What was your first reaction to being rejected for a confession?

Confession was rejected, abandonment of pursuit?Wishing her happiness?no！

no！no！Pluck up the courage to keep chasing.

This was my first reflection of the rejection of my confession. Every time she is the same person, the landlord is very dedicated (?> if the confession is rejected, my first reaction is to continue chasing anyway.

Because I always believe that time can change a person and everything. If you continue to chase and succeed in the end, then everything is worth it, you have paid and you have got what you want, and you can be with her. If you continue to chase and fail in the end, then everything is worth it, after all, you have worked hard and struggled, although the ending is cruel, but the process will not make you regret it in the future.

You'll never wonder in the future why you didn't try to keep chasing back then, and maybe if you did, then I wouldn't be like this now.

However, regret will only make you sad, and your sadness will not only not be repaired, but will deepen the regret in your heart. So, if the confession is rejected, don't give up, try to keep chasing, at least so that your future self doesn't regret it.

Of course, if your confession is not only a rejection, but also that he already has a significant other, then will you go to her wedding scene and blow the tires of her wedding car with a gun or will you silently bless her?(What Chu Zihang of the Dragon Clan said to Lu Mingfei) (?.)

<> confession rejected?(?I should find a crack in the ground to get into, or make up an excuse at random, such as oops, sorry, I recognized the wrong person, or oops, I went to the wrong place, anyway, get out as soon as possible, and quickly divert my attention?

Or is it oops, I said it wrong (?.)Let's be brothers, be bears and bears, good friends who don't separate. If you really like it, I say, the weather is not right today, I'll try it after fortune telling.

Or maybe you don't like it today, what if you like it tomorrow< ( I'll come back again, hum, (?.)

Then when I go home, I spend an hour laughing at myself, oops, this is not right at all, oops, why do you have to use an inner action, oops, why do you want to say something like that, oh, it's good to wait a little later and wait less (* * Then, start my further strategy, slowly trap him, hahaha (??).

The first step is to investigate how much activity he usually does in **, if it is basketball?If you are in the field, you will always run there, and then pretend to be working hard to learn. After he noticed, he was very annoyed and went to ask for help, I'm sorry for the last time, I didn't mean it, I really won't know this, can you help me? , he should not be able to bear to refuse.

The second part is to study hard. I became very good and often stood out in front of him and made him notice me.

In the third part, I often watched him for more than a second, and when he saw me, he pretended to be very shy and avoided his gaze.

In the fourth part, when he began to have frequent contact with me, a little boy came, you can ask a good male classmate to help, go out often, and come to some physical contact from time to time, hahaha? (Sit back and wait for the bait.)

So he waited for himself to come to his pocket lala(*?).

<> to be honest, it is a very sad thing to be rejected for confession, not only can you not get the love you want, but it also hurts your self-esteem very much, causing you to doubt your charm. Because sometimes when you have the courage to confess, you actually have some small expectations in your heart, so when you are rejected, you are undoubtedly poured cold water. If my confession is rejected, I will first ask the reason, of course, the reasons I get are generally perfunctory, but at least I will feel better.

After that, it is to change yourself, let go of the person who rejected you, and you still have to have a little backbone to live. Learn what you like, read more books, improve your taste and connotation, and then learn to dress up, change your style, and be a new self. Maybe when you see that person again, you will thank him for rejecting you at that time, and now you may make his eyes shine, but you will not accept him anymore!!

Of course, these are just fantasies, who can easily let go of a relationship with someone in real life, and who will have the courage to change their current self.

I've had a similar experience of being rejected for confession, but it's not counting, because I didn't confess at all, I didn't like it very much, I was just interested in that person, but he didn't respond, but was very cold. At that time, my first reaction was, this person is not very good, so unreasonable, I may be blind, but this allows me to see a person clearly, which is also quite good. Because I'm fine now and have a good love.

And now that I look at the naïve feelings at the beginning, I don't think it's a big deal, but if I don't want to do it now, I really forgot that time and that person. I hope that all those who confess to rejection can meet their true love soon, the person you like now doesn't like you, then you don't have to spend time on him, these time can be used to do what you like, and you can meet true love.

There are thousands of reasons for confession rejection, and one of the more obscure ones is "I don't want to be in a relationship now". Isn't this ambiguous response a storage of spare tires? Delusional that one day when he wants to turn the spare tire right, he said in a high-sounding voice, "Lao Tzu wants to fall in love now, you can chase me now."

Everyone is an adult, you could have generously said that we are not suitable, and you can even say that you have someone you like, which can make me die, but you said that you don't want to fall in love now, how do you let me put my mind? Do you want me to wait until you "want" to be in a relationship?

After easily saying "I don't want to fall in love now", as if nothing happened, contact when it should be contacted, and continue to be ambiguous, and it will not affect at all. You have a good grasp of the girl's intentions, more than friends, lovers are not full, but you just don't want to fall in love with her, when others are upset with girls, you even say confidently, "I have already told her that I don't want to fall in love now, she herself is still so good to me, you can't blame me." "The one who loves more is destined to be a pathetic millennium spare tire.

Don't be too surprised when a guy tells you "I don't want to be in a relationship right now" and announces the relationship on Moments soon after, which means "I don't want to be in a relationship right now, because the person I want to fall in love with is not you." Maybe he's taking care of the fragile and sensitive emotions of adults, and he doesn't want to reject you to your face, so he deliberately gives you words under the steps. In the adult world, any emotion can be magnified infinitely.

Whether it is work, life or relationships, we are always habitually surrounded by "mourning culture", and a little setback will be sad and sad, making it difficult for people to get out of sad emotions.

Maybe everyone knows that life is difficult and happiness is expensive, so when being confessed by someone you don't like, you feel gratified, but at the same time, you don't want the other party to be too sad and sad, so you choose to say "I don't want to fall in love now" to euphemistically refuse. If it's someone he likes, if it's someone he misses, how can he not want to fall in love. If he says this, he must not like you enough, or the person he likes is not you.

Many people's youth memories have the experience of confessing to the opposite sex, some confessions are exchanged for a period of time or even years of dating, some confessions may not follow, and even for people who are infatuated but rejected, it is a painful experience.

People sometimes make themselves amorous or have a fantasy or delusion, feel that someone seems to be interesting to themselves, and they feel that the other party is not bad is their favorite type, so they are eager to try, the magic is that when you really go to confess, people say that they don't know you much, it's really impermanence of life, the large intestine contains the small intestine.

This is just the "first experience of love", what is really difficult to accept is that you have liked someone for a long, long time, and even the topics and interests of both parties are particularly compatible, this feeling is a bit like online dating, you interact very well, and you pay attention to his (her) "online" every time with anticipation.

Joy, anticipation, and curiosity, isn't that what it feels like before love comes? When you are in deep love and looking forward to a beautiful "love", you finally muster up great courage to boldly confess to the other party, and the reply you may get is "I already have a girlfriend (boyfriend)". You are lost, sad, this is the normal emotional change of rejection, and the one who is really hurt the most is the kind of person who is infatuated with love and has illusions, this kind of people are even prone to inferiority complex and self-isolation, feeling that the world has abandoned her (him).

Confession is a dangerous move without both parties having feelings for each other, which also shows that you are the passive party in the relationship, or that you have informed the other person in advance, your preference for the other person, and whether you are asking for and longing for the other person's love (love is sometimes so humble).

The favored one has no fear, and the one who is in love first but is rejected will not be hurt? Love also has cruel times. You give your heart in your relationship, but to the other person you are just ordinary "friendship".

It is normal for men and women to interact and have similar interests and hobbies in their relationships, but whether the other party likes themselves or not needs to be judged through some appearances or tests, because liking a person cannot be hidden and there are traces to follow, such as often looking at you affectionately, avoiding your gaze after you are aware of it, liking and paying attention to all your circle of friends, and when chatting online, the messages to you are seconds back and afraid that you will be unhappy or angry, etc. As for the test, you can ask the other party to do some small favors for you or throw some "instructions" to see the other party's enthusiasm, etc.

It's a very unpleasant experience. Chagrin.

Hello Many people have experienced the rejection of confession, in fact, this is not a big deal, after the failure of confession can take the following methods: let's take a look at how to relieve the uncomfortable mood of confession failure.

How to relieve the uncomfortable mood by confessing failure?

1.Don't get tangled.

After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why. Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best.

At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this moment, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily routine. You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection.

Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.

2.To live better.

After the confession is rejected, you don't really guess that you should pursue the perfection of the other party again, just for your own rationality for a while. When boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when girls see that you have a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumbs, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make the most of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that it is not right to reject you, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.

3.Wash your heart and face.

In this link, you should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. You should understand that only confident and happy boys are more elegant.

The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.

Boys should understand that if they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack and they don't have to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. They should understand that attracting girls according to their best selves is the best option. It is only when boys become better and stronger that they are not afraid of rejection.

If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls. At this moment, you will once again strive for perfection. Only the pass rate can be improved, and you can shout to get the most perfect love.

I just don't like you, it's okay, strangers, you deserve better, we're all going to meet the right person, it's just a matter of time.