In the cruel reality, who will be better to choose between the person who loves you and the person y

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    5066658 you're so right, it's very difficult for everyone to choose when faced with choosing the person they love and the person who loves them! I'm especially afraid that I will regret choosing the wrong one, then I really don't know what to do The key is to choose someone who is happy with you! If you find that the person you love really doesn't love you, choose to give up After all, you have worked hard, what you can't get is the most perfect, and love doesn't have to be obtained!

    Then choose someone you love to live a good life! You can be friends with the person you love, you can't just forget it If you get the person you love, you will be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Choose for yourself, how can someone you don't love live with? In the face of such a person, you are not only harming yourself, but also harming him. You're an irresponsible person. Respect your feelings and love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not a very right question, you think! The person who loves you may become the person you love after a long time, and the person you love will also become the person who loves you after contact. It's all about dating, and I want to find someone who loves me and I love him, but it's hard to find. You have to be prepared, too!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The people who love me give everything for me, but I am crazy and heartbroken for the ** tears I love.

    To love is to be loved as to be sinned.

    Loving and being loved are the same contradictions in themselves, which one you will agree with or receive?

    Those who love you are chasing you hard, and maybe the people you love also have people who are hard to pursue.

    There is no such thing as perfection.

    Cherish what is in front of you, that is happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Choose someone who loves you to be (wife) (husband) and choose someone you love to be your lover.

    The above advice applies to both men and women. ^-

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Choose someone who loves you as a wife, and choose someone you love as a lover.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Choosing the right one for you is the most important thing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Resign yourself to fate, fate has its own arrangement in the dark, and you can't be the master yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Being loved and loving are different meanings, and I don't think you have understood yet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    ..I just want to persuade you to cherish the people in front of you

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I will choose someone who loves you, because I think that if I choose someone who loves me, then I will have a more relaxed life in this relationship, and I like this relationship more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'll be the first to fit each other.

    Then it's what suits you, and then it's the person you love.

    Because of the one you love, if he doesn't love you, you will be very tired of asking what is suitable and what is love.

    Love comes from understanding.

    Question: I'm 19 years old now, I feel like I'm an adult, I need to think about things are not the current and the future, I think adult love is more suitable than love, love will change and disappear.

    Adult love is appropriate.

    Running to get married for the purpose. If you are suitable, you will get married.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Someone who loves me. Because the person who loves me will cherish our feelings more, and the person I love will only cause me pain, so I will choose the person who loves me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If I had to choose, I would definitely choose someone who loves me, I don't think there are too many worries about living with such a person, and it will be very easy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Seeing this question, I believe that many people will be the first to say: "Of course it is the one who chooses to love himself." We all know that it is a very happy thing to be liked and loved, but if you don't love each other and just enjoy the process of being loved, then this kind of love is difficult to maintain.

    Just imagine, if there is such a person who tells you good morning and good night every day, reports his itinerary to you every day, always asks you if you eat on time, and even knows that you have a cold or is not feeling well, he will think of coming to take care of you as soon as possible. If there is such a person by your side, you will definitely be very moved by his dedication, but are you with him out of emotion or because you also love each other? If you are only moved to be with him, you may enjoy having someone who cares about you and takes care of you at first, but after a long time, you will find that you just enjoy the process of being loved.

    You think you're going to fall in love for a long time, but you really can't help but like this kind of thing. Maybe he will surprise me a lot, and you think you are very happy and sweet, but in fact you still feel empty inside. Maybe the other person can bring you a temporary sense of happiness, but it can't fill your heart.

    Over time, you will feel that I owe him a lot of debts that I can't pay off, and in the end this relationship can only end here.

    If you want to choose someone you love, the other party's joys, sorrows and sorrows affect your emotions, you will feel distressed when the other party is sick, and you will be happy when the other party wins the award. But these are just your wishful thinking, maybe the other party's kindness to you makes you think that the other party also loves you, but it may also be because the other party is good to you because of his good upbringing, and in fact, his kindness to you is no different from being good to others, all this is just your own self-inflicted feelings.

    Coming back to this topic, who loves me and who I love, how will I choose? I feel like I would say without hesitation that I would choose someone who we love each other at the same time. Choose someone who loves me, and I will feel sorry; Choose someone I love, and I'll be bruised all over my body.

    It's not easy to meet someone you like and happen to like you, if you really do, cherish it and love each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will choose someone who loves me, because if I am loved, I will be very happy in love, and my life will get better and better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I will choose the person I love, because only with the person I love will I be happy and happy, even if it is a hard life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    will choose to love yourself, in fact, everyone needs to be loved in life, so you will be selfish and choose to love yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Loving someone is happy, even if it is bitter, I feel willing; It is also happy to be loved by someone, although it is sweet, it will feel bland. It's best if two people love each other, it's a rare fate, and the chances are very rare. No matter how you choose, there is no right or wrong, the key is how to run in and operate after marriage.

    For some people, it is the greatest happiness to be with the person they love the most, so no matter what difficulties they encounter, to make efforts and overcome, to understand, support and tolerate each other, this requires a strong heart, and having love in the heart is a powerful force.

    For some people, choosing to love their own people is more secure and more down-to-earth. At the same time of the other party's love and dedication, you should also respond and be grateful when you are positive, and also make efforts for the other party.

    My personal opinion is that whether you choose A or B, it is a blank test paper, how to answer the test paper of life, how to manage marriage, how to make the relationship between the two parties stronger and stronger, this is what it is. Ask yourself about your inner bias, compare the advantages and disadvantages of these two people, vary from person to person, specific people should be specifically analyzed, find the right one for yourself, and do a good job in life, I wish you happiness!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think we have to look at it from a relative point of view, love is two people, and the same is true of feelings, if one party always makes efforts, then sooner or later they will be separated, even if no one says anything, that kind of relationship is like a stranger, can you stand this embarrassing scene? If it is me, I will first choose the person I love and use my own ability to make the person I love happy; If I still can't make the person I love fall in love with me, then I will look for someone else who belongs to me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    During my relationship I will choose the person I love, and if I want to live my life, I will choose the person who loves me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think there is a saying that makes quite sense. The boy has to choose what he loves, and the girl has to choose to love her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't feel anything about the person who loves you, how can you want to make a choice, so if you choose the person you love, there will be a person who loves you who will be hurt, and if you choose someone who loves you, no one will be hurt.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Mom said that men have love, but women don't, and whoever is good to her is a woman, she will go with whomever she wants. I thought about it for a long time and found out that this sentence is true Whoever is good to a woman is good to her, she will go with whomever she goes.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you have to decide between the two, then you will choose the person who loves you, because choose the one you love, she doesn't love you, you will be very tired, even if it is right, you will not know why, just like why she lost her temper, inexplicably, just because there is no you in her heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Look at the age group!

    If I'm young, then the one I love! Then go for it!

    If it's me no longer small, there's no way, I'll choose someone who loves me!

    This is not absolute!

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