He said to think about it calmly for a few days, does it mean that he has given up?

Since he just said calm down for a few days, don't think too much, maybe you went too far at the time, explain it to him well, don't bother him too much, otherwise it will backfire.

People are like this, maybe it is him who breaks up with you in a fit of heart, and then comes to you, maybe you will also tell him to think about it. Maybe he's thinking about whether you're suitable or not, you said he should be calm, he will feel disgusted if you keep sending messages in the past, if you are really sincere, you can try to write your words into a letter and send it to him, a person is relatively calm when reading the letter. You can try

Although I am a woman, if my boyfriend proposes to break up, I will never give a second chance. And judging from his attitude, he is also determined to break up. You can wait quietly for a few days, and give up if you don't give up, the rift is already there, and the relationship is not as good as before.

Since he said he wanted to think about it, it means that he still has you in mind.

You want to let him know that you care about him.

Bless you all.

Love him so much. also lightly separated. I guess he's disappointed in you. Let him calm down. Wait for his decision. Respect. If he wants to give up. No matter how much you try to redeem it, it's useless.

If you love him, don't say anything about parting...Think more for him. Don't be willful!

ps..It's you again.

Maybe he's also thinking about it, emotional things are the hardest to say, and it's best to say.

Because only the two of you can understand, don't you???

If you're in love, I guess he's just scaring you!!

But think about it the other way, you want to break up in a fit of anger, are you going too far?

I advise you not to break up easily in the future, and I wish you happiness!!

It's hard to say, it's good that there is regret medicine in the world.

All kinds of reasons mean that you don't love him, and you don't like someone like that.

This does not mean giving up on you, first of all, you have to have confidence in yourself, and secondly, if he doesn't come to see you, can't you take the initiative to go to him?

Whoever made you lose his temper in front of his friends, the most important thing for a man is face (unless it is a bad seed) and your behavior does not take into account his feelings at all. Love needs the dedication of two people, otherwise it will not last long. And horoscope fortune-telling or something, I never believe it, I don't know what you think.

You're a man and you're your dog.

Why didn't you think about other people's feelings when you broke up? You have made a little mistake, no matter how much you have done to others, you have to ask others to drop everything to take care of you?

I'm angry when I see half of it... What did you take your boyfriend for? What else do you love him, always, forever in the morning and say that you will be together forever in the afternoon when you break up?

How about playing house?。。 Be all abroad... You better be decisive, to put it simply and directly, if you have such a mentality, you are not worthy of a man like him.

So it seems, you really want to just look at the two of you from your own point of view, you might as well try to look at your boyfriend's point of view, if you're a man, when your girlfriend proposes to get married, you can say yes right away, shouldn't as a man, think about your various situations in the future, this is a sign of his responsibility, you embarrass him in front of his friends, it's really hurtful for a mature man, he said that he wants to take you home and ask your parents for advice, of course, it also reflects his family-oriented character on the other hand, in general I can see that your boyfriend loves you very much, I just hope that you can be considerate of him, maybe try to take care of him, care for him, give him a warm feeling of home, and naturally he will automatically want to marry you! Come on! Bless you !

At this time, it's better to deal with it carefully, when I quarreled with my husband, he also said the same, said to calm down for a few days, asked me what to do if the answer was to break up, I fainted, I had a quick temper, I cried, he turned around and left, he didn't reply to my text messages for 10 days, took my **, ignored me. My classmate helped me intercede, and he told his classmate not to mention me, otherwise my friend wouldn't have done it. Too ruthless

I was speechless

Women are capricious creatures. I can't stand it. Your boyfriend may be hurt by you, and there is a high probability of a breakup. If you want to make amends, you have to make a lot of efforts to change yourself.

It's best to be mentally prepared, whether it's bad or good! He said calm down, let him calm down! But after calming down, you must solve the problem, don't procrastinate! You need to know how to understand and communicate with each other.

It's too long, and I'm not motivated to watch it anymore!

It doesn't matter what the gift is, the point is that you have to learn to be mature.

Zhi does not move.

Dao was emotional, and then regretted it, and after a long time, no man could bear it. He's a little bit of an outburst now, a man's coldness is more terrible than being angry, because being angry shows that he still cares, and being cold means that he doesn't care.

You must endure not to contact him for a few days, don't send text messages, and do what you should do. Give him a few days of freedom and see what he decides. Birthday gifts I still say, it doesn't matter, the heart of others is not in one or two gifts, but in the daily bits and pieces.

If he reconciles with you, you must change this habit of breaking up at every turn in the future.

As for the gift itself, a homemade greeting card will do. After he reconciles with you, ask him what he wants, and it's not too late to give him a more valuable one.

Well, anyway, I'm bai

So to speak. Du is basically going to mention the breakup, hehe, it's a rare thing for 2 people to be together, you should learn to cherish and be content, why don't you keep mentioning the word breakup 2, it's really hurtful, don't bother him to calm down, if he still thinks about your old love and good memories of the past, he should look back, bless you!

Actually, he takes you very seriously, and because of that, he's going to be very tired, and he's going to be the most man, and he's going to have a lot of things to deal with. If he breaks up every day, can he do anything else? So it's normal for him to have a lot of concerns

Let's talk to him. Mature!

It doesn't matter what you prepare, men don't like girls who put breakups on their lips It's good to pay attention to them later.

You're too bai

Immature, men are under a lot of pressure in this society. Even if you are good this time, your own version will be more mature in the future.

Do more empathy, don't use the breakup as a tool for jokes or quarrels, and always hang on the sidelines. I suggest that he don't buy any ready-made things for his birthday, that is not sincere, and if he is sincere, he will feel that you have changed for him, for example, you never go into the kitchen to learn to cook a few dishes, cook them for him on his birthday, or learn to knit a scarf or sweater, so that he thinks that you have really grown up and changed, so that he will not be angry with you.

"Calm down for a few days", This is a euphemistic expression of breaking up, he has already made a decision in his heart, and he is just thinking about how to say it, or hoping that the other party will understand, without saying it himself.

It's good to send it to him in person.

But.

Once a woman breaks up with a man, the man is very sensitive, and subconsciously thinks about how to face your boyfriend

looks like I can only say that he may have been able to face the moment of a breakup, if he talks about redemption. Let yourself not be so willful A man likes a woman who can support him, not a woman who is willful and says what is the man will feel that kind of woman will be very boring after a long time and will talk about it, so if you want to win him back, try to change yourself.

It's better to let everything go with the flow, don't force it.

Since you can't live without him, keep trying. Good luck ...

I also quarreled with my boyfriend for a few days a few days because of my temper tantrum. I'm doing some self-reflection these days. Because we feel so similar that I'll say something about my personal opinion.

I don't think you can often talk about a breakup, and if you say too much at first, it loses its own power, and it hurts the feelings of the two people very much. It's also easy to be self-defeating. So it is recommended not to use it next time.

I know that when we talk about breaking up, we are just scaring them so that they can coax us. But this really can't be used blindly. Avoid.

And since he calms you down for a few days, don't bother him. You just have to let him know that you love him a lot. Just say it once.

Then let him think for himself. Don't act like you're heartbroken, you can't do it without him. Talking too much will only make him hate you.

And even if you reconcile, you'll drop the price.

If I were you, I would definitely prepare a birthday present, and I would prove that I love his gift. A couple ring would also be nice if it could. If he calls you before his birthday, of course, he won't say anything after that.

If he doesn't call you, you must give him a gift on his birthday. It's the last chance for yourself. Say something, although you gave up on me, but I will wait for you to change your mind, I will always wait for you

A class of words. Don't talk too much. After that, go.

Definitely have character. It's okay to cry, but it's better not to cry out loud and hold back that. Showing great pain.

But respect his decision.

In this way, if he still loves you, he will definitely be able to catch you.

Good luck !!

If you reconcile with him, you must give me good news!

This is just a period of time for both parties to calm down and consider, after this period of time, it is possible to feel inappropriate and break up, but it is also possible to really see your feelings clearly and make love stronger!

There is a meaning in this regard.

What's the dissatisfaction, if Bai misunderstands the contradiction, it must be resolved in time.

It's easy to say anything if you're in love with each other.,dao.

If you are wishful thinking, I am afraid that it is useless to do anything. The key is that the two are happy and agreeable. Know yourself and know your opponent, and know what you want.

Falling in love is the process of understanding each other, when you don't get along well, there is no common language that is not suitable for each other, there is no need to force yourself, and continuing to maintain it can only be tiring and tiring yourself. Don't get too tangled.

I guess.

There are many ways to break up, and saying calm and calm is also one of them.

Probably he's played more dota in the past few days, and forgot about it.。。。

Wait a month, if there is no news, that's it, provided you don't contact him, if you always contact him, it may be longer.

You just wait, wait for him to contact you, if he hasn't contacted you for a month, then you go to him, don't tell him yet, if he likes someone else, then give up, maybe he's in a bad mood, and so on.

If you love him very much, you can try to fight for it, and the good for him will be reflected in life, and he will be inseparable from you (a couple of friends and lovers around me are like this).

I think we should give him a space to think independently, and I should care for him silently behind him.

Calm down for a few days, he must have someone out there or something?

Yes, this is a precursor to a breakup, in fact, it is also for you to consider a few days to buffer your emotions, otherwise if you break up all of a sudden, some girls will cry and shout, and the impact is not good, he said this, wait a few days before breaking up, and the average girl will also adapt to it, and she will not be so excited in the mood.

It doesn't have to be a breakup, however, there must be a crisis in the relationship, it is a test, if it is handled well, the relationship goes further, if it is not handled well, it may not be a very ideal result.

Feel the changes in the other person and see if anything is happening.