Am I doing the right thing? 200

Others who really belong to you can't take it away, what can be snatched away is cheap, what you need emotionally is not a person's will, your girlfriend knows that you don't like to have too close relationships with other men, but she still goes her own way, which doesn't care about your behavior.

This girl clearly stepped on two boats, and her love was bad enough, so you cared that you would still be so close to that boy? Love is exclusive and exclusive, break up as soon as possible, and the character is not good.

In this case, it is best to refuse any conditions of the other party and keep a good distance to avoid complications.

Isn't the October 1st holiday coming? It's not right to catch them talking, since you have your share, of course you have to fight for it, or is it your business? Whether it is your business or not, but you must make this matter clear, one is one, two is two, you can't mix it up, this matter must be explained in front of their whole family.

Don't be fooled by this muddled black cauldron. If there's anything else, you can't pick it out. You can consult a lawyer in advance.

Let's see what to say professionally? Or ask the lawyer to come out with a ** and act according to the ** requirements. Reduce unnecessary hassles.

The problem lies in the fact that "all the formalities have been completed". I believe that if you don't change your hukou later, your current hukou is still on your uncle's side, which means that you are still nominally the uncle's adopted daughter, and the adopted daughter and your biological children enjoy the same inheritance rights, so you also have a share of the property in your aunt's name. This is legal logic.

Now you are working in other places, and you have nothing to do with them, and you usually do not fulfill the responsibility of taking care of your aunt, but in name only. If you don't produce this certificate, although you can get the inheritance, the relationship between your family and your uncle's family may break down. It is recommended not to go over, there is no need to affect your life, just write a certificate and send it to them.

The most fundamental problem in this matter is the relationship between your mother and grandmother's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law You have already said that no matter how good your mother is to her, it is just a matter of looking down on her Obviously, it is difficult to deal with this relationship so the important thing is to live a good life in your own family Everything else is not important Sometimes the so-called family affection is not yet an ordinary friendship Put your mentality well Don't impose the grievances of the previous generation on yourself Otherwise, the relationship between your family will never be good In the end, you just need to be good to your mother She will still be warm Because he still has you If it's too hard for you to solve family conflicts, it's important for your dad to change his opinion of your mom, and if your mom and dad are on the same page, all the problems will be solved, because it's your mom who lives with your dad, not his mom.

Really, there is nothing we can do ... I'm much better off than you... Your mom is so nice.

Is it possible that your grandmother actually wanted to help your mother get the money back, but in the wrong way?

Be kind to the good, and ignore the wicked.

1. All parking itself is right, the main thing is that they are idle and have nothing to do, so they have nothing to find anyone. And then you changed places, but they still didn't give up. But you later changed it back and left it for them, I don't think it's necessary, because they have nothing to do, and you still have something to do.

There are a lot of inexplicable people in the world, if you have to pay attention to every one you meet, you have to reason with them, and then you have to sulk yourself, then you don't have to do all the valuable things, and theorizing with them is enough for you to consume 24 hours a day.

Don't be like these people. Although you are reasonable, but sometimes you can still hide, but you can hide, more than one thing is better than one thing, after all, people are terrible.

When a woman is old and has menopausal attacks, be more considerate!

It's just a bowl of rice.

A short story may solve many people's confusion in life and work.

The two people who were angry in the unit were troubled and went to the master to solve their doubts. The master smiled and said: It's just a bowl of rice.

A friend thought that it was just a bowl of rice, and there was no place to stay here, but there was a place to stay there. After going back, he resolutely resigned and found a new world of his own. The other one thought:

Receiving anger or anything is for eating, so if you want to eat well, you must first be angry. After he returned, he worked hard to adjust his mentality, overcome the difficulties in front of him, and finally be able to take root in life and work. A few years later, the two of them became famous and came together to thank the master.

This little story is actually about the two mentalities of a person facing a difficult situation. The simple words of "just a bowl of rice" have become the key to unlocking the locks of other people's hearts, and in the final analysis, it comes from the understanding of the trapped people themselves.

For the friend who chose to leave, a bowl of rice let him know the truth that "the tree dies, and the person lives". When you encounter a predicament and find that you are not strong and unable to do anything about the environment, it is better to think from a different angle, and maybe there will be different gains. As the saying goes:

Crises often go hand in hand with opportunities. As long as you have the ability, are you afraid that no one will accept you?

For friends who are still in the unit, the inspiration given to him by a bowl of rice is indisputable. It is wisdom not to fight, because what is won is like what is grabbed. Since the robbery will have to be returned sooner or later, it is better to deal with it calmly, so in the end, you can endure the pain and achieve positive results.

Life is not smooth sailing, life has to eat, this is the simplest truth. Wise people are often quick to position themselves in the face of adversity. For those who can laugh at the predicament, it is a kind of wisdom to be able to shine in another village; For those who are temporarily unable to get out of the predicament, it is also a kind of wisdom to respond calmly and try to change themselves to adapt to the environment.

But either way, knowing your strengths and weaknesses is a prerequisite for choosing how to continue. If you don't know yourself, it's easy to make the wrong choice, and you may even make a wrong step. Friends who leave understand themselves and eventually get out of the predicament; The friends who stay know themselves and eventually change themselves to adapt to the environment and even change the environment.

All of these are the right choices.

It's still the master's sentence: just a thought. A seemingly unintentional choice was actually predestined by oneself. As long as you are sober, no matter how great the pain is, you can still get out of the predicament and laugh at life.

Written on 23 November 2014.

It's not that if you don't do it yourself, you say you don't have time.

When the parents are old, they hope that their parents will stop working, but the parents are always reluctant and want to reduce the burden on their children. When encountering such a situation, you can only adjust your mentality.

First of all, we must understand that parents, not a generation, there are always inconsistencies in looking at problems, which requires mutual understanding. You should be confident that your parents absolutely love you. Try to listen to your parents, even if it is inconsistent with your own views, you should listen patiently, do not interrupt each other's words casually, do not talk back, calmly explain your own opinions, when your parents do not want to listen, do not talk about it, say something else, and say it in appropriate words when the other party is happy.

Talking together more often is the best way to get through.

When you encounter a problem, calmly and truthfully tell your parents what you think, don't get excited, don't avoid it. Be more forgiving. There is no need to worry about it, because my parents are the people who love us the most, and they are also the people we love the most.

1. Communicate with parents and elders in a problem-solving attitude, and avoid rebellion and uncooperative attitude.

2. Try to communicate calmly and equally, and avoid unequal and undemocratic exchanges that do not respect human rights.

Atmosphere. 3. Have the patience to listen to each other.

words, do not interrupt halfway, and refute the other party out of context. Be a polite listener, but also be a polite confidant, talk about things, don't get rid of sesame seeds, and say it together.

4. Communicate problems with focus and focus, avoid personal attacks, don't say things that hurt people's self-esteem, don't say excessive things, and don't say irresponsible things.

5. Respect and understanding. When you go out, you should take the initiative to contact your parents so that your parents don't worry, listen to your parents' views, and at the same time put forward your own opinions. When there is a difference of opinion, both sides should calmly consider the reasons for the difference and how to resolve it.

Achieve the communication results of seeking common ground while reserving differences.