After the breakup, what to do, wake me up, add 100 points

Hello! I'm sad to see your question, I used to be like this, I do photography, and my monthly income is more than 2,000 yuan, which is the minimum of 2,000 yuan. We had been in love for 4 years and were getting married, and when we met him he was just a waiter in a small restaurant.

I'm not looking down on her. Emotional things are so sudden.

In the end, they separated. I also gave almost everything I had, I bought what I liked, what I wanted, I bought a lot of appliances, etc., and so on, and I don't mean that I care about money. As long as she likes it, I can do everything I can...

You have broken up now, I don't know why, but a very real problem is that she develops better than you. Your age should not be too old, and your social experience is not grouped, she has developed well, and there are many new feelings to try, especially in the real society, in order to achieve your own goals. He had forgotten how you had helped her with her schoolwork.

And it was at school at that time, and there were a lot of things that you probably didn't think about. Your question here, I'm not here to get your high score, I'm our fate. What you have to do now is to think about how you can go higher and better, there are more girls.

Only your hatred, your thoughts, ends here.

It was a good memory, a relationship without impurities. Such feelings are not suitable for this society. Just be a memory of your youth.

In a word: Shanghainese are very realistic, and the environment determines her reality. You see! Check it out when you're free!

Half a year has passed since the breakup, and I still can't get out, I am sad every day, and my work has not been completed.

Find a low-level job and start slowly. The eldest husband can bend and stretch, and he cannot hang himself from a tree.

Time will change everything, you have to be yourself first, then you are qualified to love others, don't blame others for all your sins, you will always be the most reliable. I believe that I can live well.

First of all, falling in love is a matter of two people.

While you spend time and money, your girlfriend is also spending time and money on a relationship with you.

So the youth you spend is worth the same, and at this point, your girlfriend is not indebted to you.

You didn't get a systematic internship, and I think most of the reason is your own personal attitude.

In addition to falling in love, a person also has to live and study.

Is it possible that your girlfriend will break up with you after you intern?

I can't get out of the breakup for half a year, and I don't know what you're worried about, or what you're not convinced.

Your girlfriend is naturally doing well now, so why should you use the past to embarrass your current self?

And you're there to feel sorry for yourself.

Your girlfriend won't come back to you because of it, and you won't get your work problems out of it.

Since you are not convinced, you must fight for anger.

You can recall the past once in a while, but don't let it sway emotions.

You've wasted time and missed opportunities before.

Don't make the same mistake now.

This woman has no conscience, cherish what is worth cherishing, continue to accompany you even more because she affects your life, what should you do.

If she is from Shanghai, there is not much chance for you to be together, because she has entered the society, her family will help her introduce her Shanghai boyfriend, so there is nothing she can do.

To be honest, it's your business, and sometimes, you can't rely on anything but yourself.

Only by facing the reality and cheering yourself up can we have a better tomorrow.

God, I really sympathize with an infatuated person like you, I can't do you anything here, I can only say some "big truth" words. As the saying goes, a man must be able to afford to put it down. She is just the first person or event in your life to remember, you have to know how to plan for your life.

When you enter the society, you will slowly understand what you have to experience in the past, and only experience will have experience, and you will understand the outlook on life and values. You must cheer up, a man must rely on himself to be round, to be respected, this kind of behavior of yours is called the kindness of a woman, and a man must not have this habit. Falling will ruin your life.

There are many things to pursue in life, and women and feelings can only be part of it... DO NOT TAKE ALL ...

I didn't come here to get your points, but to share my experience, I hope it can help you a little bit!!

In fact, there are many times when we will not easily get out of the emotional trauma, but every boy will experience this kind of lovelorn thing when he is young, and he will definitely hesitate whether he should let go or persist in the process!

I had the same experience as you, I was only 19 years old at that time, and I was very reluctant, she didn't pick up my ** after the breakup, I still kept calling her, and now I have a good girlfriend, and I'm engaged, go through these roads and think about it, in fact, the most important thing for us boys is career, because when we are young, if we lose our feelings, it's nothing, but to be responsible for our parents and future wives and children, we must have a material foundation!

I am similar to Maybe, I used to play games, I want to advise you, even if we are young now, don't feel that you have so much time, try your best to find the direction and goal you want to fight for for the rest of your life! I'm sure you'll do it!

This is our man's responsibility and obligation! Because then we will have a lifetime of happiness!

Now for yourself, in fact, as long as you distinguish the priorities, you don't have to listen to others to give up or redeem, some things are to look back at the good memories after the pass!

We will all be happy! The temporary psychological discomfort will definitely be diluted by time, believe me!

The pain of the past is over, forget the previous her, go to find the right person for yourself, people always have to look forward, don't take yesterday's clouds, bring tomorrow's journey, often format yourself, so as to save more fresh and light, only forget, in order to wake you up. Complete!

You can give your time and money in a relationship, which shows that you are a good person, and now that you can't be together, put the past behind and start planning for your work life and keep yourself busy with work, so that you don't have time to think about others. Gone is gone, the past can only be an experience for you, you have really paid, there is nothing to regret, live well, let the regrets be left to others.

Forget her. Live your life.

Men should let it go. 。Think about it. I broke up at the time, and I thought about it, and I slowly passed it.

It's been a long time. You'll miss her less...

Shanghainese women can't afford to marry.

Reality is reality.

Look around and you can find your true happiness.

She is not your angel.

But the angel didn't know that it was her.

As long as you open your heart and believe in yourself.

You're just too bad right now, so I miss her

If you're good... If you are developed, you won't think about her, what you have to do is to do the things around you, start from small things and slowly have a sense of accomplishment, slowly be happy... That's it

Now spend all your time developing yourself well, you are successful, as time goes by, you will slowly forget everything, and time will make many things before more and more blurry.

You have to be better than him, maybe that's why I broke up with you, and you have to prove it to her. You're still excellent without her! It's just that she doesn't know the blessing in the midst of blessings.

You should relax, forget about the relationship, and find a better one, and I think you should be better.

She is stepping on you to cross the river, she is ashore, and you are still soaking in the water. You should try to get out of the water now, don't think about her anymore, such a heartless woman, you can't lose to her.

Let's be honest. The best way to get revenge on her is to live better than him. Men have to have careers.

Find a new person and start a new relationship The best way to get to a scar is to fall in love next time.

Don't be stupid, that's life!

Now that she's broken up with you, she's met someone else, and her parents are more satisfied with another man. I advise you to let it go. Don't contact her again in the future, the only person who is the most sad in the end is you.

It is impossible for her to have a future with you again. Since she gave up the relationship between the two of you for more than three years in order to obey her parents' wishes, it proves that she has been explained by her parents, and she has been determined in her heart that she will not marry you. But after all, a three-year relationship will not be said to be broken with you right away.

He also has you in his heart and misses you, but he doesn't want to marry you.

It's a woman, and that's my own personal experience. Better a finger off than always aching.

In the end, I gave up on the boyfriend I had been in love with for three years, and finally chose another man introduced by the family.

said to give up, in fact, I can't let go of it in my heart, I still love him, I feel like I can't live without him, crying at home every day, and finally I put it down? Because I think about the long term, although we love each other very much, he is also very good to me, but the family is strongly opposed, loyalty and filial piety are difficult to achieve, I don't want to embarrass my parents, looking at my parents' sad expressions against me and him, I really can't bear to be good with him, because my parents do that after all, it is for my future good, and they will definitely not harm me. So I put up with it and married the one introduced by my family.

We were together for the first three days of our marriage, and all he knew was that I was going to get engaged, and he didn't know that it would be over so soon. Later, when he found out that I was married, he was heartbroken and hated me to death. We met later, and we both hugged each other and cried.

Later, after marriage, the two of us gradually got in touch. After a long time, I also had a relationship with my current husband, and slowly forgot about him. That's it, everything is peaceful now, my ex-boyfriend went to another city, and we can't see each other anymore, so I forgot about it.

My life is also very happy now, my husband is very good to me, and I have a baby.

Sometimes I talk to my ex-boyfriend**, but it's all chatting, talk about your family, talk about my family, and he's married now. That's it, I feel pretty good.

So I advise you not to get your hopes up. Find another real woman to marry and live.

Let's transfer love. Or you wait. Or let him understand your love.

What is past will pass.

I hope you work hard to redeem it, try it again, don't give up easily, don't leave regrets, I support you, love needs to be cherished by both parties, there is a saying: she said, you will find better. But I won't be so nice to her anymore, I said. Don't give up.

What is there to think about, the word "fate", if there is fate, it is inseparable.

Why don't you go out into the world now, friend, don't hang yourself on a tree, I'm here too, I know how it feels!!

Men should be decisive and ruthless with themselves. The current breakup is not caused by you, it is the breakup she proposed, I don't want to say more, I just hope you can confirm this situation as soon as possible and return to reality, because this seems to be a foregone conclusion. It's not something you can change.

She is the one who can change. But she's not coming back, so don't be too scared!

If you admit that you are still a man, you should be able to afford to put it down, many things will only be understood after experience!

Many times we just don't want to divide because we once loved. But this is a thing of the past, what we need to do is to adjust our mentality and return to reality.

I often say to lovelorn friends: Don't even be friends after a breakup!

Because the other party who continues to be friends and is called to break up will still have illusions, make unnecessary efforts and get innocent thoughts to indulge in injuries.

Not being friends is not because we hate her, because there is no hate in the world of true love, it's just that we can't let this fantasy and hurt continue to sink in our brains.

Here it reflects a man's mentality towards himself, and when he has true love, he can rest assured to grasp it and pursue it seriously. When the love that is not destined to belong to us leaves us, what we can do is to put away the previous memories, because it was not we who proposed the breakup. So the decision is not in our hands at all!

Here you have to tell yourself that you have to live stronger!

My definition of a strong person is: a person who can survive well despite everything but life!

I can only say: I'm so tired! The feelings that I don't understand come too late!

For personality reasons, your girlfriend belongs to the type of parents who are bigger than the sky. There is no resistance to parents, only acceptance. After talking to such a girl about the opposition of the parents, your breakup will be a foregone conclusion.

It's like this after the breakup, I was sad to die after 3 and a half years of breaking up, not to mention you for 6 years. To tell the truth, this relationship may be difficult to forget, but once you are not sad, you will have an indifferent attitude towards the relationship in the future, maybe you will hurt others in the future, but you will not be hurt again. Now you want to adjust your mindset as soon as possible, just do what you want to do.

For example, do more of what you love and do it with your heart, and you will not think too much about being unhappy. Or find a girl to start over, although you can't forget the past at first, but after slowly dating a new girl, you can forget the past. However, it is recommended that you do not tell your new girlfriend about your unhappiness, so that she will be insecure.

Finally, I hope you will be happy soon.