What should I do if I feel guilty about hitting my child because of my homework?

Hello, I do not recommend parents to use corporal punishment on their children, especially in the case of homework. Hitting a child is not a good way to solve the problem, and it is more likely to harm the child's physical and mental health and affect the parent-child relationship. In addition, the use of violence can also lead to fear and avoidance in children, which can make the problem worse.

Therefore, we need to find other ways to help our children do well.

First, we can talk to our children about why they are reluctant to do their homework. It may be because the child feels that the homework is too difficult, too much, or they lack interest in certain subjects. After understanding the child's thoughts, we can help the child to make a reasonable homework plan, encourage the child to complete some tasks in a short time, and gradually improve the efficiency of the child's homework.

Finally, we need to note that children need to have a certain amount of rest and free time during the homework process. Appropriate relaxation and recreational activities can help children relieve stress and increase motivation and confidence. Therefore, we should give children enough time for outdoor activities, reading, and playing, while encouraging children to do something they enjoy after completing their homework.

In short, parents should try to use more gentle and effective methods to help their children when facing their children's homework problems, instead of resorting to violent behavior. By communicating with children, providing them with help and relaxing them properly, we can help them improve their efficiency and interest in completing homework, cultivate their self-confidence and independence, and improve family harmony.

That's not quite right! First of all, if the child does not do his homework well and does not listen to his parents, it does not mean that the child really belongs to the kind of child who knows his mistakes and cannot change them. As a parent, you should understand the reasons why your child does not write homework well and pay attention to the education method.

1. Be friends with your children and don't take drastic behaviors.

To educate your child correctly is to let go of your posture and take the initiative to be friends with your child, rather than acting high all the time. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for their children.

In addition, when children make mistakes, parents should first calm their emotions, avoid taking aggressive actions against their children, regardless of whether they are indiscriminately taught with sticks first, but calmly help children analyze and solve problems.

Treating children harshly not only fails to make them realize their mistakes and correct them, but also leaves a shadow on their hearts and makes their personalities extreme.

2. Give your child more company.

No one can replace the love and companionship of parents, only under the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children receive better education and develop good habits.

However, in real life, many parents are forced by the pressure of life and have to ask their grandmothers and grandfathers to come over to help watch the children or leave their children in their hometowns.

In this case, parents are unable to provide enough time for their children, which will have a negative impact on his development.

Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more often, communicate with them or play more, keep abreast of their life and learning, and let them feel that even if their parents are not around, they are still caring and loving themselves.