My boyfriend and I quarrel when we are together, and miss each other when we are separated, what sho

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is said that sometimes a small fight is a good thing, but it is always very physically and mentally exhausting, and it is very physically and mentally exhausting to deal with it, and to deal with it is to communicate with everyone, and to review and review yourself, to be tolerant of anything, let it be, don't think that boys should let this woman, nothing should be, men and women are equal, everyone needs to understand, forgive, see what causes the quarrel, it may be pressure, it may be temper, and so on.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then wait until two people are sure that they can tolerate each other before being together, some things can't be both, if you want to be together, you have to give up something, if you don't want to change anything for each other, then it proves that that person is not what you really need, in fact, I'm in this situation now, but I'm very clear, I don't want to change for him, so. He's not what I want. Contrarily.

    If he changes something in the midst of the noise, but not very thoroughly, then for him, you are what he wants. At least he's changing for you

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Try to change, communicate more, see what is the main reason for the quarrel, and try not to mention the topic in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no one who does not quarrel. Normal.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're still young, it's good to be older.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Beating is kissing, scolding is love, quarreling and fighting.

    It's okay, just hit it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you should keep your distance for a while, and sometimes you have to be more considerate of each other, so that it will be much better after a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What is a rival? This is the enemy.,But the more noisy the better.,But you have to grasp the proportion.,Don't go overboard.。。。

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Semi-saccharide love is often the sweetest, properly separated, and don't stick together every day.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find out the reason for the swearing.

    What causes.

    Don't lose your temper.

    Don't just give in.

    There will always be times when two people are at odds together.

    As long as it's not a matter of principle.

    I think I might be able to give it up.

    You let it go. He gave way.

    Isn't life sweeter for both of you?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No way, I'm the same.

    After a long time, I matured and got used to it.

    In fact, quarrels are not necessarily a bad thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's how people get along. Whether it is a good friend or a couple, friction and conflicts will occur after a long time, so it is normal to collide with each other. Especially the couple who often live together.

    Much like the relationship between each other's tongues and teeth. How can they not bump into each other when they are so close to each other.

    Therefore, when two people are unhappy, there may be quarrels and contradictions, and this is when it is possible to blame each other, complain to each other, and break up angrily. After the two really broke up, they calmed down with each other, began to read each other's good again, and began to miss each other. This situation is actually very common and happens to almost every couple or couple.

    Two people always become a stumbling block when they are together, and once they break up, what is the reason why they will miss it?

    The reason why two people collide is that they are close to each other. Because it's intimate, I don't care, I don't think about it so much, I don't hide it. will easily tear up and quarrel with each other.

    It is a place where two people get along intimately in a different place. No matter how fierce the two people are, they will have feelings that they can't give up, and if they really break up, they will miss each other.

    It's also good for two people to have a temporary conflict or collision, but it's just because of personal personality, temper and other factors that there is a dispute over certain things and certain things. Sometimes, a word, or a momentary misunderstanding, will make the other party feel some unhappiness and entangle each other for a while. Moreover, after the incident passed, when they broke up with each other, the advantages of the other party and the benefits for themselves quickly came to mind.

    At this time, you will feel that you miss each other very much.

    Distance produces beauty. There is a period of time when two people who are close and have a good relationship have been together for a long time, and they will feel bored and bored. When you get along in close proximity, you can easily be surrounded by each other's shortcomings, and you can also consciously expand each other's shortcomings, and every inch of your flaws is very sensitive.

    Moreover, after breaking up with each other, if you are attracted to longing, you will give special consideration to the merits of the other person and begin to miss each other intensely.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because of the long time, there are no good topics, and there may be some changes, which makes me very unaccustomed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you quarrel as soon as you meet, it means that one of you has a particularly hot personality, and the other person doesn't know how to get down the stairs.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you are separated from your boyfriend, you miss him very much, and you quarrel as soon as you meet, because you haven't found how to get along, so you can only use quarrels to express some of your opinions about each other, or you can sit down and discuss problems.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because when you don't see each other, the feelings of longing become stronger and stronger, but after you meet, there will be a quarrel between two people because of different things and different perspectives.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The personalities of two people are not suitable, so they will always stumble when they meet, and at this time they should solve this matter immediately, and they should not quarrel with each other often.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shows that two people will not compromise with each other, learn not to tolerate, and have different views, and this will happen.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be that two people have a lot of conflicts and don't deal with them in time, so they want to quarrel when they meet.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Put him in my heart, I know that feeling, obviously I love him very much, but being with him will only hurt me, in this case, it is better to be kind to yourself and let go, so that you may make yourself happier.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then find a way not to quarrel with him.

    If you change your temper a little better, it's good for everyone.

    If it's not true love, if you don't want to go for the rest of your life, don't dwell on it. Let's find a way to break it.

    If it's true love, find a way to solve La.

    Don't let it go easily.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In hindsight, think about whether it was your fault or his, or vexatious.

    Find a good friend around you and help you analyze it, and she will give you a good suggestion.

    It depends on what is noisy. If it's because of some trivial things, it's normal. It is normal for two people, each with their own personalities, to disagree on certain things, which is because you are constantly adapting to each other and understanding each other.

    If there are some issues of principle involved, if there is a clear conflict between your values, then it is better to find a time to have a good chat and increase understanding. Communication is the best glue. Talking more and talking about your heart can help you get to know each other better, find problems and solve them in time, so as not to cause greater unhappiness in the future.

    Take a look at a psychiatrist, it might help.

    If it's a relationship discord, it shouldn't be possible to have been friends for so many years! It should be a normal boyfriend and girlfriend quarrel! Quarrels are a normal thing for couples, on the surface it seems to be a small thing, but in fact, it is a great thing behind the scenes!

    Because each other cherishes each other and cares about each other too much, that's why it's like this! If you feel quiet one day, you will miss the noisy things at that time, because everything has touched you so much!

    Time is the recipe for sharpening everything, my wife and I have been aware of it for 18 years now, and we still quarrel, but the frequency is getting lower and lower, and tolerance is the solution to everything.

    If you are familiar, your personality will be exposed, your values are different, your personality is not suitable, and your future goals are not the same, so break up as soon as possible.

    The feeling is all mutual. You hate the people in their family, and the people in their family have no reason to like you ......Change starts with you.

    Falling in love is two, and getting married is two families.

    Maybe your boyfriend isn't ready, or he really doesn't want to get married. It's been six years, how precious a girl's youth is, I hope you negotiate with your boyfriend and ask him to take on the responsibilities of a man!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can't have the idea of breaking up because of this incident, because we are not alone, we will have our own different ideas, as long as the direction is correct, I don't think we should break up, because the future is unpredictable, and it is very unwise for you to make choices about the present for a very slim future. Maybe girls in love are more insecure, and their hearts are more fragile, they may be more eager for a stable development between the two, so in love women are more emotional, sometimes they feel that the man does something that is not in line with their hearts, and their attitude towards themselves is not as good as before, which will also be angry for reasons, at this time they will feel that the future between them is very slim, but I don't agree that this is the reason for breaking up.

    The future cannot be peeped at, so many things can only be said to be the direction of the future without a certain result, so it is very ridiculous for a girl to break up with a man who can't see the future development in a relationship, and I think this should not be. It's good to have a plan for life, because you can be clear about your life goals, and it's also a requirement for yourself, but sometimes this kind of requirement can be implemented on yourself, but it is not suitable for others, because everyone's personality is different, and you can't force others, even if you are boyfriend and girlfriend. Therefore, we may only need a short distance to plan our life, and we don't need to look at such a long-term plan, because things may happen in a long time that you don't even expect it.

    Since when we were together in the first place, it was only because we liked each other, so if you still like each other now, then why break up? If you say that love can't see the future development, then I want to ask what is the future development, whether it is to get married or to be old? Moreover, who can say for sure what will happen in the future, the future is not imagined, but passed day by day.

    For the future development of such a can't be seen or touched, you might as well not care too much, it is better to have that heart and think so much than to be together while you still like it now, and love each other well. After all, the future is out of reach, and it is more important to cherish the present and live the present.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you break up, it means that the two of you are not suitable, good horses don't eat back grass, why bother to love a flower if there is no grass at the end of the world.

    It would be happier to have a new boyfriend.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you break up with your boyfriend, if you are still very nostalgic for the other party and feel that it is caused by your own reasons, then take the initiative to reconcile with your boyfriend and admit that you review your mistakes, and the two of you will get along well in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In this case, you must not be. Since we have broken up, we should not communicate again, nor should we break the connection. That will affect your relationship life and make your successor angry.

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