How do you make up your mind about something?

Don't hesitate to put down your phone and stand up to do it.

You start by sending me money.

Find yourself a motivator.

Four suggestions for making decisions.

1. When making any decision, make slow decisions and act quickly.

2. Collect information and then make a decision, the information is not as good as it, and it cannot be decided.

3. If you have the answer first, then ask for advice, ask others, and ask three kinds of people.

4. Allow time to make a decision, just like holding a yellow light and stopping for a while.

A good decision is to be a win-win situation, to achieve a win-win situation with each other, and to love: take into account everyone's feelings, and give the right pants to the true love of the beard.

When making decisions, think from the perspective of a lifetime.

Successful people will make good decisions, and more than 400 people will make bad decisions, so decisions determine fate.

Because I always visit Zhihu, I will see all kinds of questions, and the questions pushed to me are generally related to my field of work, but because my field of work is relatively niche, there are not many questions, and some people don't know anything about this field, so they ask some questions they encounter. The other group of people, some students or people who want to change careers, come to ask about the prospects of the industry and what needs to be done to prepare.

The questions I saw said that what preparations I need to do if I want to do a job in this field in the future are basically a pattern: Hello, I want to graduate (or change careers) to work in this field, among which I think position A and position B are quite high, for myself, if I want to do position A, I also need to strengthen my ability in xx aspects; If I want to do job B, I need to take the Y certificate again. But I have enough time to do one of them, which one should I choose?

Every time I see this hidden manuscript before the question, I am actually very speechless, the person who asked the question has planned very clearly, if you want to do what kind of preparation should be done for what kind of position this kind of thing is very clear, the only thing that needs someone else is what position he will do in the future. I have always believed that in this industry, or in all types of work, in fact, which position is the same, mainly depends on your own personality or strengths. The work is still suitable for oneself to feel easy and smooth, and it will feel painful to let a social fear do sales.

This kind of thing, it's better to decide by yourself and be more respectful.

Another thing that has nothing to do with Gongzao Qingzuo is related to financial management, I sometimes buy some financial products,**,**, or regularly or something, at the beginning, I encountered more cost-effective activities, I would share it with friends, or share it in the group. At this time, the most common question encountered is: Is this yield high?

Is it safe? Will there be risks?

I think this question is also very difficult, I generally will, there is a risk, not completely safe. There is no zero risk in financial management, especially when you feel that the return is quite high. The choice of product depends on your expectation of returns and the assessment of your own risk tolerance.

I'm not a financial planner, and I don't intend to take the risk that the recommendation isn't suitable, so I haven't shared it in crowded settings since then, but only shared it separately with people who are in a similar situation to me and are interested.

It's better not to leave the decision to others, choose by yourself, and bear the consequences of your choice.

I'm kind of like you.

Hey. If I had to say how I can make up my mind, there is only one way, and that is to stop thinking too much.

It is precisely because people think too much that they have such and such things and ideas.

So don't overthink it.

I used to be young, I didn't think too much and didn't think too much, but now that I'm older, I always think about a lot of things every day.

It's a good thing and it's not a good thing.

Hahaha. In short, think about the things that should be thought.

Don't think about things that don't work.

ok？！Thinking too much will only annoy you more.

That's how I feel now.

Annoyance is dead.

Hahaha. I think your mood may be due to thinking too many bad things.

Hey. If you think about it for the better, it probably won't be like this.

You have to imagine that your work is a beautiful thing.

You can help your parents buy some of the things they need after you pay your salary.

You can also buy the things you need.

You have to imagine that you are happy at work.

Hahaha. It's a very happy time when you spend time with your colleagues.

ok？？That's what I thought.

Hey. I often comfort myself in this way.

To be honest, no one is willing to work for others.

It's true. It's better to work for someone else than to work for yourself.

But. Now you and I are too young to have much capital.

That's why we have to go to work before we go to work.

ok？！It is for the sake of a better life for myself in the future.

To struggle. You will live a happier life in the future.

Hey. Because you're still young.

Struggle!!!

Adopt the psychological "suggestion method", constantly say to yourself at the banquet, "I must do it", "I am sure that socks can do it", "I must be good", which can continue to affect you, and finally strengthen your self-confidence, thereby increasing your determination and courage.

Everyone will encounter things that interfere with their thoughts, and the most important thing should be to make up your mind to do something, rather than hovering between the two, the writer Yang Daxia pointed out that the more hesitant you are, the more troubled you are. Stove elimination.