My girlfriend never picks up my feelings, just for herself.

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    ...This brother, a girl, was meant to be spoiled. A friend of the opposite sex is not necessarily a lover, it may also be a blue face, but being jealous means that you love her very much.

    You can talk to her and find out the problem. If you don't trust each other, no matter how deep your love is, it's a fantasy. If this is still the case after communication, it is better to get together and disperse.

    Otherwise, don't you have to spend the rest of your life in repeated torture? (Okay, I'll admit you're pathetic, but I'll sympathize with one first.) )

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't you feel like your love is blind? What do you love about her? What are the virtues of her that deserve your love?

    What appeals to you most about her? Does she really love you? Are you what she wants?

    Judge for yourself! Love is when two people give love to each other and give affection, which is the real love! You love her, she doesn't love you, that's unrequited love!

    That's more than three months, right? What kind of girl do you think she is? Chastity first?

    Feelings first? Or money enjoyment comes first? Will she be a home-loving woman?

    Long pain is better than short pain, and you can earn it back when the money is gone! Think about it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't say how much you love her, I don't believe in love, maybe it's just an illusion. If you can't be together, won't you be able to live and talk, in fact, no, anyone will turn around if the earth is missing, but now I feel more strongly about her, and I won't feel it in the future. Long pain is better than short pain, early parting is good, and find a happiness that truly belongs to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What does it mean? It means that he doesn't like you. The easiest way to do that is to break up with him, and if you really like her, then move her. Prove it with action.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    points, resolutely, if the relationship is determined.

    Again, it's not good!!

    Women are not loved.

    It's used to hurt.

    But there must be a degree!!

    Don't do it for anyone else!!

    For your own freedom and love!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Men just want to save face, girls are meant to be used to hurt, girls sometimes ask too much because she really cares about you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes the more she likes you, the more so. Women are like this, if you can promise that you won't regret it later, you will break up, not to mention these are small things.

    Anyway, empathy, hehe, the key is your attitude towards things.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Couples should tolerate and respect each other, rather than blindly tolerate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you like her, you will love her, but don't be too accommodating to her. If you like her, you don't need to be centered on her to drive your life, it's not that your life is blank without her. You treat her as usual, don't let her down, but don't affect you too personally, love needs both parties to be rational, tolerant and patient, respectful, and understand each other.

    I don't know what your girlfriend's personality is, for example, you went to play, who did you go with, did your girlfriend know no, did you usually go to play all day without accompanying her, would she be angry and unhappy? Don't just think that you're sweating all over your body, maybe she's been waiting for you for hours? Maybe she didn't mind if you were sweating all over at the time, and she just wanted to see you soon?

    There is no distinction between who is right and who is wrong, individuals have their own opinions, you need to understand, if you just blindly judge each other based on your own subjective thoughts, then it is difficult for your relationship to maintain.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your girlfriend must be very young

    Otherwise, how could it be so naïve and incomprehensible

    Men and women care for each other during their relationship

    It is impossible to continue with one-sided enthusiasm alone

    If you really love her, you can tolerate her

    But tolerance is definitely not a blind tolerance

    In this way, the meaning of love is lost

    I hope you can sit down and talk to her

    If she's really still so naïve that she doesn't care about you

    Then I suggest breaking up

    She is not your happiness in this life, please cherish your brother

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    "Just say that I haven't slept for more than ten hours since I got better yesterday, so you can't let me rest for a while? If I don't look at her and think I'm lying to her, am I an iron man? Do you ever ask for care about me?

    Have you come to see me? Have you ever asked me about a cold and cough? I dislocated my arm, did you say anything about concern?

    What else do you say, you slowly hurt, I don't care....Although I know that you are joking, but how can you make such a joke as a girlfriend".

    You should ask your girlfriend these questions in person, and you tell us, and we can only help you come up with ideas, after all, we are not her, and we don't know why she said that at the time.

    As you can see from your narrative, your temper is always suppressed in your heart, and I don't mean to support you to lose your temper, but at least you have to let the other person know your mood, emotions and feelings at this moment, which is also a very important part of communication. You can't make a girl feel that you are a good person, no matter how you get it, you don't get angry, no matter how you make it, you don't have a temper, this is not a good man, but a man who doesn't have a little emotional interaction. If you don't change yourself, it's the same with whoever you're with.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It feels like your girlfriend is really incompetent, but don't get excited, maybe she's always been a girl who doesn't care much about people.

    In fact, caring for others also needs to be learned.

    However, if she is usually the kind of girl who cares about people, I can only say that she doesn't love you ......

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When two people have an emotional foundation, they can get married. After getting married, you can't keep asking for happiness from your feelings, you also need to create feelings. When the demand is greater than the creation, the feelings will slowly fade until they become nothing, and a marriage without feelings is a kind of torture.

    To be good at managing feelings, this is more important than making money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are two possibilities: one is that she is not mature enough, and you have not been in a relationship for a short time. Another possibility is that she doesn't love her as much as you do. You know best which one it is, sometimes people are willing to deceive themselves. I wish you all happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's up to you ... It's certainly not her dripping problem... Don't do much about memorialism, or you will break up sooner or later.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, as long as you have a better vision in the future, don't look for similar girls.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    So be it, regret it now, if you change to a woman, you will still regret it in the end, people just keep choosing, keep struggling.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The more she loves you, the more demanding she is of you, and the more demanding she is of you, and that's because she wants to prove that you love her more! If you feel uncomfortable, you can communicate with her calmly, maybe she can understand you. It's not that a breakup can solve everything, but it depends on whether you really love her

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Brother, what is the point, take good edification, women are very delicate animals, I can't wait for the earth to revolve around her, most women only know how to ask, just ask them what they have done for our masters, but as a man, you have to be generous, let alone say no. Find a time to play with your girlfriend, release it together, be happy, and the problem will be solved.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Forehead...

    This question,You should communicate more If you're afraid of quarreling without saying a word,,You can write it on a piece of paper and show it to the other party.。。。 Say what is in your heart and trust her to understand you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What do you think of it yourself? no!In fact, you can explain some things to him, otherwise the more he drags on, he will take it for granted, and then it will be even worse! Good luck!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't break up at every turn, many girls are more willful when they are in love, because they are afraid of being wronged in the future, so you have to see clearly whether this is what she is. Let's talk to her calmly first, tell her the grievances in your heart, and see if she can change it, wouldn't it be better for the two of you to get along well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Brothers! There are only two situations for this kind of woman, either she is a woman who is not at a high level, or she doesn't love you!

    It is recommended that you judge for yourself, make a decision immediately, and if it is the latter case, try to solve it, and withdraw if you can't do it!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You're going to break up over this little thing

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm telling you, he's all like that, and it's only a matter of time before you break up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't even think about looking up after you don't teach her a lesson, and tell him that LZ doesn't have time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Seeing you arguing over trivial things, I feel a little annoyed when I watch it. The days to come are still long, so you can see for yourself. If you're too tired, I advise you not to be together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After taking a look, I found that your girlfriend is making some trivial things, and it is definitely not appropriate for such a woman to be together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm already tired and want to concentrate on my studies, but I'm reluctant to do what to do waiting for her to change? What you have given and done, does she know. You'd better break up, you're so tired you'll be later.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You must not divide it, because you have a deep relationship, and it is a pity to divide it, maybe a lifelong regret. But now you can't get close to her very quickly, because you are both still thinking about each other's wrong, I suggest that you be separated for a while, think about each other, and when everyone calms down, you go to her and talk to her, tell her the truth you want to say, and express that you really love her and really don't want to break up with her.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Although she is very immature and willful, but this also fully reflects your immaturity, you will only blindly see her shortcomings, but ignore whether you are also wrong, after all, love is a matter of two people, I don't know if I should say it or not, you don't understand each other to understand and considerate, this will become your biggest problem.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The disagreement between 2 people often starts with small things, does she know that you are tired? Does she understand your hard work? What are you doing while she's having fun at school?

    What was she doing when you were running around for her, have you thought about it? 2 People want to go on all the time, not to make demands on each other but to accommodate each other, only you to accommodate her And she means indulgence, is this love? I can only say that you are still in the stage of liking each other, it is not easy to take this step, I hope you think about what will happen if you don't divide you, what will happen if you break up, find out what is good for both parties What a man should do Brother good luck!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Follow your heart, if you feel that you really can't let go, you should try your best to protect your love, if you feel tired and don't want to continue, then try to let go, maybe then the other party will find their own true happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I'll look at it as an older person. Your girlfriend is immature, and her girlfriend is like this.

    But if you are a little mature, such trivial things will not be taken out to provoke trouble.

    But if you are busy, how can you have the leisure to give birth to this kind of waste of life.

    Two approaches. First, let her be like this, and wait for her to grow up and mature!

    Two. Find her something extra to fill up her time.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I feel like it's time for a run-in period, maybe you'll be fine after this stage. She may feel insecure, she was already busy at work, and she was angry with me for a long time if she couldn't pick her up. It's because she's worried about you, because you're out alone, it's definitely better to be at home, she cares about you very much, she's afraid that something will happen to you.

    If she's out alone and you hit ** and she doesn't pick up, you'll be like this. You said she would get into trouble for days because of the trivial matter of forgetting to change the couple's profile picture. That's because she cares about you, your every move, she reads and cares a lot.

    You're still taking a look, if it really doesn't work, just pick it out with her, you will find a solution, I don't recommend you break up. It's not easy to be together.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's good to divide it, and I'll know how to talk about it next time.

    Don't be afraid, the forest is big outside, just don't pick and choose.

    Later, when you look at yourself, you will feel stupid.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Men should be decisive and not indecisive. If you want to stay, you can stay, and if you want to divide, you can divide.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    This girl is so headstrong, she doesn't know how to love yet.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Such girls are generally more headstrong.

    She loves the feeling of being pampered by you.

    It's not selfish, every girl Mingwu has a princess dream.

    If you love her, you can be motivated or as tolerant as possible.

    After all, this is the power that only boyfriends have.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Girls are used to hurt, and since you love her, get used to her.

    If she loves you, she will get used to you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Habitually, you try not to coax him, see how it goes.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If that's the case, you should break up with her! It can be seen that she is very selfish, only for her own sake, never considered your feelings or thoughts, you are also an honest person, don't care about her, especially when she is in front of your friends, she must say that you are not good and that is not good, so that you will have no face, men are to have a strong face, you still tolerate her, if you change to another man, you would have ignored her, the most important thing that men can hurt is self-esteem, two together should understand each other, think about each other, can't be too selfish and always think about themselves, She doesn't particularly like you, she just uses you as a spare tire, and it doesn't matter if you don't have a girlfriend like her, find the best one you like each other, so that she will consider your feelings, listen to me!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    During the relationship between men and women, boys generally pay more to girls, but it can't be said that girls shouldn't pay, girls should affirm boys' contributions, boys should not blindly please girls in order to fit girls, boys are used to please, do this and that for girls, after a long time, girls will be accustomed to it, will think that what you do is right, and she will not consider your feelings. You should communicate often together, talk about your thoughts, so that it is conducive to the understanding between two people, but also conducive to the depth of your feelings, if you still blindly pay, she still blindly accepts that she does not understand your inner feelings, after a long time your feelings will fade, and even will not go on.

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