My boyfriend s family is a snob, what should I do?

After reading what you described, let's not talk about your relationship, I think this man listens to everything at home, and it will be hard for you to marry him in the future.

Don't say anything about realistic dreams, dreams are vulnerable in the face of reality, and reality is better. Living is not a house. Since you can have better conditions, why not try it?

Your current boyfriend's attitude is vague and not clear, so why should you be with him for the rest of your life? You're a girl with ideas.,If you really go on with him.,His family is closed.,You're sad.,There will be a series of problems in the future.。。。

Since you have a lot of ideas about your future work and want to rely on yourself, do you have any ideas about your own emotional life? What kind of life do you want to live? Is it just to live an unhappy life with "love"?

Let's not talk about whether love will deteriorate, let's not talk about the divorce rate is so high, you should consider whether it is worth it for him! If he encounters these practical problems, loves you unswervingly, and does not give up on you, that is, you and their family have problems after marriage, and I believe that he will defend you; He is like this now, and you will be wronged in the future, and when the time comes, it will be too late for you to regret it!!

Therefore, I advise you to think clearly, when you are young, you feel that love is the most important thing in life, and you are reluctant to give up, unwilling to give up, and when you are older, you will look back and regret that you did not polish your eyes at the beginning!!

I can't make a decision for you, the choice is yours, remember, make a decision that you won't regret! Think about it clearly, even if the work problem is solved now, his attitude towards you, and the family is so snobbish, do you have the courage to face your future? If you are not afraid of hardships in the future, and you will not feel unbalanced or regretful when you watch other girls live a sweet and happy life, then you can continue

My words are not very good, but I really hope you think clearly, women should love themselves, especially little girls, with bright eyes, marry different men, and live different second half of life!!

Finally, I wish you happiness!

In the current society is too much of this phenomenon, people have become very realistic, I am very glad that you out of the mud and not stained, love is love, do not want him anything, look at your current mood to know that you are concerned about your feelings, is reluctant, is contradictory. 6 years is not a small number, you can hold on for so long, it can be seen that you have put your heart into it. Someone said to me that love is not a task for one person, it needs to be run by two people, and it is not impossible to retain the taste of first love after many years, there are such examples around me, so I don't want you to give up easily, give him a chance.

Look at his thoughts and attitudes, if he still loves you so much, then you will resolutely be together, no matter what his family is, after all, you love him. I think it's right that you didn't accept the job assigned by your family, we are young, and that would cut our sharpness, so I think you are a qualified woman for the new era. If this relationship really can't be maintained, then don't be sad, women want to be independent, feelings are important, but that won't be the whole of life.

Don't be upset about the person you are introduced, ask yourself, do you still love him, if you love, then don't let yourself regret it, accept him; If you don't love it, then you can face your future life calmly, who can't do without whom? Remember: the person you love most in this life is not your lover, but your husband who has been with you all your life!

I hope you can be happy, and I will be happy to answer your questions)

Go with your feelings, did your boyfriend show up after he found out? The details of life determine the future of marriage

ps: The people in the eyes of power are the most greedy and cheap... Think for yourself what you can attack!

Don't want a man like this who has no assertive power, just be it, you yourself are so good, it's impossible to find a better one than him.

The main thing is the attitude of the boyfriend.

Then find someone who doesn't have power at home.

What's your boyfriend's attitude? I think that's the most important thing.

The power can't be discussed, at most the material point is the point, most of the men in Shanghai are like this, you have to be psychologically prepared to fall in love with a man in Shanghai.

If your boyfriend is a native Shanghainese, his parents are both Shanghainese, the family conditions are not bad, and you still want to marry into their family - I suggest that your family should be more generous. The dowry will be accompanied by a car of about 150,000 yuan and a full set of household appliances and a full set of furniture, I am more familiar with the situation in Shanghai, and the dowry price is reasonable. Take a local girl in Shanghai, and there is more to her mother's family than that.

It's normal for your boyfriend to hesitate, 2 reasons - 1 is that he is not financially independent, it is estimated that he has not worked for a few years, and he has no money, mainly relying on family subsidies, so the family's opinions must be listened to, 2 is a Shanghai man, if the family conditions are not bad, they are happy to marry a Shanghai girl, the reason I don't say you should also know, rarely marry a "hard drive". There must be some reason for marrying a girl from other places.

The few statements upstairs are all catering to your current indignation, but they don't help you in your affairs.

The only feasible way for you at the moment is what I said, and the other indignation, contempt, and non-purchase will be useless; In addition, you don't force your boyfriend (with my understanding of Shanghainese, in extreme cases, he will give up on you and will not turn his back on his parents), be submissive, please him, and let him not waver in his love for you; At the same time, I will find a way to do it, and my family will also think of a way, and the dowry will be richer.

What I'm saying is very practical and realistic, just complain, this is a material society, and the status quo is like this.

This kind of thing mainly depends on your boyfriend's attitude, if he loves you, he will try to make his family accept you, if he listens to his family and wants to break up with you, then there is no need to dwell on it...

Upstairs, I don't think it's appropriate, anyone who has a little love will not give up their parents, this lady, if you love him very much, if he doesn't marry, you can not get married for the time being, you use your own actions to prove that you can create wealth, so that the man's family impresses you, otherwise even if you get married, you will not receive preferential treatment from his family, and it is better to live a life without a good face all day than to be alone outside.

I hate this kind of person the most Getting married is like selling a son and a daughter I don't think about my children at all Since one party has good conditions, why can't you sacrifice a little bit What is the use of so much money I have a house It's very good to have a car to get around If your boyfriend really loves you, you must insist Don't separate for this inexplicable reason It's a big deal to come out and rent a house to live by yourself (unless you can't even solve your own life problems by yourself) Be resolute I believe that most parents don't have a reason to see their children suffering outside Someday they will understand you.