What to do if your child is addicted to online games

That means you're not as attractive as a computer, haha, just kidding. Sometimes, I'd rather be in front of a computer than at a person. It should be that the things around him do not arouse his interest.

That's why it's like this, and over time, children will develop an autistic personality. You need to take your child out for a walk or develop some other interests to show him that there is something more interesting than playing. If he really likes games, you can just ask him if he is interested in game production, and develop this into his specialty, it just so happens that I am doing this, and there is still a shortage of game talents, so if you are interested in letting your child do this, you can leave me a message.

How old is the child? Now children playing computer is a very common thing, especially boys, parents don't have to worry, this is a process of children's development, when they are older, have ideals, outlook on life and values have been established, they will give up playing computer, of course, you can also guide the child, cultivate his other hobbies, such as buy him a basketball, football, or a bicycle, etc., to distract his attention. Of course, it is not the responsibility of one person to educate a child, you can also communicate with his homeroom teacher, ask the school to show some documentaries on the dangers of the Internet during the lesson, or let the teacher have some themed class meetings away from computer games.

The answer is not long, but as a teacher, I hope it can help you.

Be patient and enlightened, if he really can't listen, you try to write a letter to him, move him with affection, understand reason, believe that he will understand your painstaking efforts, and take him out to play more time, and find ways to divert his attention.

What a child, spend more time with him, he has a general relationship with his family, and he has sustenance in online games.

Let him play for 40 minutes and rest for about 10 minutes, looking into the distance, it is good for the eyes.

You can also let him finish his homework first and play, and only play on weekends during the school day.

I've read a report that the parent casually let the child play with the computer, but he had to finish the homework, and it was all correct, not just casual, so the child could not only play casually but also get good grades. Today's children can't be pressed, and the candy and iron rod of children in this society are precocious and rebellious (that is, earlier than the rebellious period of the post-80s and post-90s).

Analyze the pros and cons with him well, and don't scold

1) Understand children's competitive mentality.

Whether it is fighting and killing, winning or losing, in fact, it reflects the competitive psychology of children, especially children who have entered the adolescent stage, which is more obvious.

The reason why online games are so attractive is precisely because of the relationship between victory and defeat, because everyone wants to win, and they don't want to be the disgraced loser. So, in order to satisfy the little desire to win in his heart, the child keeps spending time on it, and finally he becomes addicted to it without knowing it.

As parents, we should understand that children's competitive psychology is a necessary process in the process of children's growth, and it is also a sign that children move from naivety to maturity. You must know that every child actually has a competitive mentality, which is a very normal psychology.

2) Let children play in moderation.

It is absolutely impossible for a child not to touch any games at all, because games are a product of the development of this era, and if the child does not have any interest in it, it must be a sign that the child is willing to fall behind. Many boys like to play online games, while girls basically like some small games, such as Lianliankan, Elimination, Finding Differences, etc. When you are bored, using games to pass the time has become a trend in this era, so as parents, we must recognize the facts and not naively imagine that our children will not touch any games.

Games can be played, and the most important thing is to let children play games in moderation. So what should we do as parents? The most fundamental point is to let children play in moderation.

1. Don't treat your child simply and rudely, and you should communicate ideas with your child honestly. Help children distinguish between right and wrong, give children the right and opportunity to speak, let children truly realize the negative effects of indulging in online games from the ideological perspective, and summon up the courage of children to overcome this bad habit, and be a firm supporter of children to correct this bad behavior and habits. Good communication with your child is a prerequisite for problem solving.

2. Understand the content of children's online games, meet the normal psychological needs of children, children are addicted to online games, and the general situation is caused by a variety of reasons, among which psychological factors are one of the important factors, combined with the content of children's online games, analyze with children to see if it is caused by excessive learning pressure or interpersonal difficulties; Is it the lack of a sense of success and achievement, or the lack of ideals and beliefs caused by ......Work with your child to develop a coping plan for specific psychological needs.

3. Enhance parent-child relationship and understand children's knots through playing with children, especially children who have entered adolescence, parents feel that they have a strong rebellious psychology and are difficult to communicate. Play online games with your child, join your child's virtual group, communicate with your child as a game partner, and educate and cultivate your child's good behavior of healthy play. The effect of this is much better than simple preaching, after all, "moisturizing things silently", under the condition of the child's low level of psychological resistance, the child is more likely to accept your concept, easier to open his "heart knot" to you, and more conducive to your "right medicine".

1. Take more time to spend with your child, don't leave your child at home because you are busy with work, your child is very active and curious, so you should take it outdoors to go around, so that your child's attention is distracted, and you don't want to play computer games all the time.

2. Don't blindly force children to contact with games, although it is more harmful to contact the computer at such a young age. But you can't ignore the rebellious psychology of children, the more you don't let him move, the more he will want to move. Therefore, you can try to play preschool games with children on the computer for a reasonable time.

However, it should be noted that the time should not be too long, which is called blocking is better than sparse.

3. You can also set parental control software on the computer to restrict the computer (of course, including setting the boot password and other methods), so as to avoid children from turning on the computer to play when the adults are not there. Don't think that children don't understand, although children don't know how to read, but the ability to imitate academic qualifications is very strong, many times you can hold Min Qi can just watch adults do it once to know how to get it. Therefore, it is necessary to put restrictions on the computer.

4. The exemplary role of adults is very huge, so try to avoid using the computer in front of children. Sitting in front of a computer for a long time can make your baby curious about the computer, especially if he has played computer games. Soon you will start to get obsessed with playing games.

Therefore, you should try to avoid using the computer in front of your baby.

1. Find alternatives to the game.

Most parents will meet their children's strong resistance when they ask their children to quit gaming, so it is better to find some activities that can replace gaming, such as: taking children to the movies, going to the playground, etc.

Generally speaking, boys play games mainly in confrontation because it makes him feel excited, and parents can let their children play basketball, baseball, rock climbing, etc.

2. Let children lose interest in playing games.

Parents should not stop their children from playing games every day, which will only make them more addicted to it as soon as they have the opportunity to play, but directly let their children play for 3 to 4 hours in a fixed period of time, and they can't leave until they finish playing.

At first the child will be happy for a while, but he will soon lose interest.

3. Let the child give up the game on his own initiative.

The game itself is designed to make players "addicted", so a lot of reward mechanisms are set up, such as: you can get game equipment by doing tasks, and it is easier to fight monsters and upgrade with equipment, which attracts many children to continue playing.

Parents can also do the same: prepare a**, if the child can put up a sticker if he doesn't play the game for a day, and wait until the 20 are enough to receive a reward. And so on, with a similar reward system, let the child gradually move away from the game.

Although it is effective to use psychological methods and routines to help children quit game addiction, if you want to solve the problem fundamentally, parents need to change their attitude towards their children.

For example, if the focus on the child's grades is shifted to the child itself, then the child will most likely not find a sense of existence in the game.

1. Accompany and communicate more.

Whether it is a mother or a father, it is important for children to take time to give their children a certain amount of companionship. Parents give their children more communication and exchanges, and only the companionship based on effective communication is the real companionship. Studies have shown that children who are generally addicted to online games do not like to communicate and do not like to communicate with the outside world, so parental companionship and communication can help children get out of games.

2. Defend children's rights.

Parents need to recognize that playing games is a child's right and take a rational view of online games. When children play online, they can exercise their reflexes, thinking, coordination and team spirit, and can get happiness and release stress from play. While the game has a certain amount of entertainment, it focuses more on education.

Parents need to fully consider their children's needs for happiness and control the time they spend playing games. Parents should guide and supervise their children's access to online games, allowing them to access online games, but they should discuss with their children to establish the time and rules for playing games, so that they can develop rational and healthy entertainment habits from an early age.

3. Teach children how to face setbacks correctly.

Education is not the whole of a child's life, but for children, learning is the center of their life, and many children are troubled by the pressure of studying, and often play online games to relieve stress. Parents should teach their children how to face setbacks correctly, guide them to relieve stress, and avoid negative emotions.

4. Enhance the wisdom of education.

Parents should learn more scientific educational concepts, improve educational wisdom, learn how to live in harmony with children, respect their growth rules, and build a harmonious parent-child relationship, so as to guide children to develop healthy leisure habits, avoid the harm caused by online games, and enjoy the right to entertain friends at the same time.

5. Do a good job of guiding.

When facing children playing online games, you need to be calm, not too irritable, and help children build a positive and benign interactive relationship. In addition, parents should not only pay attention to their children's grades and rankings, but also use online games as a bridge to build a harmonious parent-child relationship in the face of their children's games.

I don't approve of the way parents let the eight-year-old take a week off school and play games to defeat magic with magic. It's easy for children to go astray in this way.

One. Playing games is not the whole of life, some children have concentration, you let him play, let him not play when he doesn't play, she listens to you, but some children he doesn't have concentration, you let him play, as long as he is given time, he can forget to sleep and eat. Even abandoned his studies, and even skipped.

So this method is not a judgment at all.

Two. If you don't have a better plan and some requirements, he will let himself play day and night without control. You only have to participate in his thoughts, and then give him time to plan his game time and study time according to the time, so that he can study well in the limited time and play the game well in the limited time.

Three. You can also use a motivating method, that is, only study hard, I will give you enough time, if you don't study hard, enough time will definitely not play games with you, but continue to make up for the study. If a child is only eight years old and has such a big Internet addiction to games, then he will not be able to control his thoughts in the future, and you will not be able to change him.

So don't indulge her in this kind of Internet addiction behavior is the same as my thoughts, so be it!

Of course, some netizens feel that this is a good way to educate children, after all, there are typical cases of frustration in children.

Some netizens also believe that such an education method is incorrect, and parents must also have certain problems, can't let children play games every day just because they like to play games, and use magic to magic?

At present, the child is still in primary school, it is true that there is no self-control, at this time as a parent needs to let the child develop a good habit of self-discipline, of course, to cultivate children to develop good habits, the process of learning hard is very difficult, parents need to spend a lot of time to help children develop habits.

That can't be said that electronic products are only bad for children, after all, children can get a lot of exposure to electronic products, and we parents can't teach him some knowledge.

Therefore, I think it is beneficial for children to develop a good habit and appropriate games, such as accompanying children to surf the Internet, but in the process of surfing the Internet, we must restrain children and formulate rules for surfing the Internet with children.

For example, how many minutes can you only play, so that the child can participate in the rule inside, if you say that through this extreme way to let the child quit this Internet addiction, it may be effective in the short term, but in the end it should do more harm than good.

Generally speaking, family education is very important for children to develop good habits, as long as parents do their own words and deeds in life, to create a family environment with a strong learning atmosphere for children, children will naturally be influenced by parents, so that children form a good habit, want to let children quit Internet addiction, first of all, parents can not play games in front of their children.