What should I do with my growing boyfriend?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that the affairs of two people should be solved by two people together! After all, you've been in a relationship for 6 years, do you think you can let it go? Then there is only patience Ziluo Isn't there such a sentence:

    The man you're giving you is an adobe house, and it's up to you how you want to decorate it. From your sentences, you can feel that he is very dependent on you, it should be your house in this life--- if you want to live in fine decoration, of course, you have to spend more energy! And what you said about QQ space, that's really his fault!

    Scold him well, shout out all the places where you feel wronged, and give him two punches if you don't understand your hatred! But I've cried, I've made trouble, and after the fight, don't chase the wind or scold Huai every once in a while!!

    Hope it works for you! Wish: Get married soon haha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, both of you are children, and the love of children should be simple, if you can't, then there will be no good results in the end.

    Love continues, wait until it doesn't work, let go, and then continue to find your own home, feelings are so simple.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sit down and have a good talk. Plan for the days ahead. Try to fight for happiness in the future instead of complaining about each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Have a serious talk with him, and agree that no one will lose their temper first. Here's my advice. Analyze your current situation, share your thoughts and concerns, and then work with him to think of solutions.

    According to what you said, he has no experience in life, so it will take a while for him to adapt well and integrate into this society. Judging from his coquettishness, emotionally, I don't think he can do without you, because there won't be a few boys who are coquettish to people who don't care. In addition, encourage him a lot, no matter when or what, this will make him full of self-confidence, because self-confidence is a very important thing for a man.

    I think I have some experience with this because I feel like I'm kind of like my girlfriend and he is with you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    。。First of all, don't underestimate others, and secondly, don't think highly of yourself.

    You're not a kid yourself, are you?

    What should he do? Don't worry, the road is out.

    The table gives itself an excuse to retreat.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let him understand his strengths and weaknesses, and list the advantages and disadvantages one by one, especially the part that is not mature enough, and must be drawn as the focus. Be sure to convince him, and if you admire it, it will be more powerful. At any time, no matter what the feelings, communication is a very important thing.

    You feel that some of the other person's actions are childish, and certain thoughts and words are childish.

    It may be a very normal thing in the eyes of the other party, if you don't communicate with the other party, how does the other party know that their problem is **, and how do you know that the other party will not make changes for this? And if you have communicated with the other party and made suggestions to the other party, but the other party does not take it seriously. At this time, if you want to break up, I don't think there is any problem, and a person who has always ignored your advice, then leaving him is also a good choice.

    There is no effective way to make a person grow overnight, some people say that a short period of time can make a person grow, but, I believe that such a method is not what you want. It is difficult and difficult to change a person, but through communication, understanding the needs of the other party, and telling the other party your needs, through continuous communication, to increase mutual understanding, in order to know whether it is suitable or not. After understanding each other, we will find out the common pursuits and goals of both parties, and then analyze the gap between them and their goals, and how to do it to achieve the results they want.

    If you want to find a man to marry, I hope he is your backbone, he is your support, sheltering you from the wind and rain, if this man will not mature in his life, and live a life, in addition to causing you trouble, if he is troublesome, it is also a very worrying thing. There are indeed such men in life, who will not grow up in their lifetime, if you are willing to marry such a man, then you have to be a strong woman, and some women also enjoy this look. Think about what kind of life you want and make a choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the two of you are going to get married, you have to think about whether his salary can support the family, how to solve the house for two people, how to solve the car, and how to solve the education of the children in the future?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think I should let my boyfriend know something. Because many things have to be experienced before they can mature. So let him understand that he can grow quickly by letting him go through such words.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you should snub your boyfriend for a while, or just communicate with two people and tell your boyfriend that if you keep being so naïve, you will break up with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Create a plot, make him sad, and if he is injured, he will grow, although the means are very cruel, but they are very useful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is better to let him go through something, because a person can only learn to grow independently after going through something.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Usually you must pay more attention to his actions, but he spends less money, goes out less to play, and stays at home to do housework.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    can let your boyfriend experience some setbacks, let him experience the beating of society, and let him grow and mature quickly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no way to do this, only after he has experienced some things himself, will his mind become mature.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you break up with him directly, it will make him grow faster, because the pain is very strong.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let him go through something alone, and if he goes through more things, he will grow.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't worry, take your time, I'm also 23 years old, naïve like a child, so I don't fall in love, I'm afraid of hurting others and myself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better to change yourself than to change others! He's such a person, he's getting better as he gets older, and if you love him, don't ask of him too much. After 40 years, he will realize this for himself.

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