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Personally, I think it's because the ability of young people to resist pressure is too weak, and they don't have the ability to resist pressure like the elders of the older generation before.
For our new generation of people, they have not suffered much, and they have grown up with a golden spoon since childhood. <>
Everyone is the baby of their parents, and they have not suffered much since childhood, and even a large number of young people feel that they just go to school silently, and then graduate successfully, and then find a stable job, and live this life. There is no spirit of wanting to struggle, because I have not had any hard life since I was a child, and I have not experienced any idea of wanting to struggle, so young people today can easily lose the motivation to struggle, and there is also because of the current society. The competition is too big, it's too fierce, and the pressure on us young people is too great, not only on ourselves, but also from friends, parents, and family members, and this pressure can lead to a negative growth.
There are even a lot of young people who have some mental illness.
Some people are constantly struggling, but after struggling, they find out that they are cheated, or they lose some of the most important things, they feel that these are not worth it, and then they will lose the motivation to struggle. It may also be because there is no right guide, and the right values and outlook on life have not been found.
Today's young people are too weak to resist pressure, and because with the progress of society and the improvement of the family economy, there are few days of suffering, so it is easy to lose the motivation to struggle. <>
But as young people, we must think clearly about what we want, and we must have the correct three views, when we become adults, try not to ask for our own at home, we should not need to provide things at home, we find a way to get it ourselves, and then be a good citizen on the road, struggle to live the life we want, this is a spirit that our young people should have.
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Because there are so many entertainment facilities and entertainment programs nowadays. An overly comfortable life can make people lose their fighting spirit.
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I think a big part of the reason is that times are evolving. Most of today's young people are used to growing up by their parents, and they have experienced too few setbacks, and they will lose the motivation to struggle at the slightest difficulty. At the same time, electronic products such as mobile phones, computers, and game consoles have caused great inertia among young people.
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Because today's young people are easy to retreat in the face of difficulties, young people are generally only children, and they have been carefully cared for by their parents from childhood to adulthood, so once they encounter difficulties, they can't persevere, so they lose the motivation to struggle.
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Because today's young people always think too much and do too little, thinking that their efforts may not be rewarded, so they simply don't struggle.
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Because I don't understand what I need, or whether I can really succeed even if I work hard, I am competitive, the results are not obvious, and the natural motivation is insufficient.
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Because life is very comfortable, I haven't suffered anything since I was a child, and I have parents to rely on, but over time I have lost my fighting spirit, and I feel that I can get it without working hard, so why work hard?
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Now some young people don't have the mentality of the older generation to resist pressure, they are all living in the present, and they are happy day by day.
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Young people with low desire are mainly manifested in the lower three layers of the pyramid, and some have no desire for the basic physiological needs of life. Eat one, two, or three meals a day, and you just don't die of hunger; It doesn't matter what you eat, you just don't starve to death; It doesn't matter what you wear, you just need to wear it; It doesn't matter where you live, you just need to sleep. Some don't care about personal life, property, occupation, family, and moral security.
As long as people don't die, as long as they have enough money, as long as they can work together, and as long as they don't violate the law of things, they don't violate the law of morality; Some people dare not pursue love, and those who face war do not have the courage to confide; reluctance to pursue friendship, refusal to socialize, and refusal to contact others; I don't dare to face family affection, I am afraid to face my parents, and I feel that my state is sorry for my parents' contributions. For various reasons, I lost the courage to fight. They don't dare to fight, they are afraid of being warned, they slowly close themselves off, and they always walk alone.
Low desire is really becoming a mainstream, and the opposite consumerism is just as popular. It is precisely because of the rise of a trend that the other side of the confrontation is becoming more and more concerned and gradually growing, which is a process of reflection and seeking balance.
The reason for low desire is not only because young people are poor and see through capital. It's about giving up social recognition, you don't need to be famous, you just need to be poor and worry-free, simply put: it's good to live, which is a manifestation of living positively in a different way.
When your own efforts are not enough to support your mortgage, get married, and have a baby, reducing your desire is undoubtedly the first choice for survival. It's like a snake hibernating when winter comes. Lowering desires is precisely a way to decompress life.
Everyone has ideals, everyone has what they want to do, but the reality does not allow it at all, and they have to suppress their desires, so they can only live a good life in front of them.
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It may be that the lack of motivation is due to the following deviations, the mental malaise, and the lack of motivation after many and several blows.
1. Cognitive bias, thinking that you can work hard to get what you need, and as a result, you are slapped in the face.
2 The social atmosphere is compared, people are actually environmental animals, such as marriage needs Changwei bride price, these bride price will rise, and starting a family has become a luxury.
3 The upward channel is basically isolated, and it could have been to study, but now look at how unemployed college students are.
4 experts, the leader's pie and nonsense,,, look at the current situation, and then look at the future, without the vision of the future, there will be no motivation, such as a person in the sea keeps swimming, never see the land,,, can only go with the flow (lie flat).
5 pensions have risen 18 times in a row, their income is still standing still, and many things that I had thought about have been put on hold, because of the lack of money, so that you know that a penny is difficult to defeat a hero. After several times of financial tossing, I was penniless before I thought of it. . . That's probably going to be the case for a long time.
ps I remember the carrots and big sticks that I often said back then.,,If young people touch it, it's a big stick.。。 No carrots, no one will be motivated.
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In this fast-paced society, young people face countless challenges and opportunities. They need to make efforts in all aspects of their studies, careers, relationships, etc., to achieve their goals and ideals. So why do young people need to struggle?
This is because struggle not only helps them achieve their personal goals, but also allows them to better adapt to society and contribute to the progress of society.
First of all, struggle allows young people to realize their self-worth. Everyone has their own dreams and pursuits, and it takes effort and time to achieve them. Through struggle, young people can constantly improve themselves, realize their self-worth, and get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
This feeling will give them more confidence to face life's challenges and more motivation to pursue their goals.
Second, struggle can make young people better adapt to society. Society is a complex system that requires a wide variety of talents to drive its development. Through struggle, young people can improve their abilities and qualities and make themselves talents needed by society.
In this way, they can better adapt to society, find their place, and realize their value.
Moreover, struggle enables young people to contribute to the progress of society. The progress of society requires everyone's participation and efforts. Through struggle, young people can create new ideas and concepts that contribute to the progress of society.
Their innovation and efforts will bring new development to the society and promote the prosperity and progress of the society.
However, we should also realize that struggle does not mean working and studying without rest. Excessive struggle can lead to physical and mental exhaustion and may even cause harm to health. Therefore, while struggling, young people also need to learn to adjust their own rhythm of life, maintain good living habits, and maintain physical and mental health.
In general, young people need to struggle, because struggle allows them to realize their self-worth, better adapt to society, and contribute to the progress of society. But at the same time, they also need to take care of their physical and mental health to maintain lasting vitality and enthusiasm.
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When you are young, you can work hard, and when you reach middle age, you can enjoy the results, otherwise you will regret it later.
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Young people are self-motivated, and most young people also have their own goals and the ability to live. The living conditions of most young people are getting better, the young people are more pragmatic, and the young people are more rational.
1. Today's young people are living in better and better conditions and don't need to buy a lot of things.
When your living conditions are not good, you will have various needs in life and need to buy all kinds of things. ......But today's young people are getting better and better, and they basically lack nothing, so that young people don't need to buy more things, so they show a state of reduced demand.
There are now more young people who are becoming more pragmatic in their lives. They will be careful about their living expenses, and they will control those unnecessary expenses and not buy things that are useless, so that the amount of things that these young people buy will be much lower, so that the demand for things for these young people will be reduced overall.
3. The vast majority of young people have a more rational attitude towards life, so they no longer buy things indiscriminately.
When a person's attitude towards life is more rational, his attitude towards shopping will also change. ......Today's young people are obviously more rational in terms of lifestyle, so they have clear goals and plans for what they need on a daily basis, so they will only buy what they need, and no longer buy things that are not useful......Therefore, on the surface, these young people have a lower demand for shopping than before.
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