brother, but I was always not paid, and we quarreled with my husband and wife

As the saying goes, your brother settles accounts, your brother's behavior doesn't treat you as a brother at all, maybe he just fancy you don't want to hurt your buddy's feelings, you can delay it, and it's best if you don't give it in the end.

Your brother doesn't understand you at all, your wife doesn't have a job, he doesn't pay you a salary if you do it for so long, he spends money lavishly, but he says he has no money, if he treats you as a brother, he won't treat you like that, in my opinion, because he thinks you are his brother, because of his bad face, if it's someone else, don't pay your salary and don't make a noise?! No wonder your wife says it.

Talk to him again, if he doesn't pay his salary, you don't have to put up with it anymore, you treat him as a brother, but what does he treat you for? You have to eat too! There's really no way, so you have to pick up the law to solve it!

Have you signed a labor contract with your brother? If he didn't rely on your money, you wouldn't have any evidence, and if he was such a scoundrel, he wouldn't be worthy of being your brother.

And your lover is talking to you for your family's livelihood, you should also be considerate of her.

You declare to him again, if you don't pay on time, you won't be here, remember to sign the labor contract, the favor belongs to the favor, and the money must be clear. Don't think your brother won't lie to you

If you don't want to do this, you can leave and find another job, and your salary will be left for him to buy medicine.

Your brother is not a person who can be deeply acquainted with, he is not trustworthy, and now you tell him that there is some difficulty in the family and he urgently needs money (the reason is based on your situation), if it doesn't work, do you sign a labor contract for him? Sue him! But this is the last resort, don't use it until you have to, send you two sentences:

When the interruption continues, it will be chaotic!

It's easy to do, you can borrow it with your brother first, and then talk about it later, so it's not a salary, it's not anything, then you'll be able to do it.

This money is for you to support your family, and your brother is doing something too wrong. Ask for money and leave. And it's better not to deal with him in the future.

Please settle the accounts with your brother, if your brother is really so fake, then you don't care about what brotherhood you care about, and you can do whatever you want.

No more money. You go to his house and eat. Food. with. They all asked him for money. If he says anything.

You just say. I'm all working here. Now I haven't received my salary. Where did the money come from?

This one has to be thicker than your brother's.

If you understand, why continue.

For the sake of a special fake buddy's feelings, you sacrifice your family happiness, do you think it's worth it?

You told him the situation, and he ignored him. If you don't take care of your own people, you don't say anything, and you still pit your own people, you have to consider this brother

Brother, I've been on the same "dang" as you, it's better not to do it.

Since it's his brother, it's better to say directly, so he said that he has no money to spend, so it's okay to advance his salary first.

Your brother should pay you some living expenses every month, and the rest can be kept at the end of the year unlike other people's.

Say. High or low is not the point. But be mindful. Brothers should also treat each other with sincerity.

He didn't ask you if you had any money to spend or something. That proves that he either can't get it at a loss or has a problem with his character, so he is too picky, so don't do it for him.

If you want pocket money, you can ask for a few more times.

Brother, I can't open the pot soon, let's help.

My brother is the boss, and I can't let myself run out of money to spend.

Talk to him directly, and slowly turn around to the topic of money.

A situation with my tenants!

For his sake, you try to improve the relationship between your in-laws, and maybe your husband will change.

Little sister! I will tell you this kind of wage problem, wages should be divided into factories, construction sites, the two wages are completely different, the construction site usually only has pocket money and living expenses, and the settlement is only settled at the end of the year, and there is no monthly salary in the country, there is a way to borrow a little salary, and you have to say to the boss one or two months in advance.

No way! Is it easy for people to marry a daughter-in-law? If you leave, you will take half of your possessions. You think too much about your daughter-in-law.

I've had this experience too, and it's really painful, I can understand that. The best thing to do is for you to make it clear to his brother, and then talk to your husband about it, and it will be resolved.

Sometimes your husband is also impatient, understand a little.

Alas, like before, a bit like me, I left decisively

Is the person who doesn't take money from the house called a husband?

Yes, do you need to ask? How old are you?

His own brothers should also help each other, as long as they don't miss their own family's business! Men need to bear too much in the family, earning money to support the family, sophistication, family and friendship, all to maintain

It seems that you are not very popular, and if he helps your brother do things, you will also quarrel with him?

You can talk about it, but after all, the husband and wife can't talk about it, and you have to understand that it's his own brother!

It's my brother! He may feel that brotherhood is also important!

You have to communicate with him well, he is also very embarrassed, one side is his own family, and the other side is his brother

If there's such a man, you don't care about him

Keep your feet on the ground, don't ask about the future, and continue to work hard.

Prepare yourself for the future! Or give him what he thinks.

It depends on what you've done. Did you withdraw the principal? Did you run the market? Can you start a company on your own? Can you make so much money? Can you make money if the company leaves? How did your brothers agree at that time?

Dividends should be paid, your brother is very wrong to do this, but you can't help it.

It's stupid that it should have been made clear in the first place, and it's even more unlikely to give it to you now, he's just being your business partner.

If you can, come out. Or secretly go to a company like yours to apply for a job. Anyway, it's all part-time jobs, and others give it high, why don't you go.

I didn't make a decision at the beginning, and now it's too late to say anything.

Maybe he thinks that if you don't say it, he will think that you are enough, and in front of interests, it is all for himself.

So what was the situation in the first place, can you tell me in detail?

Then why didn't you know to join the shareholders in the first place...Let's just live like that....

The people who worked hard with Jack Ma at the beginning are now all shareholders.

If you just go to work, you can jokingly ask, 'Brother, how much is my salary?' That's how I asked, and my sister's friend said, 'I told your sister, didn't your sister tell you?' Then he told me how much it was.

If you've been working for a while, let's wait until you're paid. If it's less, not satisfied. I just said that I can't do it, I can't get used to it. Don't want to do it, goodbye. Adopt it!

My brother is settling accounts, so I should ask.

There could be a few reasons why your brother always loses his temper with you all the time. He is straight-tempered, does not collect, and has an irritable and irritable personality. First of all, he thinks that he is a family, and if there is a problem, he will go straight to the point, and there is no need to beat around the bush and take a roundabout and soft attitude to deal with it.

But he may have overlooked that a family is also a human being, and that human beings need to be respected and recognized! If there is any problem, it is better to be calm and talk about it step by step! In this way, the members of the family will have cohesion!

It's just a ball of harmony! You also belong to the same temper as your brother, you can't deal with problems cold, and you are also three feet high, and explosives are generally a little bit! Hard-hitting is definitely destined to hurt!

Use your mind and speak smartly! Acceptable! If you are dissatisfied, you can tactfully raise it with your brother.

He's older after all, so he needs to be properly respected!

It shows that you are a pair of small enemies, and your personalities may not be compatible, it doesn't matter, give in to each other and compromise some. At least the relationship should be good!

Communicate well and tell my brother, brother and brother. He is friendly to you, you are respectful to him, and get along with each other, after all: brothers in battle, father and son soldiers in battle.

As the saying goes, if you fight well, you are a pair of brothers, maybe your personality is different! So it's hard to get along, but your hearts are connected, don't look at the fight all day long, no matter which brother is in trouble, the other will be obligated to lend a hand.

When your brother's temper is big, your brother wants to give way, your brother thinks he is big, he cares about you everywhere, you have to listen to him, you don't obey when you are young, so you love to lose your temper when you get together, you have to respect each other and you won't have a temper.

Each person has a different personality and temperament. Your brother loves to lose his temper, and you also have a bad temper. Think about it the other way, there is a reason why your brother is angry with you.

You also think about what you are not doing well, and you should pay attention to it in the future. After all, your brother is older, and you can't quarrel with him. If he loses his temper, you should explain to him in a gentle manner, or leave for a while and wait for him to lose his temper) and then explain it to him.

I hope you are like two sisters who are cold to each other, and don't lose your temper at every turn.

It's common for the two brothers to fight together. You can't hold grudges very much, after all, you are the same mother. If you make a fuss, it is the greatest unfilial piety to your parents. You two help your parents work together to make the family a good one, and everything will be prosperous.

When someone bullies you, your brother will be the first to rush forward, because you are his younger brother, he feels that it is his right and duty to care about you, and his heart is: I can control my brother, and others dare to say a bad word about him, I used to have such a brother, but now I don't have the opportunity to be scolded anymore.

Your brother is always angry with you, the two of you fight together, maybe your brother has machismo, in the future, you have to communicate with your brother psychologically, have more contact, brothers should be united, respect each other, as the saying goes, fight brothers, go into battle father and son soldiers, after a long time, the mental obstacle has been solved Brother respects brother a little more, brother has been reformed, and he will become a good brother in the future.

Failure to learn to respect and care for each other, and arrogance and self-righteousness.

This is a problem of everyone's temper and character, and there should be a reason for losing his temper at you, and you have to find a proper reason to convince him. He actually uses rigidity, and you use softness. When he speaks loudly, you reason with him in a whisper.

You don't have to give in to him, you can convince him with your reasoning.

I think there's still a lack of communication! Your brother should be nice to you! Maybe your brother has a macho idea, you have to respect each other, don't disagree, you are a family.

It's normal for everyone to quarrel with their siblings when they were young, fight, grab good things, and gradually grow up to know that the family has to care for each other!

I don't know if you have ever had a conflict, so you have been obsessed, after all, it is a family, don't keep this way of communication, I have read a book called "Nonviolent Communication" before, I suggest you and your brother read it together.

It should be that you are too young, and you will help each other when you start a family in the future, and it is a happiness to have a sister or brother by your side, saying.

This problem exists for many brothers, if you don't meet, you want to fight as soon as you meet, it's normal, the more you fight, the better, after all, the two of you are related by blood, which is something that can't be given up, cherish this brotherhood! It's not the kind of affection that everyone wants.

Ay! The whole family should be having fun!

Stay away from your brother and talk less.

Stay away from him and try to avoid being alone with the two of you.

Marriage needs to be managed well, don't want to divorce at every turn, when you encounter problems, communicate more with each other, you give your mother money, there is nothing wrong with it, children must be filial to their parents, is he quarreling with you because of this? A man shouldn't be so careful, is there any other reason, you think about it, is there any misunderstanding, husband and wife usually communicate more, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.

When I got married, my personal views slowly came to light. Let's not talk about how much money they earn, according to common sense, your parents gave birth to you and raised you, and it is right to honor your parents, and I personally praise this behavior. But now when it comes to two families, they should be on the same level, and the so-called should be treated fairly.

I don't know what your thoughts are, but if you have different opinions and conflicts, if it's not a matter of principle, you can discuss it with each other and understand each other more. For example, if you buy watermelons for your parents, it is convenient, buy some apples for the other party's parents, so there shouldn't be much disagreement! Personally, I advocate trying to adjust as much as possible and not going to extremes.

First, do you have children? If you have one, don't leave, think more about your child.

Second, who is in charge of finances in your family? If each is in charge of his own, then your husband is a little family.

In other words, if you don't have children and you manage your finances separately, and your husband fights a lot about it, leave! It's good to leave early. Such a man is incapable, and second, he is careful, if you live like this, you will age quickly! Tired.

Your own salary is 10,000 yuan for your husband, and your salary is 6,000. Every time you give your mom a little money, your husband always quarrels with you. Should I leave?

It shouldn't be. Start a family. It's not that easy.

For the sake of the children. For the sake of parents. Your children, your parents, don't want to see you divorced.

My husband will always quarrel with you over money. Then you explain the reason to him. Otherwise, you won't let him know about the money you gave your parents.

The money you earn is in your hands. He doesn't know how much you spend. You can save some money for your own house.

Don't let your husband know. to your parents. This way.

Less. Quarrel. Your husband and wife will be in harmony.

Things that can avoid quarrels should be avoided. If he doesn't let you give money to your parents, you can say that we can give it to both parents together. If both parents give money, he should have no opinion.

You have to deal with your parents at both ends. It should be treated the same. Don't care about the divorce of the two of you?