My child is a freshman in high school in 2012, he is not suitable for living in school, he is alread

Uncle and aunt, your child's situation is very similar to me three years ago, I lived on campus for the first time in high school, I was very uncomfortable, I went to the provincial key, there was no one in my town who was familiar with me here, I didn't know anyone in the class, I was far away from home, stress, loneliness, I didn't adapt to the teacher's class, I didn't know how to get along with the people in the dormitory, I was introverted, homesick, I was very low when I came in the grades, I had low self-esteem, all kinds of things caused me to be sick for a long time, but my parents were very busy, I didn't ask them to accompany me, At that time, my homeroom teacher asked us to write a weekly diary from the beginning of school, a lot of unhappy things, I couldn't confide in me and wrote it in the diary, the homeroom teacher understood my situation through the diary, always enlightened me, told my roommates to take care of me, and then I slowly adapted to it, and had a very pleasant time, if your child's situation is very serious, I really can't adapt to the school, if you can't stand it, it is recommended to accompany you, I also have several classmates who can't stand it after living in school, my mother came to accompany me, and the grades were very good, after all, the body is the capital of the revolution. Follow your child's advice.

Don't see what you mean? Day school is also OK, but, to be honest, high school is a lifelong thing, if you can find time to help and accompany him, I think it will be better, of course, I don't know if it's local or what's going on, in fact, what school to look at when you live in school, key high school naturally needless to say, everyone is learning, and if you live in school, there will be that kind of atmosphere, because everyone is studying, of course, the general point of high school day school is also good.

I was like this at the beginning, when I was sick, I took a leave of absence and weighed whether school was important or physically important.

Day study is like exercise, and when you get better, you are going to school.

I was a sophomore in high school this year, and I lived on campus at first, and then I didn't feel comfortable living on campus, so I rented a safe house near the school and lived by myself.

I am from Shuozhou City, Shanxi, I sent my child to the Yundong Campus of Huairen No. 1 Middle School, to live in the school, but after the start of school, the child is not suitable for living in the school and is already sick, I want him to run to the school, I go to accompany, I don't know if this school can not live in the school,

Divine horse disease··· I used to pretend to be uncomfortable when I was studying, and I took a leave of absence...

Hello! It's a pleasure to meet you here. Hope mine helps you.

From your description, "What should I do if I want to go to school and tell my parents many times that I don't agree?" I understand your frustration and overwhelm, and I can also feel your desire to change the status quo. I hope my analysis can answer your questions.

1) First of all, I hope that the subject can have an accepting mentality.

There are many things and people in this world that we cannot understand or that break our values. This requires an attitude of acceptance. I accept that you exist, but that doesn't mean I agree with it, or that I'm going to do that.

These are also the three steps we take to understand the world:1Acceptance 2

What is my attitude 3What am I going to do?

Then when we go to high school, we will see more things, and it is normal to go to high school and think differently from what we think, because when we are in junior high school, all the thoughts about high school are fantasies. Then we also know that illusions will always be worn out. Therefore, when we have an accepting attitude, it will be easier for us to adapt and face the world, and quickly adjust ourselves to surpass others.

2) As for the idea of day study, I think this is a good way for you to adjust yourself, although it is not necessarily correct or accurate, but even if you try, more trial and error will return to faster progress! When communicating with your parents, try to express your thoughts as much as possible, during this period, your father may express their opinions, and you will think that this is not conducive to your learning, ......etcNotice that this is what they need and think, and that's what we need to give them a sense of security.

and a place of contentment. Therefore, catch their doubts in time, give them answers, and try to meet their needs as much as possible. You can also get the opportunity to go to school

3) For the hard work and difficulty of parents, it is good that we have such thoughts. But at what age to take on what kind of things Ha We can cut some expenses and save some to help give back to our parents. But the rest, at least, is not what we should be able to afford now.

As much as we are concerned, we can't do more for our parents. So don't worry about celebrating Li here, but manage your own life and get better and better, maybe it will make them easier, come on!

Then you should analyze the advantages of going to school and the disadvantages of accommodation, and show strong emotions when you say it, so that your parents know that you are uncomfortable and make them feel sorry for you. and sell.

I think you can communicate well with your parents and tell your parents what are the benefits of going to school, and I believe that your parents will agree.

At this time, communicate with your parents and tell them why you want to go to school and what are the benefits of going to school.

The most direct way is to find your homeroom teacher and explain your current situation to him, because he knows you best, and ask him to get you a planner.

The reason why I have been sleepy lately, the reason why I am too stressful to study, etc., should be explained in detail.

In the transition stage between junior high school and high school in the first year of high school, if the state of the first year of high school is not good, the study of the second year of high school will make your pressure worse, and the third year of high school is the summary of the first and second years of high school. Therefore, the first year of high school is very important and needs to be treated with caution.

Hehe, I'm also a boarding student, so I'm going to make a point

First of all, LZ should be able to squeeze out his own rest time, and the laundry can be washed during the lunch break. If there are classmates who talk in self-study (provided that lz doesn't speak), then we will kiss the head teacher or teacher's dog leg ......When you study at night, you must first practice to improve your efficiency You have to train yourself to ignore the things around you, and only gnaw on the homework book So that you can sleep in the dormitory when you return to the dormitory for self-study at night

Most students have this kind of distress Don't worry too much This will put yourself in a state of anxiety and tension Suggestion:

1. Relax and write down your troubles with a pen to help clear your mind and relieve your worries.

2. Roughly estimate that you must spend study time and meal and washing time every day, try to shorten the complex cleaning task on the rest day, if you can't give it up, it is recommended to copy the memorized content, such as concepts, formulas, in a less efficient or messy classroom environment, and then paste it in a visible place when washing and washing, so as to save time.

4. Calculate your average sleep time (to ensure that the next day works normally) A sleep cycle is one and a half hours You can estimate your cycle The average person sleeps 6 to 8 hours It is very important to take a nap, it is best between 11 o'clock and 13 o'clock At most half an hour More is not suitable A good quality nap can be worth 3 hours of sleep at night.

5. Stress-based target memory learning content, including the teacher's problem-solving method, which is very effective, it is best to go outdoors between classes, jogging, and small gymnastics can help the brain supply oxygen, learn to get twice the result with half the effort, move the left limb more, and develop the right brain, which is more conducive to the improvement of memory.

I am from here, I was also a boarding student in high school, our schedule is a bit the same as yours, we go to self-study at 6 o'clock in the morning, an hour, and then have breakfast, there is a nap time at noon, two hours off from May 1st to 11th, there is an hour is nap time, 11th to 51th noon has half an hour of sleeping time, and at night is half past ten to sleep, earlier than you, but we generally get up at 5 o'clock in the morning, go directly to self-study after washing, and the time to wash clothes is sometimes noon and sometimes night, Morning time is very precious, it is recommended that you get up in the morning not to wash clothes, seize the time to study, you must go to bed at noon, even if it is just for a while, you will not be sleepy in the afternoon and evening self-study.

Work hard and take control of yourself!

You can stuff earplugs in your ears in evening class, and I have classmates stuffed them.

It is recommended to make up for 5-8 minutes of sleep between classes, and leave a few minutes to be active and awake, so that the class will be efficient!

I also felt that time was very tight in my first year of high school.

Just get used to it.

It seems that there is no way to do it, then, except for a proper break, you don't go out to play and take a nap every time you get out of class.

Hey, you are content, we start at 6 o'clock in the morning and do not get out of self-study until 11 o'clock in the evening, you are already very good.

In this way, the daily homework will not be done, and the one who will do it will not be done, just copy it, which should save some time.

Then don't wash the clothes in the morning, put the laundry detergent in the morning and soak it, wash it at night, it's easy to wash, and it saves time.

The most important thing is to take a small break at noon, even if it is 15 minutes on the desk.

This last one will be a lot easier to do, trust me!

The pressure is all self-inflicted!

When I used to study, I would go out to drink and sing every day, and go to bed when I came back at 11 o'clock.

Wake up at 7:30 a.m.! It's still too late!

You can do laundry together for 2 days, and use the afternoon after school.

When a classmate is talking, you slap the table, who's arguing! You're going to kill him with a book!

Dress up properly, do what you want to do in the dormitory, sleep and do laundry, and surf the Internet like you are now! It's both!

Child, seeing how many exclamation marks you type, you know that you are impetuous. You should calm down, find out what is causing your uplift, and then fix it. Don't put so much pressure on yourself in your first year of high school.

A normal eight hours of sleep is sufficient, and you have seven hours of sleep, a little less, not too much.

Clothes do not have to be washed every day, four sets of changes of clothes, washing once in two or three days is enough.

During the study period, you should pay attention to the lunch break, half an hour during the lunch break and one hour in the evening.

If you fall asleep for five minutes during the 10-minute break, you can rest for half an hour during the break.

I'm also a resident in my first year of high school.

You can completely ignore someone talking in class, bring a headset or try to keep your mind calm for so long at night, I think if you master it well, it should be enough to do homework, right?

In the evening, you can go back to your dorm room to review what you have learned today, check your homework, or make up your homework as you said.

Why do you wake up at 5 o'clock to do laundry? Can't you wash it right after taking a shower at night?

Don't think too much about your life.

It is very important to get enough sleep, you have to sleep well, try to concentrate in class, be sure to go out for a walk between classes, and you won't be sleepy.

You don't want to fall, you have to work hard about yourself.

Hello, I'm in my third year of high school now, and we were really similar in my freshman year of high school! But then it's fine, with a few suggestions for you. First of all, be sure to take a nap at noon!

The kind that wants to fall asleep is not like lying on your stomach for five minutes. I used to drink coffee every day in order to hurry up with my homework, but it turned out to be useless! So depending on your actual situation, leave yourself a nap time, and the afternoon class will be very effective.

Then, about someone talking about the self-study last night, it is best to talk to the head teacher, it is inconvenient to say it directly, write an anonymous letter. At that time, I was reading in the morning class to catch up on sleep, hehe, drink more water, because I didn't solve this problem, in fact, more than 6 hours of sleep time is already very good for us high school students, you will slowly get used to it. Our evening self-study is 6:

20-9:50, 10:30 lights out, you are 11:

30 Lights out? It's really good already! We don't have time for homework, we bring our own flashlights and desk lamps, and we have to always be careful not to be discovered by the life teacher, hehe.

In fact, don't be so harsh on yourself, and have a sense of superiority! It's more energetic to do everything, pay attention to the efficiency of the class, homework is secondary, and, if you still don't have enough time, maybe you also have to reflect on yourself whether you sometimes unconsciously waste time?

I hope my sister's advice will be useful to you! Turning a vicious circle into a virtuous circle is by no means as difficult as you think!

You can give advice to the teacher If you really can't do it, you can pretend to be sick You can go back to the dormitory to study at night Self-study is to study by yourself If you can't study in the classroom, why don't you go back to the dormitory?

You can get up at 5:50 during the day to do laundry, and if you are really sleepy, throw your clothes in the school laundry room and wash them.

When I dozed off in class in the morning, my nirvana was to stand up when I was sleepy, or to pinch my thighs, which is how I used to be.

It's similar to us, just get used to it.

Be sure to go to bed at noon so that you can have energy at night. In addition, you should exercise regularly, high school nutrition is very important, eat better, physical fitness will go up, and your grades will go up.

There's no way around that, high school is so tight.