Emotional distress at the age of twenty two fell in love with a doctor teacher

Dear friend, sister! Seeing your long emotional narrative, I seem to be able to feel your heart that is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and your own opinions and reason!

With such an excellent, assertive, mature and beautiful student, it is no wonder that teachers are also attracted to it. --Male teachers can't all treat students like this! Your IQ is now dropping to zero!

I'm sorry, although I'm not a male doctor in my thirty-five or sixteen, but I'm also a girl, and I appreciate your sanity very much! You're doing it the right way. But you are also precocious, and you have even fallen in love with this teacher who is gentle and humorous and good to you.

The best relationship is that the person you like is also happy.

There is nothing worse in a bad relationship than if one's happiness is based on violating social morality. I believe that you do not want your happiness to be built on the pain of another woman. Your wife is innocent.

Do you want to marry another man like that? And, these are hypothetical. Suppose every married man says to another woman, I have no relationship with my wife, I am miserable, but I really love you.

Do you really believe it?

Moreover, you are so good, and you are already trying to suppress it!

As long as you suppress the development of this emotion and divert your attention from your studies, I believe that a brighter and better relationship and tomorrow will be waiting for you to catch up.

It's over, he just wants to relive the heartbeat of falling in love, you can't destroy other people's families! Also, you should have a good communication with him, to determine whether he can divorce and spend the rest of his life with you, his wife may be the wrong union with him! It's not impossible for you, divorce is common nowadays!

You should communicate well with him. I wish you happiness.

I feel like if you're really sure that you love him and you really want to be with him, then be honest with him. This is not a joke, he has children and a wife, if he goes underground and stiffens, it will not be good for his wife and children, and for you. So make it clear to him whether he just likes to have an affair with young people, or if he really likes you.

If you really like it, will you be willing to divorce your wife and marry you? If it's really impossible, let it go. Because a lot of things won't go your way.

You have to think about that is the most important thing. Love and prospects.

People can pursue what they like.

But only if you don't get too out of the crowd.

I feel. You have completely detached yourself from the normal track of life feelings.

Now you can try to put yourself in the shoes of a third party

Think about your question!

One wrong step in life!

Careful! Careful!

I'm about the same age as you, so I'm the same age.

I'm sorry, I'm not a male doctor, I'm a girl.

But I would like to say what I think.

His actions towards you are not just about the students.

You have to be sensible now, and since you know that you can't do it, then don't go on like this.

Otherwise, you'll be the only one who gets hurt in the end, unless you want to just have fun too, then you can start.

Generally speaking, a man will not give up his family and everything he has for a woman.

So, it's better to keep your distance from him.

People with serious father-love complexes!

You're doing the truth, ignore him.

Find another boyfriend!

First of all, I can understand you, understand your source for him.

Love. Because Bai is known for me, your love for him du is the most selfless, the most sincere, you are not willing to hurt his family, so your love can only be hidden behind the scenes, your love is the most unreciprocated, you are the weakest party in the marriage, because for a woman who will never belong to you, sincerely pay emotionally, physically, and willingly consume your precious youth, so you are the person who gives the most, hurts the most, uses the deepest affection, and is the most pitiful.

But, have you ever thought about your future? Usually 20-year-old men are fantasizing about beautiful love, some people are spoiled, some people understand, and some people are distressed, but usually women don't know this, even if they understand these, they are also some masters of playing with feelings, so they set their goals on older people.

However, do you know that this man who can give you warmth now can't give you a future, is it possible that you are 20 years old, and you will continue like this forever at a young age, and never want to have normal love? Since you also know that there will not be a good outcome, leave him! It's good for all of you.

If you love someone, love in the bottom of your heart, it's good to ......

I wish you happiness.

Absolutely impossible.

You'd better give up sooner.

Do you have a mother-love plot?

Khan: That's worship.

Unless you're not normal.

It's unrealistic, sober and sober, people are family people, don't disturb other people's lives.

Yes, it's good to be sober, after a long time, you will know that you don't like her, but gratitude or other emotions, you will have such an experience in adolescence, I hope you can slowly mature and deal with emotional matters! ～

Love is also white love, that is very rare.

When she is ten years old, fifty years old, will you still love her, so, leaving her is the best ending.

You are only twelve years old, the age is indeed too young, his words and deeds are for your good, in addition, you don't have to think too much, maybe he just sees that you are still a child and can't bear to say you directly, the throbbing of adolescence is inevitable, but don't dwell on this, you have more important things to do, you need to go through these things to grow up, now you just need to quietly hide these in your heart, and when you grow up and mature, you can experience feelings again, or go to him. Just not now.

My brother studies hard, works hard, and earns money in the future, and you can catch up with any kind of intern doctor you like.

That's the doctor's responsibility, let him try a different career.

Confess, okay, be brave, okay.

Little brat, that's your own passion, it's his duty to think too much, not to mention that you're still so young and studying!

Are you 12 years old? Wait until you're developing.

Now you are still in the budding period of youth, it is normal to have such a mentality, and when you meet other people who are gentle to you and have a relationship, you will also have this feeling, nothing, you can say it, no one laughs at you

Study hard and come to him as a doctor when you grow up.

You're only twelve, and he certainly didn't expect that. Wait until you grow up to fall in love.

Don't fall in love, it's not going to be successful.

There's nothing you can't think about, nothing matters except life and death. Don't think too much, what you want, can't get it, then let go and choose again, there are many people in the world, there will always be a more suitable one for you, don't feel bothered. Get out and walk more, get in touch with new things, get in touch with new people, and everything will be fine.

If you really can't think about it, then find a psychiatrist.

It is advisable to talk to a close friend or see a psychiatrist.

You may be lost.

To untie the bell, you must tie the bell, find the reason, let go of the past, and welcome the new day If you really have an idea, you can find a confidant and spit it out.

I hope it can help you.

I don't know what kind of emotional troubles you've encountered.

No matter how difficult and bitter you are. We all have to face the sun.

In fact, behind every sunny day, there will be different sadness.

It's just that they have always been strong themselves, and they can all endure it by themselves.

In everyone's life, there are wonderful and untold stories that no one knows.

If the performance is good, it is happy, and if the performance is not good, it is pain. So you have to put your mindset right. Don't think about it.

I remember that there is a lyric that sings, those who love cannot love, and those who gather must eventually disperse. Prosperity and backwardness become a dream.

I understand your mood very well, don't think too much, your own heart is too heavy, then you will live a very tired life.

As long as you face each day with a smile and think about it, it's not a big deal. That way you will be happy.

Finally, I wish you a happy and happy life.

If you have this idea, go and see it, otherwise the better it drags on, the worse it is, and forgetting it is also a good way to maintain mental balance. Forget your troubles, forget your sorrows, forget your bitterness, forget your frustrations, forget yesterday, forget yourself, forget the hurt of others, forget your friends' betrayal of you, and forget your fragile feelings. Forget the shame and shame you had'To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others....In this way, you can be optimistic and open-minded.

The road of life is tortuous and bumpy, and if you laugh at social additions such as honor and disgrace, wealth, poverty, slander, jealousy, and sourness, then you will be liberated and your mind will be balanced. Forget about people and things that are harmful and unhelpful, and maintain mental balance. Life is short, everything should be thought of, keep a psychological balance anytime and anywhere, keep a normal mind, do not be surprised by changes, smile often, walk away in a chic way, and you will live a happy life

This kind of affection is very unreliable. You should be still very young, this kind of relationship is not love. A friend of mine used to be too, and fell in love with her doctor.

Ten years older than her. And keep repeating that it's love. But that's just a good feeling.

As time goes on, even if there is any result. It wouldn't be too good either. Later, my friend really met true love.

Don't be impulsive, don't be blind. That he doesn't belong to you. You're still too young.

When I think about it when I grow up, I think it was very interesting.

Old man one!

If you want to stay alive and widowed in the future, you can continue to develop with him!

You can't just look at what is in front of you, this is the truth of life!

I'm having the same problem as you now, maybe it's not a problem for you anymore, he's more than twenty years older than me, but he looks very stable

Divert your attention, don't think about him, maybe this is because you are young and ignorant, you have to know that this is fruitless, and you can't destroy other people's families, and you can't find anything else, only put it down and figure it out, there is no good way, do things with a clear conscience, and you will find a better one in the future, maybe you have a good impression of him, don't do stupid things, you have to understand and be smart about this, don't pursue what you can't get. I won't be very happy when I get it.

If he is single, you can try it, if he gets married, you better put away that relationship.

Love, do you know what love is, it's just simple liking.

Admiration is not love to figure it out.

If you love, you will be brave enough to pursue it, but you will not regret it.

Put it down, it's possible that you're looking for security.

What's the matter, the other party doesn't necessarily like you.

The 20-year-old gap is too big, isn't it,。。

I'd like to ask you three questions:

One, have you ever liked other girls?

Second, have you ever had low self-esteem?

Third, in the process of connecting with her, have you ever retreated?

If the answer is all yes, I advise you to give up, why:

One, you want to love girls your age more.

Two, in your subconscious, you want to give your youth and love to an older woman, and you think that other young girls are not good to you.

I don't know if I'm right, but no matter how you decide, I have a saying: if you want to get married, it's best to spend some time together before making a decision, remember.

Tasteful, bold, but you're too impulsive.

Have you ever been in a relationship before?

You have to think about it.

Are you sure you're in love with your teacher?

I also love my teacher, but not in love, but in love.

Think twice about the consequences.

Admire you !!

But ask you if she likes you too.

If you're together, there's going to be a lot of pressure, and she's even more stressed about it!!

Brother, I think you have a mother-love plot Hehe, you'd better put your mentality right, now it's time for you to study hard, right, if you really can't do it, go to the psychiatrist to see it, it's not good, fall in love with a woman who is so much older The pressure in the later stage is quite large, and it's not something you can afford Brother, I suggest you better not The day before yesterday I read in the newspaper that an 18-year-old boy in England fell in love with a 56-year-old woman.

The boy told his parents, and his parents were quite shocked because the woman was older than the boy's mother, and in the end they didn't listen to the family's advice, and the boy and the woman went to live somewhere else, but they lived on the ** welfare every day, and they were stared at and ridiculed by their neighbors every day, you know, in a foreign country.

Do you think about it for yourself in our more feudal China, brother, think about it yourself.

Unless you have the ability to withstand the pressure of society, family, school, company, and most importantly, does she love you, is she married, willing to divorce you? Have you thought about any of this? Would you like people pointing fingers behind your back? Can afford to feed two people?

Can you ask if she likes you?

Do you really like her? With such a big age gap and a common language?

When you're 40 years old and she's 60, think about it and think twice.

There are some women I like, but I just want to do it, and I don't have love.

You can't get out of the way. Otherwise, it hurts yourself very much, and the thirty-six marks are the best. Think.