The difference between pain and sorrow, and how to avoid it? I hope the saint will dial, thank you

When you are in pain, you will clench your fists and want to go crazy, and sadness will unconsciously come out of a person's eyes and back...There are some things that cannot be avoided, and only by accepting them calmly will they suddenly become clear....In other words, escaping is not necessarily hidden, and facing it is not necessarily the most uncomfortable.

Pain is a deep pain, often buried in the heart, and sadness often cries, and it is an irrepressible pain.

You love your girlfriend so much that one day he suddenly dies and it will make you very"Pain"

You love your girlfriend so much that one day he suddenly wants to break up with you and say, "He doesn't love you anymore," and that makes you sad.

I think sadness should be deeper than pain, pain means that you can still taste bitterness in your heart, it is better to say that your boyfriend or girlfriend has been with you for many years, and one day you suddenly find that he (she) has been stepping on two boats, you feel uncomfortable, not only because of his betrayal, but in his shoes to think about why he chose this, whether he is not good enough, thinking about this will hurt in his heart, and it will hurt when he sees him getting along with other members of the opposite sex On the other hand, if you don't have the feeling of pain, you just feel that you are looking at the wrong person, sad, then it's just that your subconscious has given up, so you feel that the difference between pain and sadness is here, pain is suffering, and sadness is relief.

The way to avoid this varies from person to person, some people are naturally optimists, and there may be less pain and sadness. Sensitive people think more and have more troubles, so thank you for self-comfort, look at both sides of things, and don't just think about the bad side.

Hehe, the best thing is to be out of sight! Don't be upset! Hehe, just kidding, hehe.

Isn't this autism yet? I can't imagine that if a drunk person keeps saying that he's not drunk, you should go to a psychiatrist, or the consequences will be very serious.

It's understandable to hate a person not talking to her, but not wanting to talk to anyone, it's absolutely pathological, don't use studying as an excuse I know people with good academic performance are cheerful and good at communicating with people, but the people who communicate are also good at learning.

Go to the doctor.

Why do you wronged yourself?

If you don't want to ignore her, just tell her directly, and she will talk to you next time.

You just tell her, I'm sorry, I want to be alone.

I don't mean not to talk to you, but I don't like to talk myself, and I hope you don't get me wrong.

Why wronged yourself, tell the truth.

How painful. But that girl seems to be interesting to you.

Hey, it's all up to you!

Rather than being so "flattering".

It's better to break it!

Your personality is like my previous boyfriend of 5 years.

My personality is more like the girl you mentioned.

Ahahahahaha

In fact, this girl may care about you very much, otherwise how would her big personality think that you are indifferent to her She said that you are indifferent not to ask you to stammer her

If you think it's possible, I hope you can see her more comprehensively, and it's really not just these disgusting places that you see.

If you feel that you can't get along, the farther away from her is better, and it's best not to talk to him in the future, so as not to hurt both of you.

First of all, is she just like you, or is she like everyone else? Secondly, her appearance must be very ordinary.

Finally, since she studies well, why don't you take this opportunity to communicate with her more about learning.

Hello! The main thing is to be yourself! Why live for others?

Is that right?

Or static braking. Be forgiving and forgiving. Character is everything. You tell me.

o(∩_o...Haha, I also think that female classmate is annoying. Don't want to be bothered to just say.

Experiments have proven that behavior is more educational, that is, body language. No need to talk with your eyes, etc., you can explore it yourself. I really shouldn't be influencing people's learning.

In other breaks, you can make more like-minded friends and support your friends. Success comes from 80% of the people you interact with.

I think the most important thing is to do what you want to do, if you don't want to bird her, you won't bird her, the most important thing to be a person is to have your own ideas, anyway, you just tell her what you think, say her, you're so annoying, stay away from me

You tell her that you actually like to talk, but you don't like to say useless things.

It's better for you to pick out this kind of person with her face to face.

Let's be clear. Then explain that you didn't mean to ignore her, it's because of your personality. Then make a heavy stroke and say how you feel.

Haha, if you deal with it like upstairs, you'll be done......

Indifference is indifference, why care about others.

You can count her nose hair, blackheads, and see if she has dandruff while she is talking, and tell her happily when you see it....I guess the girl won't talk to you anymore after being told a few times.

Dizzy. Ignore her, resolutely ignore her, she will not bother you if she thinks it is boring

Make a sign, and when she comes, hold it up: Do not disturb except studying.

Yes: That's right!

This is the beginning of love.

The range is different.

The range of pain is greater than that of grief. The scope of pain includes sadness. Grief is just one type of pain.

In addition to grief, there are other causes of pain that can cause suffering. For example, when you have an unbearable headache, you will feel very painful, but you will not necessarily feel sad. It's the same with toothache; There are many more examples, so I won't mention them.

To use an analogy: it's the difference between an "animal" and an "elephant". Among the animals is the elephant.

To put it in detail: grief just breaks the heart! However, the pain may have hurt the head. Or hurt your teeth. In fact, a person, no matter how injured he is, will feel pain. Only when you hurt your feelings will you feel sad.

Do you understand?

I think sad and sad! That's heartache.

I think it's the same for both, but it's sad that no one wants to try both.

There are many things in the world that can be recovered, such as conscience, such as weight. But there are more irretrievable things, such as old dreams, such as years, such as feelings for a person. It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much, but it is painful to give up someone you love very much.

Gaining is not necessarily long-lasting, losing is not necessarily not in having, and loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. Time will dilute everything, including feelings, so just face it calmly...

Prove yourself.

Don't be depressed and depressed, don't be pessimistic and sigh, don't want to give up when you encounter difficulties, and don't want to escape when you encounter setbacks.

Maybe the world is difficult and difficult to distinguish the direction, maybe right and wrong are confused and don't know what is wrong and right, maybe bad luck misses the opportunity, maybe some slack and not hard enough.

I don't want to see your sad face, I don't want to see you give up on yourself, I want to see you confident and smiling, I want to see you fight bravely and get angry!

This world is complicated and complicated, and we need a kind of spiritual self-encouragement, and we must choose to be strong in the wind and rain, and we must rely on ourselves to prove ourselves whether it is a dragon or a worm!

Hello! I can understand your feelings. I have an ambitious heart, but I have no place to show it. Feeling empty and bored. And if you can't find like-minded people to encourage and support each other, it must be very helpless.

You say that you have problems with communication, I feel that the main reason for this is that you think that they can't support you and walk with you on your way, it's not that they don't want to pay attention to you, but that you reject them, I think if you are all like-minded people, you must be cheerful, optimistic and sociable. So it's partly because of emotions.

You talk about your girlfriend, which makes you even more upset. One is that she has someone else in her heart, and you feel sad, and the other is that you can't give up on her out of a sense of responsibility. You are conflicted, which is why you have the emotional problems you have now. It must be annoying to have so many problems connected together.

I studied counseling, and although I haven't graduated yet, I hope to help you. Or you can see a psychiatrist, they will give you guidance on life. My best wishes!

1: Do you have to go to college to be successful? Edison's academic qualifications are well known.

But in the end, he was still a great inventor

Of course, it's only one-sided, as long as you have faith in yourself. Nothing to lose 2:

Joking doesn't always make good friends

The opposite is also true. As long as you can respect others. People will respect you and try to be bold.

Be cheerful. Your friends will slowly increase 3: I'm sorry.

My personal goal is to fight singles. Or be a monk. I never thought about getting a wife.

Falling in love or something. So can't help you. Thank you for your understanding.

In fact, I think you are also a smart person, and you understand the truth:

1. Whether you study well or not in college is not the key to personal success, no matter what career or job you are engaged in.

2. Most successful people are lonely, and it is difficult to find someone who can really communicate with him, as the ancients said, it is easy to get a daughter, but it is difficult to find a confidant, let alone a confidant.

3. People change, and it is better to read more books to communicate with others. Of course, don't be too autistic, everything is fate, and it's not good to have depression.

4. Don't think about it, an old man once said to me that if you work hard, you may not succeed, and if you don't work hard, you will definitely not succeed.

You understand all of the above, and I hope you will open your heart knot soon.

I feel that your biggest problem is that you don't have a good attitude towards life.

You have to work hard for everything.

Only with a pay can there be a harvest, and we must actively strive for opportunities.

As long as you have enough hard work, I hope you will try to enrich yourself in this era of elegance and have positive thoughts to realize your dreams, everyone is the same.

Don't waste your good time for some emotional things.

Now we have a lot of capital because we're young.

From what you said, I feel that you should be very smart and have strong logical thinking, but you are not good at expressing yourself.

As long as you have self-confidence and a hard-working spirit, you will definitely be able to realize your dreams in the future, and only with a simple and calm heart can you achieve great things.

I'm sure you have what you can do.

Sincerely bless you friend.

I hope you will be able to discover your potential abilities as soon as possible.

Find the track that suits you.

Opportunities are everywhere, you have to brace yourself.

We are the sun in the morning, all good things are waiting for us, we are also a college student, I am a freshman this year, gold shines everywhere, you have to work hard.

You are very smart. But very unpleasant. It's because you take everything too seriously. You're quick-witted, but you can't always take chances. It's because you don't understand the reason.

It's good to look at everything plainly and think about it a little more openly.

Believe it or not. It's simple, but it's true. Take control of your life. Why be sad. Wasted time?

1.Everyone gets lost at times. In fact, what can be learned in college is very limited, and many things have to be learned from practice after entering the society.

Plus, school doesn't decide everything. Good schools have bad students, and bad schools have good students. Give yourself a little confidence.

2.No matter how good a friend is, it's impossible to stick together all the time without getting bored, even if it's a lover. Everyone has to have their own space.

Getting along with people is also a science, and you can learn it slowly. But I think the most important thing is: sincerity, mutual trust and care, communication.

With these points, nothing else is a problem.

3.You are still young now, and later you will understand that everyone has a past. If you really love someone, you shouldn't care so much about her past, think about your future.

As long as you truly love each other, as long as you trust each other, the past will always pass. Don't rush to make a decision now, it's better to calm down first. If, after you have calmed down and thought about it, you think that you are not suitable to be together, then make it clear to her, so as not to delay each other's time and make it more painful; If you feel that you still love each other deeply, then be brave enough to face the problem, solve the problem, and don't run away.

True love must be able to withstand the test.

In fact, what others say does not solve the fundamental problem. It's up to you. If you can't figure it out, it's useless to say more. I'm still saying the same thing, calm down and think about it. I hope you think it through soon.

。。。You know your own faults! That's what you said about the above 3 points, find a way to overcome the problem yourself, others can't help you Remember that you must work hard!

That's all it takes, and there aren't many people who aren't confused when they go to college. Actually, you still have a long way to go, don't worry.

Regarding your girlfriend, if you really love her, be with her at all costs, bless you.

These questions can be put aside, and learning to be a human being is the most important thing. It's not too late to start, after all, you, this internal cause wants to progress, and everything will be solved. I wish you a speedy success!