Can t you be together with the same surname What should I do if my family members oppose it?

Article 7 of China's Marriage Law stipulates: "Marriage is prohibited under any of the following circumstances: direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations; 2. Suffering from a medical illness that is medically inappropriate for marriage.

With the same surname, not direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations, legally speaking, it is possible to get married. As for the current era, your family is against it, it depends on how you choose and your courage and charm. If you truly love each other, then you should first be of the same mind, work hard, and convince your family, after all, the older generation has different ideas.

If you can't convince you, it's up to you to choose. Go forward bravely and work hard for your ideals. Hope it helps.

If it is within three generations, it is a close relative, and it is not allowed to marry, not only the marriage is opposed, but the law does not allow it.

If it's not within three generations, if your family stops you, you can only rely on your will. My cousin married the person she liked because of her family's strong opposition, and she is living well now, and her family has no objection or anything now.

If you're a man, it's more embarrassing, because the woman you marry has to pass your parents' level.

Your questions are vague and I can't answer them.

That's all I can do here.

Hope, thank you.

I rub. The above people didn't see the question clearly and answered randomly, who said that they can't be together with the same surname, that was the superstitious thinking of the parents' era, communicate more with the family, and tell them that many others with the same surname are very happy after marriage,

Some local customs are like this, although they are very old-fashioned and traditional, but they are also unbreakable, to see if that person is worth your perseverance, to see how deep the relationship between you is, whether you can persevere through all the difficult roads, to see how heavy your relatives are in your heart.

Use your arguments to refute those who oppose you, and if your family members still oppose them unreasonably, then you can ignore them unreasonably.

Seeing that I regard family affection as important, it is still love.

As long as you are not a blood relative within three generations, you and your boyfriend can get married even if they have the same surname. There is no legal rule that a man and a woman with the same surname cannot marry, and your parents feel that they cannot marry with the same surname, which may be influenced by traditional beliefs.

You can try to convince your parents that in the past, cousins and cousins could get married, not to mention that we just had the same surname and were not related. And when a child is born in the future, the parents have the same surname, and the two parties will not quarrel with whom to believe the child.

Another possibility is that your parents don't agree if they know that your boyfriend is actually related to you within three generations.

It is possible to marry between close relatives with the same surname, but it is not possible to marry between close relatives, because there is a certain risk that the next generation will become mutilated due to the marriage of close relatives, so it is clearly stipulated that close relatives are not allowed to marry, but there are no relevant requirements on the same surname, and your parents' requirements are indeed a bit excessive.

I think it is necessary for you to have a cordial exchange with your parents, because their wrong thoughts may ruin your happiness, so if you two really love each other, then tell your parents the reason for the incident, and I think they will bless you both when they understand.

Legally the same surname is no problem, but the parents you said are against it, for this problem, a university professor once wrote on the blackboard about his parents and boyfriend, let a female classmate choose, and finally the woman crossed her parents with tears and chose a boyfriend, the professor asked her, she said that her parents can't be with her forever, and one day she will leave her, and her boyfriend is the person who accompanies her life

There is nothing legally or morally forbidden for the same surname, as long as it is not of the same sex or three generations of blood relatives. First of all, you have to understand why your parents are not allowed to have the same surname? Are you afraid that others will mistake you for a door-to-door son-in-law?

If the parents of the marriage with the same surname object, as long as the two parties are not direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations, they do not need to ignore the objections of the parents, and the two parties can go through the marriage registration normally. Because in our country of freedom of marriage, no one has the right to interfere with the freedom of marriage of others, and parents do not have this right.

However, if two people with the same surname are lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations, they cannot marry regardless of whether their parents object to it.

Legal basis] Article 1048 of the Civil Code prohibits marriage between direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

It's okay to have the same surname and not be in your own family. Explain to your parents that you can only find a few pairs of neighbors that your parents know, and that relatives have the same surname as examples, whether young or old.

You can only slowly convince your parents that there is no scientific basis for this.

You don't need to explain your marriage to others, and if they want to prevent you from getting married, let them leave it alone.

Explain to your parents that old thinking is not good.

Later did you convince your family no?

If it is not a close relative, it does not violate the law and can be married. As long as there is no law prohibiting marriage between a man and a woman, the parents have no right to intervene, and if they do not agree with the same surname, you can convince the parents. 1. If the parents are against marriage, the reason is because the two people have the same surname.

The argument for this objection is a bit too far-fetched, if it is because they profess to be feudal and cannot be changed, and it is necessary for the children to correctly guide their parents to understand that there is nothing legally and morally illegal about the marriage of two people with the same surname. Move with affection, know with reason, and let your parents accept you as much as possible. 2. Two people of marriage age can marry normally as long as there is a blood relationship of close relatives of nearly three generations.

If the parents object and communicate with Ti many times, there is no result. Then as a child, you can make decisions according to your own thoughts, after all, marriage is free in this society now. The partner you choose for yourself can be trusted as long as it is worth entrusting, after all, it is someone who will live with you for the rest of your life.

If you can talk to your parents, try to get your parents through first and get the blessing of your parents, which is the best result. As early as the ancient Western Zhou Dynasty in China, there was a saying that "marrying with the same surname, fear not breeding", "men and women with the same surname, their birth is not rich". This does not mean that people with the same surname must not be allowed to marry, but that relatives cannot marry each other, because there is a blood relationship within three generations.

More than 3,000 years ago, there were very few Chinese, and the people with the same surname around them were basically people from the same family, so at that time, marriage between people with the same surname was opposed, because at that time, people knew that the marriage of people who were related by blood would affect the reproduction of offspring and the health of offspring. In modern society, China's law does not oppose the marriage of people with the same surname, as long as there is no blood relationship within the last three generations. Therefore, in modern society, there is no such thing as a restraint in marrying with the same surname.

Legal basis】：?Regulations on Marriage Registration Article 5 A Mainland resident who has registered a marriage shall present the following documents and supporting materials: (1) his/her household registration booklet and identity card; (2) A signed statement that the person has no spouse and has no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

Legal Analysis: Free love, strongly opposed by the family, first of all, adhere to their own ideas, adhere to the sincere original intention, and then communicate with the family, understand their thoughts and views, empathy, why the great opposition, there must be a reason, only find the solution to the opposition can untie the knot of the family. Regardless of the opposition of the family, regardless of the feelings and dislikes of the family, it is not good to stubbornly insist on this in the future life, after all, the love blessed by the family is the most perfect happiness.

Believing that your family is for your good is that your starting point and motivation is to love you. As long as you communicate with your family, express your thoughts, views and attitudes, and listen to your family's voice, your family will definitely change their stance and support you. My love marriage is the same surname in my village, and now I have children and daughters, and my life is relatively complete.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

Legal Analysis: The objection of parents marrying with the same surname is invalid. It is not illegal to marry with the same surname, and the Civil Code does not prohibit marriage with the same surname, but rather prohibits interference with the freedom of marriage, opposes arranged marriages, and so on.

The idea that men and women with the same surname could not marry was a custom left over from feudal society. China's ancient marriage system forbade close relatives, the same clan, and the same surname to marry, because it was impossible to have a correct and complete understanding of the issue of eugenics and childbearing under the conditions at that time, so it was forbidden to marry the same clan and the same surname.

Legal basis: Article 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person. Domestic violence is prohibited.

Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.