Such a person, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You see you say so much about him.

    There was no mention of anything good about him from beginning to end, which already shows that there is not much to hesitate between the two of you. It is estimated that the rest is a little bit of inertia, and the so-called one is better than none. But I think it's better to have a bad one than not to have it at all, at least it's not a bad thing.

    Divide it, it's not a question of whether the sun is yang or not, but a question of whether he loves you or himself.

    If you don't shine, you can change it slowly, but people who don't love you enough won't change it for you.

    Moreover, it is inherently embarrassing for colleagues in the same unit to talk about feelings, and it is easy for rumors to fly all over the place.

    There is no grass at the end of the world, so why bother looking for it in the office.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, there are men like me.

    Fortunately, my heart has become a monk. Don't talk about feelings!

    I was hurt a lot by women! They say it's a cautious eye and can't let it go!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why didn't you say what you like about him, there is no perfect person, you better think about whether he is suitable for you, be cautious.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Such a useless man, break up! Otherwise, you'll die of boredom.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Reorganize your thoughts and consider the weight between your loving happiness and your unhappiness. Which side is heavier, if it is love, then you should talk to him, if it doesn't work, talk about it many times, it still doesn't work, or love him very much, then what you need is to pay, when you pay nothing to pay, then you can consider separating, why do you say that, because I think, people's voice is a calm, right to others, often pain is not as good as short pain, short pain is too painful, but people can't always choose to escape. Problems can only be solved by facing them realistically.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be too tired for the two children, just have fun.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If everything is satisfactory, then life has no meaning. It is precisely because many things are not satisfactory that life is meaningful.

    When you want to do something difficult, you're bound to run into a dilemma. The one who is going to do this is you, and then you have to -- go forward in the darkness as a person, and you have to endure these sufferings. It's the same with everyone, they all grow up in despair over and over again.

    Everyone has to go through some unbearable hardships to some extent. But what we will also get out of it can be knowledge, it can be money, it can be experience.

    If everything is ready for you, it will be meaningless. Only those who work their own will be better. It may not be so satisfying, but it makes more sense.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. Go back to your accommodation, drink a glass of hot milk, take a hot bath, listen to your favorite song, and sleep quietly.

    2. When you wake up tomorrow morning, you will see if you still have such thoughts.

    3. When you come to Shanghai alone, you have no friends and no money, which is very painful and helpless, but no matter what, don't do anything illegal, unless you really want to go to the police station.

    4. I don't want to say anything big, because I'm not as good as you, I don't have money, I can't find a job, I'm still disabled, I've encountered a lot of things recently, and I'm very depressed, but I don't want to do illegal and criminal things, you're much better than me.

    5. The best way is to change yourself, because when you don't have the ability to change anything, you can only change yourself first, and then wait until you have enough ability to change what you want to change.

    6. Everyone is alone in this world, don't worry, don't worry, think about what you can do, what you can do, there are actually many things you can do.

    7. Okay, I'm going to sleep, that's all I can say; My choice now is who to go for a good night's sleep; Well, hopefully you too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you come here to ask, it means that you are a reasonable person and have a moral bottom line. You can't do illegal things, and if you do, you're heading for a point of no return. There's no money to find a job!

    If you can't find a suitable job for the time being, you can find a suitable job first. Even if you go to hand out flyers, deliver takeaways, or even pick up garbage, you can't break the law and commit crimes. The lack of money is temporary and will pass.

    But if you go the wrong way, you can't go back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't do anything illegal.

    Tomorrow I can find a part-time job at a hotel for dinner.

    I know a boss from Henan, who just came to Guangdong and lived in a tree for a week, and now he is also a boss of tens of millions.

    Hold on for a while and it's over.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nothing, why in Shanghai, doing illegal things is the most faceless thing, harming others and yourself, no matter how hard it is, you must choose your path, you have hands and feet, it is impossible not to break out, please have confidence, you are not to the point where you are particularly short of money to let go.

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