My girlfriend and I have known each other for almost 2 years, and now there is a problem and I don t

I'm just a high school student and I've never been in a relationship, but I think it's really annoying to always ask her what she does, and I suggest that she shouldn't always be like this.

In fact, when I make friends, I always appear like this, and I don't know what's wrong with me, and the friends I've been dating for a while are always a little annoyed with them, and then try to find all the shortcomings in them, and then deliberately avoid them, but I still care about them in my heart, really. I don't know if falling in love is the same as making friends. If it is, then it's nothing, and after a long time, the feeling will disappear forever, as long as it doesn't make her feel too annoying.

Every friend of mine who plays very hard has gone through my period of deliberate rejection and finding faults.

Falling in love seems to have something to do with making friends.

Hehe, I don't understand these things, so I won't talk about them.

I think it's useless for us outsiders to say anything, only the two of you know in your hearts, if you love each other, it may be a little contradictory is normal? How can there be no contradictions, my girlfriend and I still have it. So, I suggest you go and coax her!

If you can do it, you can pull it down. The guy has a Taoist girl sticking to you upside down. It depends on whether you are like that or not, and you don't always have to think about her psychological feelings. Does she think about you and think about you like you are? Let it be, it's useless to think so much.

Find out why you want to avoid you, and the right medicine can solve the problem, and try to get close to her as little as possible recently, so as not to get more and more disgusted.

Find a chance with her, and the two of you can sit together and have a good chat!

I hope you can be happy and free from all those mutual suspicions!

Find an opportunity, make an appointment to go to a place to have a drink, have a good chat, it's okay. That's how people are.

Yes, I believe it! Then the two of them sat down quietly and talked about what they couldn't resolve after 2 years. Open your heart.

You have to believe in yourself, believe in her, and believe in your love

Give her the freedom she wants

I wish you all happiness

If you love her, hurry up and grab her with your love!

It's up to you to be a man.

Don't try to guess women.

Totally agreed. By: Shuaichaohuino - Manager Level 4.

It's a classic.

You and your girlfriend have known each other for almost a year, in the past, your girlfriend talked a lot to you, that was at the beginning, it belonged to the love period, of course, there were more words, now there are fewer words, you can take the initiative to find a topic to talk to her more, you are always quarreling now, then you let her not quarrel with her, what does she want, you try to meet her as much as possible, don't you just do it.

The first thing is to reflect on yourself and think about whether you don't care enough about her.

The second is to travel together.

Enhance your relationship.

She was scared.

Her heart was bumping with a deer, and she didn't know what to do.

If you reject you, you may not even be a friend.

Accepting you will disturb the study.

You should know best how she feels about you.

Do you like her? Do you really like her?

Do you really like her and just want to be with her? But if the girl doesn't give you a clear answer now, are you going to leave her? Ignore her?

The girl is a little ambiguous.

She knows you've confessed, and she knows you're good to her.

If she rejects you harshly, she won't get any more of that.

To put it mildly, this is the "cheapness" of girls

Of course, this is only one of the possibilities.

I don't know her, but you know her best.

In fact, you should ask yourself, how much do you like her?

Are you still willing to be friends with her after she rejects you in the end?

Maybe the girl doesn't like you and just treats you as a good friend, but she doesn't know how to speak.

You have to understand the girl's current struggle, what to do, or she herself doesn't know.

I don't know what kind of girl that girl is, I just want to tell you, if you really like it, then you like it silently, if you feel that you can't wait, you just want a relationship, then give up.

Or will the girl give you an answer when she gets admitted to college?

If you're willing to wait, then you won't regret whatever she gives at that time.

If you want to be as good to her as ever, like her as always, then go ahead.

To like is to like, and not to like is to like.

I know you hate girls' ambiguity. But sometimes people are entangled.

But I think you like her, and you want to see her happy, right?

So you have to have a good mentality, don't be in a hurry, you're not old, really don't be in such a hurry.

Send you four words, let it be!

Wishing you happiness!

She just doesn't like you, so don't toss.

Friend, or a confidant, anyway, she just thinks you're important.

It seems that she also has a good impression of you, so let's start with close friends and friends, and slowly develop a relationship.

Very simple. You can communicate with your girlfriend sincerely. You have been dating for two years, and the relationship between the two of you should have matured and you can discuss some practical issues rationally.

You can communicate with her openly and honestly, without suspicion, without fiction, without too much personal emotions and feelings, just look at her thoughts.

In this communication, you can find out whether you have the ability to control your emotions, whether you are understanding and tolerant, and whether your feelings are real. Her answer will imply her attitude, and you need to listen and understand, whether she likes him, or just because she has an opinion about you, or just doesn't know how to deal with it and is afraid that you will worry. So, there's a lot of possibilities here, and it's subtle, and you need to listen and communicate without too much bias.

It's your responsibility and competence.

You don't even know what your girlfriend thinks, is there anyone here who knows better than you? Understand that in the same situation, different people, think differently. So only your girlfriend has the answers you need.

If there is a problem, then the solution to the problem must be in your communication.

Finally, may you grow and be happy.

Hey、、、 remember one sentence, love for the purpose of marriage is to play hooligan. If you don't marry your girlfriend, don't take it over.

What do you think of your girlfriend, if it's the kind of water-based poplar flower, it's divided.

If not, go to the man and tell him to stay away from your girlfriend.

Usually when she introduces you, she says that you are a boyfriend, just think about it.

I still hope you can communicate, see what the woman thinks in her heart, no matter the ending, I hope you don't be kept in the dark, maybe after you communicate more, she will understand that she loves you

Practical point. If you really love her. If you are willing to give up something for her, then you can give up your current job and work hard in the same city as her.

But before making this decision, you try her mind first, if her mind is still with you, it is worth giving up, if she has already changed her mind, then you give up.

Whoever doesn't have it can't survive. Live well for yourself, live for your family, and live for the next person who appears at the right time and in the right place!

But I think you'll ask how to try her mind, and you can talk to her directly about changing jobs.

The most important thing for two people to be together is communication and trust!

It takes enough communication for two people to build trust in each other!

There is no right or wrong in feelings. Everyone wants to be cared for and waited for, not sick and cold, the other party just blindly says: drink more water, take medicine on time... These are things that can be done by just one friend. It's the same for both boys and girls.

I hope you can untie this knot soon.

I wish a lover a family member

Because she has become accustomed to your love for her.

Love is a matter of two people, and you can't put all the fault on one girl's family.

In fact, it's not that she has changed, it's that you continue to enjoy the warmth you once had.

You said you loved her very much, and why did you live apart? Anything that is afraid of time can bring the two of you into the marriage hall and can also wash away all the beauty. Don't always worry about what you bought for a year's salary, and they didn't force it.

It's a serious thing to give people a good home, and everything else is.

What is gone can only be remembered, but now is not the time for you to relive it often.

If this continues, not to mention that the girl will no longer care about you, it is very likely that one day the girl will send you an invitation to drink her wedding wine.

Don't ask how to get back the feeling you used to have, it feels like this thing is unreliable. Slowly it will be replaced by a dull life and a growing family relationship.

If you still love her, pack your bags and hit the road and find your girl.

If it's just for feelings, then you can let it go, it's not good for anyone to continue like this, it's not interesting to be whole.

Sometimes girls don't contact you because you want you to take the initiative to contact her. Did you take the initiative to go to him? Did you take the initiative to surprise her? What girls want is not your salary for a year, but your company all the time. Find a way to accompany him, it's a terrible thing to make a girl feel lonely.

The relationship between the two is not maintained by money, nor is it directly proportional to how much you buy her. You have to use your people to warm her and conquer her, if not, then your money will only be wasted.

It's not a matter of feeling, it's a matter of distance, my boyfriend and I are also separated, but when we meet on vacation, we still feel like before.

In fact, the biggest enemy of love is distance. Because in the space where they can't see each other, the trust between people and the sense of security for each other will be reduced, and never believe in the fantastic plots of those movies and TV series, which are basically non-existent in reality. And love is not maintained by money or material, but more needs heart-to-heart communication.

It's not necessarily that she's changed, because you're separated in two places, you can't see what she's going through, you have to have a certain understanding. Since you love her so much, why don't you find a suitable opportunity to talk to her about your current situation, open your heart, tell her the truth about your current thoughts and feelings for her, and then listen carefully to her thoughts. You can rest assured, there are so many years of affection between you, there is no mustard that cannot be solved, as long as you bring sincerity and compare your heart to your heart.

Finally, I wish you and you her the best ending.

For two people who are emotionally fragile, the two places are separated, and the relationship is undoubtedly drifting apart;

Step into a complex society, people and things around you, hehe! Innocent people are often betrayed by sympathy;

I hope it will help you a little bit:

1) Long-distance care is not enough, end the separation quickly, work is important, but the love of life is more important;

2) If you already have the idea of getting married, it is recommended to get engaged first, get a certificate, don't say that the current economic foundation is not good, take money to make excuses, have a certificate, and bind each other;

3) Love her, not only financial giving, thoughtfulness, meticulous care can also grasp love;

4) When people enter the society, they will change with the surrounding environment, and you should look at the problem with the idea of change, understand her, and understand her.

I wish you all happiness

She and I were college classmates and later became boyfriend and girlfriend. I've seen her parents, and she's seen my parents. I've been together for a long time, I'm tired of pursuing something new, I feel that there is a better love, and love is a joy for both people.

Sometimes it's impossible to get it back if you miss it.

Have you had a good chat with him, communicated with each other, talked to each other?

After a long time, I get used to it, it's nothing.

I can only say that you are stupid, and now is not this stage.

You have to understand that people always change.

It's because your love for her has transcended the sexual level, and for so many years, you have been together, like a family, and family affection has even surpassed love, and has merged with each other. There's nothing wrong with that, after all, if you want to live a happy and comfortable family life in the long future, you can't just rely on sex to maintain it. When your girlfriend mentions this, she actually wants to further deepen your relationship and relationship.

You should adjust yourself to accept her.

Habitual neglect? I guess you are used to not wanting your girlfriend, and you haven't changed your mind to this situation for the time being. Don't think about it ...

Men, you have to be able to take it and put it down! Dare to bear, dare to carry, I think love, first of all, you must trust each other, first of all, you love her, you have to fully believe her, two people together, whether one party completely trusts the other party, this is very easy to feel, no matter how well you hide it is useless, I think:

1, you think about yourself, can you absolutely believe in her, if you don't believe it, don't deceive yourself, there is no trust between husband and wife, I really don't know what will happen in the future.

2. Secondly, after you do it, communicate well with her, can you absolutely believe in you, if she can do it, and at the same time you can feel it, then OK, otherwise, the two parties are not talking about feelings, not towards the goal of finally getting married and growing old together during the day, you all ask yourself, yes or no? Is it just playing?

3. Take 10,000 steps back, if the two parties negotiate and choose to break up, you may be in pain, but remember, you are a man, you can afford to take it, you can put it down, there is a saying that says, "Be bold to love, you may be hurt, but this is the only way to get a complete life!" "If you break up, it means that you are not suitable, it is useless to force it, the pain will pass, life will go on, and there will definitely be someone who suits you waiting for you! There is also a person who is more suitable for her than you waiting for her, love her, I hope she is happy, besides, there are too many experiences in life, believe in yourself, brother!