What to do if you hate someone, what to do if you hate someone?

It's normal to hate a person, though. It shows that you still have seven emotions and six desires. She doesn't have the potential to be a monk or a nun yet.

If you hate it, you hate it. There's always something hateful about them that makes you hate. It's a big deal to be indifferent to it.

But you must not force yourself not to hate. I'm sure you can handle it.

My personal opinion is that I hate a person, that's because he and she have some habits, or opinions, which make you feel uncomfortable, but, everyone will inevitably have shortcomings, since we can't change him and her, then let go a little, if it's work, we still deal with things and not people, if it's usual, then each other is just a hurried passerby in life, and the hatred that has always existed is not good for their own study and work, then, the biggest loss is ultimately themselves, I choose not to pay attention to it,, Work harder in all aspects to do a good job, so that he and she recognize you better, "It's your loss not to be friends with me" Without you, my life is still as cool!

You have to understand why you hate this person, and then solve it in a targeted manner, blindly only hating it will not only not work for the problem, but will also annoy yourself, go to the root of the problem, and everything will be solved.

The first cannot kill him, and the second is to understand him. Third, tell him that you hate him. If he still pesters youYou continue to hate him.

I really don't know what to do with the people I hate? Quarrel with him or persuade his family, but just avoid him. It's better to stay away from him.

The best way to hate someone is to ignore them, not care about them, and live better than them.

Perfection is God, mortal beings, there will always be some places that will provoke others. Even if you are sleek and have no ball thorns, there will always be people who don't like you, this is the subtlety of human nature. Nowadays, human relations have become an art, there is so much knowledge in it, as the saying goes, if you don't do things, you can't grow wise, and everyone is trying to find a shortcut that can make communication between people easier.

Where is this road in**? Let's look for it from the "people who have come over". If two people's personalities are like fire, it is easy to happen when there is friction or dispute, and the final result can only be a lose-lose situation, which is not good for anyone.

But if one side is willing to take a step back and is willing to play the role of the water system, then the result is bound to be more optimistic, and I believe that "fire" will eventually be subdued by "water". Maybe you come into contact with a stranger every day, remember, no matter what others say about him, you must not treat him with any prejudice, you can assume that he is friendly, so that he can become your friend. When you have a quarrel with others, you should take the initiative to "say sorry" and greet others, learn to discover the shining points in others and learn to tolerate their shortcomings, so that your mentality can be balanced and you will be more positive.

In the face of people you hate, people you can't understand, people who have a stalemate in a relationship, you can try the following: 1. Consider the problem from the other person's point of view, look at the advantages of others instead of biting on the shortcomings, and learn to be tolerant. 2. Respect each other, care about each other, praise each other more, and don't be reluctant to open Chrysostom.

3. Get along with aggressive people, and the other party's words don't have to be taken to heart, except for insulting people. 4. When the relationship is stalemate or deteriorates, you must take the initiative to express friendship, and don't love face and embarrassment. 5. Don't come hard, do what he likes, if the other party likes to rub it, then ask him to rub it privately to improve the relationship.

6. The ability of interpersonal communication is very important, and the ability of interpersonal adaptation is even more important.

Teach you to learn these three tricks, how to deal with people.

1.Try to stay away from people you hate. It means not having any unnecessary contact with that person, unless you have to, and then leave immediately.

The advantage of this method is that if you are not very provocative, and the person you hate does not know that you hate him, then you can let him know that you don't like him in this way, and over time, he will not have so much influence on you, and you will be slightly more comfortable. However, if you want to see each other every day, as you said, then this method still has certain drawbacks, because you have to stay away from him, then the people around him, you will not be easy to approach. 2.

Use him as a negative teaching material. You hate him, there must be a reason for you. Then if you hate a flaw in him, you should use him as a negative teaching material to remind yourself not to have this flaw.

The advantage of this method is that it will not only free you from suffering, but also improve your own quality. But one thing to note is: I don't want you to reverse all of him, everyone still has some advantages, you just need to use his shortcomings as negative teaching materials, remember?

3.Make your life more colorful. It's painful to hate someone, but it's comfortable to relax yourself.

You can spend the time and energy you hate on what you enjoy yourself, such as watching TV, playing on the computer, ......Not only does this relax you, but it also strikes you against the person you hate: "Look!

I'm living a happy life, and you don't affect me at all! "It's a very positive approach. And you have to remember that it is very painful to hate someone, if he does not have a great influence on you, don't hate it, just be a passerby.

Actually, 3 years is not a long time in your life, is it?