Why does Jiao s mother hate her daughter in law Liu Lanzhi so much in Peacock Flying Southeast ?

When we were in high school, we all studied a classical Chinese text. This classical Chinese is the peacock flying southeast, and we all know that the peacock flying southeast is actually a very poignant love story. We can see from the content of the classical Chinese that Liu Lanzhi was deeply disgusted by her mother-in-law.

Why does Liu Lanzhi's mother-in-law hate her so much? In fact, there are several important reasons. I think one of the very important reasons is that although Liu Lanzhi is described in the article as very virtuous, she can't actually help her husband get promoted and get rich, that is to say, Liu Lanzhi's mother-in-law feels that Liu Lanzhi is not very lucky, which means that after marrying him, she can't help her husband get promoted.

I think there is another very important reason is that we can see from the article that Liu Lanzhi and her husband should have been married for a long time, but the two of them did not give birth to a son and a half daughter, in fact, we know that in ancient times, women served their husbands and mothers-in-law at home after marriage. But we know that in ancient times, our country was mainly based on inheritance, and if you can't have children as a daughter-in-law, you will definitely be disliked by your mother-in-law. So in other words, we can see from the article that Liu Lanzhi and her husband have been married for many years, but they did not give birth to a son and a half daughter, which I think is an important reason why his mother-in-law dislikes him.

Even though we know that Liu Lanzhi is a very virtuous woman in the article, and she has a lot to learn from us, she is still disgusted by her mother-in-law.

When Liu Lanzhi describes his own experience, we can all see that he is actually very good to his mother-in-law and husband even after marriage, but his mother-in-law still dislikes her, she even feels that she has not done anything wrong, her mother-in-law still doesn't like him, in fact, the important reason is that he did not have children at all, and another very important reason is that she and her husband can actually see each other for a long time.

So that is to say, Liu Lanzhi was still very miserable in ancient times, her mother-in-law disliked her because she did not have children, I think her mother-in-law actually did something very wrong, we all know that after Liu Lanzhi went home, her mother-in-law had to let her son find another daughter-in-law. Therefore, what we have to know is that in ancient times, the status of women was still very low, especially in ancient times, if you can't give birth to a son and a half daughter after marriage, you will actually be disliked by your in-laws, and it is actually a very disgraceful thing to be taken home.

In Peacock Southeast Flying, the reason why Jiao's mother hates her daughter-in-law Liu Lanzhi is mainly because she feels that Liu Lanzhi pursues freedom too much and is not a good woman who is obedient.

She couldn't stand the love of her adopted son and other women, her heart was twisted, she felt that her son was very good, her daughter-in-law was not worthy of her son, Liu Lanzhi did not give birth to a son, so she discussed her.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem in the first place, they are natural enemies, and they are all competing for the attention of the same man. And Jiao's mother was dissatisfied that Liu Lanzhi was cared for by her son, and Liu Lanzhi sometimes contradicted her.

Jiao Zhongqing's family was an official eunuch's family, while Liu Lanzhi's family was a merchant family, and the status of businessmen was relatively low at that time, so Jiao's mother felt that Liu Lanzhi was not worthy of Jiao Zhongqing.

The first aspect is because Jiao Zhongqing's family is an official family, and Liu Lanzhi's family is a merchant family, and the status of businessmen at that time was relatively low, so Jiao's mother felt that Liu Lanzhi was not worthy of Jiao Zhongqing.

The second aspect is because Jiao's mother is a widow and has been dependent on Jiao Zhongqing since she was a child, she loves Jiao Zhongqing too much, he is afraid that other women will snatch his son (as the saying goes, if you marry a daughter-in-law and forget your mother), so Jiao's mother not only looks at Liu Lanzhi unpleasantly, even if Jiao Zhongqing marries another woman, Jiao's mother will be like this.

Looking at the original text, it's just that Jiao's mother is too much, and she can't get used to Liu Lanzhi, and thinks that it will not help his son's career.

As for having no children, it was also made by Jiao's mother. There is a passage in the original text: The concubine leaves a vacant room, and the meeting is often rare, and the rooster cries into the weaving, and there is no rest at night. After the dying dusk, the lonely man is set. It's no wonder that there are children.

Dear, the peacock flew southeast, and I was a little helpless about Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing's situation. Because of feudal etiquette and character reasons, Jiao Zhongqing and Liu Lanzhi, who are in love, were forced to separate, we can't praise the martyrdom, but we can understand their situation with deep sympathy. Because of feudal etiquette and character reasons, Jiao Zhongqing and Liu Lanzhi, who are in love, were forced to separate, we can't praise the martyrdom, but we can understand their situation with deep sympathy.

However, we must also know that in reality, there are still many, many Jiao Mu who will not repent. The habitual thinking of this type of person is to blame others for all the misfortunes in life. Because it's so difficult to make people aware of their limitations and have a sense of introspection.

I like Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing very much, because they are a couple with a strong sense of love, they have always adhered to their commitment to each other in difficulties and hardships, although fate has tested them, they still maintain a firm belief, they love each other deeply, trust each other, love each other, unyielding, pull love closer, more firm than any resistance. Seeing their love, I also felt the power of love, their love is like a kind of warm harbor, allowing us to rest and find comfort and peace during the journey.