How did you start living in a strange city?

First of all, you must have the ability to live. That is, to have the ability to work and be able to support yourself.

As follows: 1. Life is your own, and what kind of life you choose will achieve what kind of you are. Instead of complaining that this world is not beautiful, it is better to use your own efforts to strive for more beauty and luck.

2. Life, go and stop between joy, anger and sorrow. I don't know what I'll meet, I just know that the sunshine is so good, don't live up to today.

3. If you like it, you will strive for it, if you get it, you will cherish it, and if you miss it, you will forget, life is actually so simple.

Fourth, if you know how to cherish, you will find that you gain more and more, and if you pursue it, you will find that you lose faster and faster.

Fifth, be cruel to yourself, force yourself to work hard, and in another five years you will be grateful to yourself for being ruthless today. Only if you are strong enough will you not be trampled on by others.

First of all, you must have the ability to live. In other words, to be able to work, I have been to a strange city alone twice. The first time I went to Xi'an alone, fortunately I interviewed for a job before I went, and I went to work directly, and none of my colleagues knew me well.

The second time I went to Shanghai alone, this time I didn't look for a good job and went, I lived in the hotel for a month and a week, and ran interviews everywhere every day, but fortunately, finding a job was relatively smooth, and I rented a house immediately after finding a job. At that time, I ran almost all over Shanghai for interviews.

There is a difference between the word "survival" and "life", but the meaning is not the same. It's easy to survive, but it's hard to live. Presumably, the subject believes in asking how to get the life you want in an unfamiliar city.

In fact, it doesn't matter if it's impulsive or prepared. The first thing we have to do is to get acquainted with the city, assess our ability to find a job that suits us, and survive. After that, when your life is stable, you will slowly look for a job that has the potential to develop and allow you to learn and progress.

When we go to a strange city, everyone will feel lonely and helpless, what we have to do is to overcome this feeling, integrate into the city, I am born to be useful, and I will always find a job that suits us.

It is necessary to establish a wide social circle as much as possible. In an unfamiliar environment, it is indeed difficult to expand this social circle. Maybe I have a lot of friends who drink and I have encountered something.

It's hard to really help. However, you also have to learn to build momentum, maybe you don't have a good relationship with a certain big person, but if you make other people feel that you are very close, you can use this illusion and go to other places to do things. It may be much better than going straight to the site.

Of course, it's best if you can really keep up with a big shot. If you want to develop, the guide is the key.

How a person survives in a strange city, first solve the place to live. Settling down is the foundation of a career, and if you have a place to live, you will look for employment information and find a job that suits you online. I walked around and got acquainted with all aspects of the city, but also asked around to find a job that suited me.

In short, when you arrive in a strange city, you should learn about it as soon as possible, and you must understand the various situations around you. It's easy to get around and live, and at the same time be safe-minded, and try to spend as little time outside as possible at night, after all, you don't know much about the city.

Our parents all came to the city from the countryside alone, either to seek refuge with relatives and friends, or to find a small place to live. Starting from apprenticeship and coolie, little by little gain a firm foothold. After enduring all kinds of hardships, we were left with a home.

You can learn a skill. Only with a skill can there be a foundation for survival. At the same time, we must enlarge our vision, learn advanced knowledge, and get a certificate with gold content, not only to get a certificate, but also to learn the ability.

For example, accounting titles, fire certificates, constructors, management accountants, noteworthiness, on-the-job education promotion, etc.

When I have just arrived in a new place, I will feel new and unfamiliar, and I can't help but compare my previous life with my previous life. Seeing anything and remembering related things from the past will give a huge gap in the psyche. This gap is also painful**.

In the face of this situation, we need to learn to be grateful and content. First of all, mental suggestion from time to time is a mustImply that you are content with your current life. Everything will definitely develop in a good direction, and when the direction is off track, you need to find a way to overcome the difficulties and overcome it.

You obviously like to eat hot pot, but you have never been there, because you eat hot pot alone, the appearance of shabu mutton is too sad, and the heat of others will make you feel even more sad,So you give up on the one you love the most

Every time you go out, you will take your mobile phone to check the map and bus route for half a day, you obviously do not distinguish between southeast and northwest, and you are obviously not familiar with the road signs, but you still force yourself to remember every intersection you have walkedYou're afraid that you won't be able to find your way, but no one will come and take you home

You were originally the treasure in the hands of your parents, a girl who needs to be hurt and petted, but now you don't dare to lose your temper with people at willAny grievances have broken teeth and swallowed blood, and they have to laugh silentlyI'm fine with making others think it's no big deal.

You goReport good news to the family, not bad news, obviously she is also a girl who needs to be petted, but she said to them, I'm fine, I'm doing well here, I don't have to worry about work, and there will always be a boyfriend. You don't know, it turns out that you can also lie, your face is not red, and your heart is not beating.

Life is never easy, a person may be difficult, but the road is chosen by yourself, even if it is difficult, you have to persevere, in the place you don't know, there are many people like you, you have to know,You are not alone, because your loneliness is shared by someone, and there will always be sunshine in the future.

Wandering alone, every time it's good.

Thinking of relatives. I think this is the feeling in most people's hearts, they want to go home more often to spend time with their parents, but they have to work hard outside because of life.

Rent a house

Rented a house, a very small bachelor apartment, and the stuff is piled up as soon as there is too much. I found that I had to cook my own food, buy my own groceries, and do my own housework, and I found that everything in my life needed to spend money. I don't have a car, I don't know how to ride, I have to walk or take a bus to get out, and the bus home from West Lake on weekends is like a can of sardines, and I have to wait for half an hour to see a can squeezed up.

Damp, the dehumidification bag at home is full of a bag of water in a month, the toilet is not wiped frequently, and the clothes will grow mold after soaking for a long time, and it seems that mold will often grow everywhere. Traffic jams, one hour to work and one and a half hours off work is the norm, there are always rows of cars on the elevated highway, the brake lights are always on, I don't know the end of this congestion, and I don't know when I can get home.

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Alone in the migrant work, this loneliness is spiritual, there is no one around you to speak, no one can help you come up with ideas and nag homely friends, just want to drink some wine, and there is no one to drink with you, let alone drunk, just like a person trapped on an isolated island, full of sea water. Especially when I was sick, I was so helpless that I wanted to cry and was very homesick. Every time I go home, when the bus enters the county seat, the night market stalls on the street are brightly lit, the barbecue restaurant is fragrant, and a large group of people on the table raise their wine glasses there, shouting loudly, and beer bottles clangling on the ground.

This kind of fireworks in the world, I feel that my hometown is embracing me with open hands, I often don't get home, so I make an appointment with the wine party first, and start drinking with my good classmates as soon as I get off the bus, and I only go home when I get drunk.

**

It's all over the place, it's all over the world.

There are a lot of ** when looking for a job. Be careful, I'd rather look for him for a month than spend a month on class or wasting time being trained.

So you need to use your kindness to discover the goodness around you.

If you live by yourself, you will be lazy.

It is said that the biggest enemy is myself, I didn't think so before, but now I think so.

I am unrestrained by myself, and I really do whatever I want.

How many people work alone in a foreign land

Enduring loneliness, loneliness

After walking through the four seasons alone, you know the warmth and coldness

Life is like this, only by enduring loneliness can we keep prosperity

Most people's first feeling should be loneliness. I am now a college student. From the east of Guangxi to the west of Yunnan.

I don't know what I thought when I filled in the volunteers, my mind was full of poetry and distance, and the idea of leaving home and going to a distant place grew wildly. From the moment I was separated from my parents for the first time at the high-speed rail station, I confess that I regretted it. I, who had never been on a high-speed train before, now have to take a 10-hour ride to an unfamiliar city that many people see as chaotic and dangerous.

It's almost two thousand kilometers away from home. I was really scared at that moment, afraid that I would have an accident on the road, and that parting with my family would be forever. It was already ten o'clock in the evening when I arrived at school.

On the way, I met a lot of Yunnan people who spoke dialects, and I was scared because I couldn't understand it, and the weather in Yunnan was very cold at night, and the loneliness doubled. A senior sister took a tour of the school on the first day, and the rest of the days were on her own. To be honest, it's been a year, and I'm still a little bit unable to eat the greasy meals in the school cafeteria, where the sun sets at eight o'clock, and every time I talk to my old friend, the sky is black on one side and white on the other.

When my friend shared with me what she was eating, I really wanted to go home. But, no matter what, I have to pay for my choice. In fact, there is warmth in unfamiliar cities, and there will be people who will buy you medicine when you are allergic, share food with you, and ...... you visit unfamiliar citiesEverywhere, after a long time, the strange city also has familiar friends.

People are always sentimental and cheap, and in this place they think of the people of that place. Where are so many bodies that can't help themselves, you have to learn to get used to it, loneliness and melancholy are suitable for the night, and now it's daytime. Living in a strange city, I hope you meet a good person, remember to smile every day, and be safe and healthy.

How so? You will feel excited and confused, you can have it. The excitement is that here, you don't know people, you can do what you want to do. Lost, sometimes you feel lonely and don't have a true friend by your side.

Living in an unfamiliar city is a bumpy one. After a few months in the province, I adapted to the local life. After meeting new people, loneliness also decreases. I still feel homesick, but I also love my life now.

After graduating from high school last summer, when I filled in the volunteers, my previous applications were all universities in other provinces, and I thought that the farther away from home the better, to see the scenery elsewhere, but I still cried on the first day of school.

First of all, we must first understand the lifestyle of the **

How can you adapt to living in a completely unfamiliar city as soon as possible?

1.Call ** to your family or best friend.

Relaxation brings mental pleasure and dilutes fatigue and anxiety. You can discuss the new environment with your friends and prepare for the start of work. For the rest, you can search for the customs, environmental geography of your city, and make a basic impression.

Buy a map of the city and walk through it. By car, taxi, bus, bicycle or on foot. If you want to get acquainted with the city's landmarks quickly, sign up for a day trip.

Change your mobile phone number to your local number, print it on your business card, and notify all your acquaintances.

2.If all immigrants residing in the city need to apply for a temporary residence permit.

Please do so as soon as possible. Get a job. At least from now on you have a mailing address.

If you can't find a job for a while, or want to take a break, go to a nearby post office and rent a mailbox specifically for you, so that you can also have a fixed mailing address. Establish several circles: colleague circles, local circle of friends.

Opposite-sex circle, hobby circle, professional circle, friend circle, neighborhood circle, consumer circle. It is not recommended to participate in hometown meetings, where there is the warmth of fellow villagers, but it is easy to degenerate into small interest groups, which is not suitable for you to integrate into the city. You can create a schedule of work and rest.

Organize your day in an organized manner, arrange work time, recreation time, personal interest time, health time, etc., <>

3.Feel free to do what you need to do. Stick with it, and you'll make it a habit to feel fulfilled instead of loitering around and homesick all day.

A person's daily habits can be cultivated. They have their own set of habits at home to go to strange places. Although the conditions are limited, they can develop another set of habits.

Once another set of habits is formed, they quickly adjust themselves to it and then "deny that the rest of the world is their hometown." "It's over. You can make your place of residence your home base and home, go out every day to exercise, go to work, shop, come back to cook, etc., and cultivate your feelings for a foreign land.

Some young people even bring their boyfriend and girlfriend to a "home" party to get to know each other better. Thus, "home" becomes its home.

Communicate more with colleagues and friends around you, meet more new people, and walk around the nearby streets, and you will soon get used to it.

First of all, you must be self-reliant, then clean up your own house, buy some daily necessities by yourself, and then cheer yourself up, let yourself persevere, you can talk to your friends, let yourself have a psychological comfort.