My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we quarrel every day, why?

Is it a personality incompatibility? Personalities are incompatible, and it is useless to love each other. Have you tried to understand each other's hearts?

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also quarreled, indicating that they cared about each other, and that they were still willing to have problems with each other. The staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau once said that if the men and women who came to the divorce came in all the way, they would definitely advise them not to divorce; But if the men and women who come to divorce look at each other coldly, and they don't want to look at each other anymore, and when it has nothing to do with each other whether they live or die, whether they live well or badly, they will not persuade them not to divorce, because they know that even if they do, it is useless.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart!~2

If you and your boyfriend are always in conflict when they are together, even if the two of you are just a very small topic, you can still quarrel hotly, such an emotion is really precarious. Because you're not sure if the next time you quarrel will fall apart, the two of you won't be able to go back. So, after all, do couples who like to quarrel not get along?

In my personal opinion, this probability is quite large.

It is difficult for couples to avoid quarrels, but if quarrels become the main theme in life, this will only make each other feel more and more tired in this relationship, and they don't even want to say more words to each other, because as long as they don't agree with what they say, if they are not satisfied with what they say, they may immediately quarrel with themselves. This kind of emotional exchange is really unbearable. If it goes on for a long time, the relationship between two people will become weaker and weaker because of the quarrel, and even eventually consume all affection.

Therefore, couples need to learn to communicate and communicate correctly, and never let quarrels ruin the relationship between you. If you really don't have the same opinion about something, you can choose to be honest and honest, but it must not escalate to personal attacks. And in the process of communication, the attitude should be friendly, don't be a lever for the sake of a bar, which will only make people think that you are an authentic bar, and you are not in love, but in a debate.

This kind of love and getting along mode is probably not something that anyone would be happy to see.

I hope that couples can realize this, and before expressing their opinions, they can put themselves in each other's shoes and understand each other's thoughts, so that we may be able to become tolerant of our hearts, and we will not always be at odds with each other. Remember, we are lovers, not enemies, and there's no need to fight over small things. I hope everyone can remember the original intention of love - to make each other happier, not to ruin each other's happiness with their own hands.

Therefore, we must try our best to get along with each other, so as to reduce the frequency of quarrels, so that two people do not have to worry about not getting along.

Personally, I think yes, if you quarrel every day and have contradictions every day, it means that the personalities of the two people are inappropriate, and the three views are also different, and the two people can't get along after all.

I think so, if two people quarrel and contradict each other every day, it's better not to be together, which means that the personalities of the two people are not suitable.

Yes, if the two of you quarrel every day, it means that you have differences in some aspects, and it is also very likely that you have a personality incompatibility.

In a relationship, I think there will definitely be all kinds of problems, because life is not as easy as we imagined, and it is always full of a lot of uncertain factors, and it is these uncertain factors that make our relationship undergo some subtle changes, and we will slowly wear out our patience and love for each other unconsciously. So now let's look at the question of my boyfriend always arguing with me, why is that? I think there must be a reason why my boyfriend always quarrels with me, maybe it's because the personalities of the two people don't match, or maybe some of my language hurts the other person, sometimes you should pay attention to the changes in the other person's emotions, maybe it's talking to the opposite sex.

One. Pay attention to the changes in the other person's emotions in the relationship.

In this world, it is a very lucky thing for us to be with the person we like, so we must cherish our own feelings in our own relationship, when our object always likes to lose our temper or get angry, we must learn to find reasons or reflect, and if there is a problem, it must be solved in time, if it is not solved in time, it may cause a big contradiction, and finally become a weapon to destroy the relationship between two people. I think boyfriends are always arguing, maybe the other person is experiencing something stressful, and sometimes we should give each other some quiet time.

Two. It may be that there are a lot of irritating things in life.

In our daily life, we will find that many things are very upset, but we must learn to digest our negative emotions, always lose our temper in front of our own object, I think it will make the mood of both people worse, if the other party always quarrels in front of themselves, I think it may be that we have encountered a lot of irritable things, or when we are chatting with the opposite sex, we are seen by the other party, so we must pay attention to the mood of the object of observation and avoid some contradictions.

The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think is the reason for the quarrel?