How can we improve one s cultivation and connotation?

Read more books. There is poetry and writing in the belly.

If the first person does not offend me, I will not offend anyone, and if someone offends me, cut the grass and eradicate the roots, the second organ will do everything you can in vain.

Outwardly. We all know not to judge people by their appearance, but how can you not judge people by their appearance, a person does not shave a beard, his hair is long and messy, his clothes are dirty and rotten, are you willing to talk to him, are you willing to work with him? Definitely not.

So the appearance of the beard is clean, the hair is neat, and the clothes may be old and clean. In this way, your inner cultivation can be reflected. A clean and tidy appearance is also part of personal cultivation.

Inner cultivation should read more books, read more books on etiquette and interpersonal relationships. Add your knowledge, breadth and depth. Establish a correct outlook on life, values and outlook on life.

The three are correct and unified. To achieve the truth, goodness and beauty of life. Usually participate in more activities, learn more knowledge, and also learn some of the performances and habits of the cultivated people around you.

Personally, I think that a person's cultivation must first learn to respect people, treat people and things without being humble or arrogant, and be sincere and kind. If there is a breadth and depth of knowledge, presumably this person's cultivation is very good. ‍

Stay away from those who are sanctimonious. Although they may seem elegant, they are in fact narrow-minded, completely selfish, attentive to strict distinctions and careful grasps. If there is no suitable person, then there can be no confidant.

A good book is enough. Not all people are worth socializing, and not all people can be friends and have a heart-to-heart relationship. A person's cultivation requires continuous self-cultivation, considering one's own words and deeds, and what kind of feelings they bring to the other person, and empathy is very important.

Have a tasteful hobby. Marx's philosophy has revealed that "things are mutually influencing and interacting", and our level of cultivation is not only affected by internal factors, but also by external factors, and external good things will also affect our behavior to a certain extent.

My views are as follows: If you want to improve a person's self-cultivation, first of all, parental education is very important, and secondly, moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic education in school. Then after entering the society, it also has a lot to do with the circle, a good circle can bring good people, and a bad circle can bring bad people;From one's own point of view, if you want to improve a person's inner cultivation, you need to exercise from "words and deeds", be decent and generous, and exercise harmony and amiability from "heroic smile".

From the "inner quality" to exercise the high eight buckets, erudite and talented. From the "human form" to exercise "joy, anger, sorrow and happiness are invisible", "not to be happy with things, not to be sad about yourself", to look down on everything, and to face life and work calmly. But I don't care about personal gains and losses;If you have the conditions to read more books, travel more, make more friends, exercise more, participate in meditation activities, and wear clothes to show your own charm, taste, and personality.

If you have money, you will do more good, and if you have no money, you will accumulate virtue". Respect the old and love the young, and respect the elders. ‍‍

Many people in ancient and modern China and abroad have a special preference: that is, to read a wide range of books, whether it is literature, history, art, or other fields, can show this unique interest. Without extensive reading, it would not have been possible for Sima Qian, Li Daoyuan, Ma Duanlin, and Hu Sansheng to complete a series of outstanding works on ancient Chinese history and geography that are detailed and rich in content.

Therefore, we can read more books in our daily life, which is still more effective.

A person's inner cultivation is not innate, but is formed through continuous training. You need to insist on reading more, and if you love to read, your inner level will be greatly improved, your cultivation will be improved, and you will know how to deal with people. Keep reading, and when you gradually understand more things, your emotional intelligence will surpass that of ordinary people.

Visit exhibitions, national museums, and libraries to see them, get a touch of the cultural atmosphere there, communicate more with college students, of course, the 1 10 college students, listen to their opinions and views on the world, understand their thinking, and learn like others. Adults, after leaving school, should study like children, otherwise they will not be able to keep up with the pace of the times.

Deal with great people. As the proverb goes, "Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black", what kind of person you are with, then what kind of person you will become. Keep thinking and introspecting.

A great man like Confucius will also "reflect on my body three times a day", which shows that if you want to behave in accordance with etiquette, you must reflect on it every day and check your heart.

Observe and observe life more, many times life gives us a lot of education, and slowly the heart will become a different feeling, feeling that the sky is more beautiful, the landscape is more affectionate and more loved, and the sun is shining in a person's heart, so as to know the taste of happiness in life. In order to have a longing place and pursue beautiful things, so let's learn more.

Inner cultivation also refers to personal cultivation, and in order to enhance one's personality charm, one must start from shaping one's own image.

Why do some people give people a wonderful feeling when they talk, gesture, or even smile or greet, or even answer **, while some people do the opposite? This is a matter of one's self-cultivation. From the bottom of our hearts, each and every one of us appreciates this beauty.

This kind of beauty does not necessarily look good-looking on the outside; You don't necessarily own a designer watch or a good voice. The gold and jade are outside and ruined"Not after all. However, people with a high level of cultivation are most likely to stand out among ordinary people, and this is where the charm of the individual lies.

If one wants to deepen one's self-cultivation, one must first start with:"change"Start with"Subject"Start from self-requirements. So what exactly"change", how"Subject"This?

1. We should change our words, change our character, and change our hearts: the most basic communication between people is language, if we speak without art, or if we speak inappropriately, it will be difficult to get others' good impression of ourselves. In terms of character, if the habits are very heavy, the viciousness is not changed, the bad heart is not changed, and the evil opinions, jealousy, stupidity, and arrogance in the heart are not changed, it will be difficult to improve the morality and cultivation.

Therefore, we should learn to constantly improve, change our words, change our character, and change our mind, so that we can make continuous progress.

2. Should be taught, suffered, and angry: On the road of life, why can some people continue to improve, while others do not advance but retreat? The problem is that he can't"Subject".

In the same way as learning to read, some people are easy to progress because they are willing to accept it; Some people are prone to regression because they can't get in. In the process of deepening our cultivation, we must first learn to be taught, and being taught-minded is to absorb things into our own hearts and then digest them into our own thoughts.

We are not only to be taught, but also to be angry. If a person can only accept the praise of others, he cannot always and completely increase his strength, and he should also learn to accept criticism, guidance, and even harm from others. In a certain sense, only by being able to suffer and be angry can we make progress.

3. You should think, think, think: you must think twice before doing anything. Thought is intelligence, and anything that is done after careful consideration will surely be able to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

4. Dare to speak, dare to do, dare to be: some people dare not express their thoughts, and when they have opinions, they dare not express them in front of the public, and they will only discuss them in private; I don't dare to do it, I don't dare to do it. If you don't dare to take responsibility, you won't be responsible, and if you can't be responsible, you won't be able to gain the trust of others, and your cultivation will not improve.

Therefore, as long as it is a good deed, a good deed, we must learn to dare to speak, dare to do, and dare to act.

Therefore, if we want to deepen our cultivation, we should:

1.We must change our words, change our character, and change our hearts.

2.Be taught, suffer, be angry.

3.To think, to think, to think.

4.Dare to say it, dare to do it. Dare to be.

Set small goals for yourself, in fact, you only have a small goal, you can talk about the so-called transcendence. For example, your small goal is to make the company a million dollars in three months. Then try to see if you can do two million or three million in three months.

In this way, transcending oneself has the so-called veritability. And it is very meaningful to set small goals, because it is easy to distract one's time and energy if people do not have goals, and when we have goals, we will be more aware of what we should do. To give another example, I started my business two and a half years after graduating from university, in April of 15 years.

Then at that time, when I graduated in the first or second year, I set a small goal for myself, which was that I would be able to earn one million in three years. Two years after I graduated, I felt that this goal was still far away, and I only had a salary of four or five thousand, four or five thousand a month, and then I thought about what I was going to do to achieve this goal. But if you talk about your goals.

If you have been in the past two years or so, although your salary is low, you will not be so panicked or stressed, because you always think that the fortuitous factor is coming. Then, don't care how much I get a month's salary, just compare the past. In the past year, during the Chinese New Year, did I grow or change?

When that serendipitous factor comes, you decisively grasp it, and then you will find it interesting, and the three-year goal you set for yourself is achieved.

Communicate with better people, this is because everyone's background, everyone's resume and experience, and the resources we have are different. So a lot of times we have completely different views on a thing. If we can all find slightly better people in this industry, you will find that your world will become a lot bigger.

For example, if you talk to me about the current situation and future of this industry and his growth process, in fact, I can tell you that I can't finish it in a day. In other words, if you find a wine lover who tells you about the history of wine, its present and its future, it can be a long, long time. That is, each person will give you a big world from their own professionalism and its point of view.

Therefore, communicating with others can help you grow.

Ask yourself more questions, and every day you will find that no one will value and care more about the project you are currently working on than yourself. In fact, including the business itself, there are as many people who expect you to succeed as there are people waiting to see your jokes. In this process, if we want to improve ourselves, we may have to ask ourselves questions and answer ourselves to remind ourselves, what else am I not doing well enough?

This process may be my own learning process, or it may be my own process of surpassing myself. I want to be new every day. When I said that I was new every day, I was reminded of a sentence, which was a sentence that I would read aloud every morning when I was in the college entrance examination, which was the first sentence in the parchment roll:

Today my calluses turned to dust and I strutted through the crowd. No one will recognize me because I am no longer my old self, I have a new life. In fact, because of the discovery of this so-called energy, or the value of the so-called words, and its energy is very huge.

I used to be a person with low self-esteem, but every time I use this sentence to encourage myself, I really think that I am not the same as before, and then I don't pay so much attention to other people's eyes, I just want to be a better version of myself.

We want to improve our self-confidence, just imagine, self-confidence is a person's own aura, nothing to do with anyone else, it is from the inside out, real self-confidence will definitely infect others, transmit positive energy, which is also one of the necessary qualities.

We must be responsible, no matter when and where, when there is a task to come, we can not choose to escape, but to face difficulties, there are no conditions to create conditions, if you encounter difficulties and retreat, it is difficult for you to become a high-quality person!

Read more and learn more, because in fact, every book is a very good summary of a concept or a story, or a person's life by a very good person. He combines other people's decades into a book. I would suggest that you read at least 10 books in 12 months of the year, regardless of whether you are busy or take some time to read some books.

This is a very small goal. If you have found yourself growing up tired or stressed, it is because you read less, and that is true.

To form my own entrepreneurial gang, I used the word gang. It means that I want to tell you that entrepreneurs are actually equivalent to adding a community, but this community may be relatively large. For example, we now have 15,000 members in China, so in this case, my personal suggestion is to have such a social brand, of course, it is very valuable, and it has its meaning and function.

But at the same time, we want to give our closest entrepreneurial comrades or partners, and we set up a small entrepreneurial group. There are not many people in this group, only five or ten people. It must be your side that you think can give his back to him, that kind of friend, or such a partner.

Then five of you and ten of you need to meet once a month to talk about the problems you have encountered in your business in the past month, the problems you have encountered in starting a business, or which of you have seen a new opportunity and share it. It's such a small team that's very private. And then of course I have my own little gang, which is also five or six people, and we go and see each other every month.

Then we will communicate with each other what you may not dare to say to your investment, what you can't say to your family or your employees. That's a kind of growth for yourself, and that's very, very important. It is recommended that if you see this, you can imagine in your mind who is worthy of your 100% trust, and it doesn't matter if you give her trade secrets.

Yes, there may be two people, three people, you might as well start with two or three people, and then develop some new partners.