What should I do if the two are not in harmony and want to divorce?

Do you want to divorce because of emotional discord?

What do you mean, do you also want to divorce, or do you hope that someone can persuade you not to divorce.

Analyze it yourself.

Are you really disgusted with each other, and after the divorce, are the children, finances, parents and other factors all in place?

Even if it happens in the future, won't you regret the decision to divorce today?

Actually, if you really don't want to leave so much, don't leave, as long as you don't have a mistress.

If you encounter a problem, you can solve it.

Quarrels? Pretend to be pitiful, a quarrelsome person, who is very strong in some aspects, and pretend to be pitiful to face it.

Cold War? Surprise bombardment, quietly wash the dishes, send a small gift, go to see each other's parents, pretend not to admit it, every time it touches people.

If you really want to leave, you can leave, and the decisions you make are all for a reason, as long as you are convinced by this reason.

Feelings are not child's play, and even if they barely get together, it hurts both parties. Although this rift can be repaired in a short period of time and other factors (e.g., children, parents, etc.), the seeds have been planted and will take root sooner or later.

I have seen many families where husband and wife respect each other in front of their children, relatives and friends, but they are as cold as strangers. Is such a marriage happy? Nowadays, with the process of society, the mind is rapidly opening up, and people always have to move forward, so you should think about this problem yourself!

Do you have any children now? If there is, it should be treated with caution, divorce is not good for the growth of children; If you really can't get by, then hide your child until he is 18 years old and tell him!

Statutory divorce routes: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. 1. Divorce by agreement

It is also called voluntary divorce between the parties (to distinguish it from litigation divorce) and refers to the legal system in which the parties to the marriage relationship reach an agreement on divorce and dissolve the marriage relationship through the marriage registration procedure. Its main characteristics: First, the parties have the same will on the issues of divorce, child support and property distribution.

1. There are three things to consider in divorce: whether to leave or not; child support issues; How property is divided.

2. The Marriage Law has provisions on the conditions and reasons for divorce, the principle of child support, and the procedures for the division of property.

3. There are two ways to divorce: one is divorce by agreement, the husband and wife reach an agreement on child support and property division, and after the divorce agreement is formed, they can jointly go to the marriage registration office of one party's domicile to register the divorce (not only one party, or let others, both husband and wife must be present together), and get the "divorce certificate" to divorce, remember to bring your ID card, **, "marriage certificate"; The other is litigation divorce, when the husband and wife cannot reach a divorce agreement on the divorce agreement, or both parties agree to divorce through the court, then one party can file a divorce civil lawsuit with the court to request a divorce. There are generally two ways in which the court handles divorce cases:

That is, a mediated divorce or a judgment divorce. The principle of the court in deciding a divorce case is to confirm whether the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, and if so, to grant divorce; If there is no real breakdown, the judgment does not allow the divorce. Where the court decides a divorce, it shall make a judgment on the issues of child support and division of property.

If the court mediates a divorce case and reaches a mediation agreement, it shall issue a mediation document; In the case of divorce, a judgment is issued. If the party is not satisfied with the judgment, the party may file an appeal within the time limit for appeal, and the court at the level above the original trial court will conduct a second instance, and the court of second instance will either uphold the original judgment, or change the judgment, or revoke the original judgment or remand to the original trial court for a new trial; Once the mediation document is served on the parties, it will take legal effect, and the parties cannot appeal and must abide by it, but the parties may file a complaint for retrial in accordance with the law.

4. Filing a lawsuit with the court is generally under the jurisdiction of the court where the defendant is located.

5. Go to the marriage registry office to register the divorce, as long as the husband and wife are present together, both parties are voluntary, and the formalities are complete and legal and compliant, they can be divorced on the spot. In addition, whether or not to leave, who should raise the children, and how to divide the property, in the case that the two parties cannot reach a consensus, the court has the right to make a judgment on the basis of the facts ascertained by the trial, which reflects the protection of civil rights by law and the adjustment and maintenance of marriage and family order.

6. Whether it is divorce by agreement or divorce by litigation, it is against hasty divorce, in addition, marriage is a major event in the life of both parties, therefore, I hope that you (you) should carefully consider and decide, comprehensive and long-term consideration, not be angry, blind divorce, easy divorce.

The above views are for your reference, I wish you smooth and happy!

There are two ways to get divorced:

First, divorce by agreement, after the husband and wife reach a divorce opinion, and reach a consensus on the division of property and child support, they can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau in person to go through the divorce procedures;

Second, if the two parties fail to reach a divorce through negotiation, they can use the method of litigation divorce to divorce, and the plaintiff's ID card, marriage certificate, and complaint are required to file a case in court.

Legal basis] Article 11 of the Regulations on Marriage Registration stipulates that mainland residents who have registered for divorce shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) The person's marriage certificate;

3) A divorce agreement signed by both parties. In addition to the certificates and supporting materials provided for in items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph, Hong Kong residents, Macao residents, and Taiwan residents who have gone through divorce registration shall also present their valid passes and identity cards, and overseas Chinese and Hekudong foreigners shall also present their valid passports or other valid international travel documents.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' intention to divorce voluntarily and their opinions on matters such as child support, property and debt handling.

Hello dear, if the husband and wife are not in harmony and want to divorce, they can negotiate a divorce. 1. If the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. 2. If one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, they may have Hui Hui mediated by the relevant organization or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

If the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, both parties have the right to file for divorce. In China, divorce is divided into two ways: divorce by lawsuit and divorce by agreement. If both husband and wife divorce voluntarily and can reach an agreement on the division of the joint property of the husband and wife, the assumption of joint debts of the husband and wife, and the ownership of the custody of the children, they may agree to divorce and conclude a divorce agreement.

According to the provisions of China's Marriage Law, divorce by mutual agreement must be registered in accordance with the law. To register a divorce, both the man and the woman need to go to the marriage registration authority where either party's household registration is located to apply for it. If one of the husband and wife is unwilling to divorce, the other party should take the form of suing for divorce, write a complaint frankly, and bring the ID card, household registration booklet, marriage certificate and other materials to the people's court where either of the men and women has their household registration to file a lawsuit.

Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 31: Voluntary divorce.

If both a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32 Divorce proceedings.

If a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant departments may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change after repeated attempts; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a military member requests a divorce.

The spouse of an active military member must obtain the consent of the military member if he or she wishes to divorce, unless one of the military personnel is seriously at fault.

If you are relieved of emotional discord and do not want to divorce, then try to change yourself, change yourself or the other party into what you want to answer, or what the other person wants. There are many reasons for the incompatibility of the original Sora, and find out the reasons. Solve these problems.

Try to save your marriage, and the marriage should be managed.

We try to communicate more with each other and understand each other more, but it is not easy to be together?