Essay on Civilized Etiquette 15

Summarize it yourself. Overview of traditional Chinese etiquette: China is known as the "State of Etiquette", "etiquette" is everywhere in traditional society, travel is polite, sitting and lying are polite, banquets and drinks are polite, wedding and funeral are polite, birthday is polite, sacrifice is polite, war is polite and so on.

The "rites" here contain the spiritual principles of the traditional etiquette system and the traditional etiquette behavior, etiquette is the spiritual core of the etiquette system, and the etiquette system is the external manifestation of the spirit of etiquette and righteousness, and the two are closely related.

Specific etiquette: the etiquette of walking - in the process of walking, the same attention is paid to the handling of interpersonal relationships, so there is a walking etiquette. In the traditional walking etiquette, there is also the principle of "walking in the middle of the road, standing in the middle of the door", that is, you should not walk in the middle of the road, you should walk on the side; Do not stand in the middle of the door while standing.

This not only shows respect to His Holiness, but also avoids pedestrians.

The gift of meeting - people should meet each other every day with a warm attitude and be polite. There are certain rules for how to meet people of different identities. For example, a general greeting is traditionally a bowing salute.

The bow of the hand is the most common meeting etiquette, the way is to hug the hands together (usually the right hand is clenched into a fist, the left hand is added to the right hand) to the chest, standing without bowing, indicating a general courtesy.

The ritual of entering the seat - the traditional social etiquette is orderly, and the seat is also divided into primary and secondary, the venerable sits up, and the lowly sits last. If you blindly sit in the wrong seat, not only will the owner be unhappy, but you will regret the rude afterwards. If you can't decide which seats to sit in, the best thing to do is to follow the host's arrangement.

The Ritual of Eating - Food etiquette occupies a very important position in Chinese culture, in the pre-Qin people, people used to "kiss guests from all over the world with the gift of feasting on swallows", and the dinner and drinking of future generations are often a scene of etiquette.

Greetings and condolences - China has been a humane society since ancient times, people care for each other and sympathize with each other, and there are many rituals and customs in the worship and celebration. Greetings are generally performed during festivals, where juniors or people of lower status pay homage to their elders, and there are also mutual greetings among peers. Such as the ancient New Year's Day ** pilgrimage, the folk New Year's greetings.

When bowing and congratulating, not only should the attitude be respectful, the congratulatory message should be recited, and the bow should be bowed, but also the congratulatory gift should be offered. The gift of celebration is mainly carried out in life events. A person's life has to go through several stages such as birth, adulthood, marriage, birthday, death, etc., and a series of life etiquette has been formed around these life nodes.

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Etiquette, as a culture gradually formed and accumulated in the development of human history, has always governed everyone's behavior with a certain spiritual binding force, and is an important way to adapt to the development of the times and promote personal progress and success. In today's society, civility and etiquette seem to have become a big problem.

The students' exits are "dirty", the "Bingbing" of the people who ask for directions, the garbage on the roads, the scramble on the buses, and so on, all tell the story of what we have lost. The ancients said well: jade is not cut, it is not a tool, people do not learn, and they do not know righteousness.

As a son of man, when Fang was young, he was a teacher and friend, and practiced etiquette.

A little story in ancient times: Kong Rong let the pear, which tells us the importance of etiquette.

Kong Rong, a native of Lu, was a famous literary scholar in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and one of the seven sons of Jian'an, and his literary creations were highly respected by Emperor Cao Pi of Wei. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very smart when he was young, but also a typical example of attaching importance to brotherly gifts and mutual assistance and friendship. When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother.

Each time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small ones and not the big ones?"

Kong Rong said: "I am the younger brother, the youngest, I should eat the small one, and let the big one be eaten by my brother!" At a young age, Kong Rong understood the principles of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family.

Since then, the story of Kong Rong Rang Pear has been passed down for thousands of years and has become a model of unity and friendship. Another story, Chengmen Lixue, tells us the importance of respecting teachers.

According to legend, one day Yang Shi and You Xing came to Songyang Academy to meet Cheng Yi, but they met Mr. Cheng who closed his eyes and sat and fell asleep. At this time, it started to snow outside. The two of them were eager to seek a teacher, so they stood aside respectfully, without saying a word, and waited for most of the day before Cheng Yi slowly opened his eyes, and saw Yang Shi and You Xing standing in front of him, he was taken aback, and said

Ahh Are the two of them still here? At this time, the snow outside the door had accumulated more than a foot thick, and Yang Shi and You Xing did not have a trace of tiredness and impatience.

This story, called "Chengmen Lixue", was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, people often used the idiom of "Chengmen Lixue" to express the respect for scholars and the sincerity of their studies.

Civilization is everywhere in our lives, even if it's a gesture, a word. Helping others is a virtue and a civilized act. It can show a person's moral cultivation and can enhance friendship between people.

There are countless stories like this that tell civilized and polite stories!

How many smiles and happiness can a small act of civilization bring us! If everyone spoke of civilization, how harmonious and happy our society would be!

Civilization accompanies me.

Teachers often teach us the importance of civility and etiquette, and tell us stories. I will have feelings and questions in every story: Why are smart people who are selected to go abroad not talk about civilization when they go abroad?

Why do foreigners point fingers and talk about our Chinese behavior every time those people go abroad?

Just because we don't talk about civilization. Every move we make will attract the attention of others. The teacher told us a story:

A certain school in Sichuan took students to the United States for friendly exchange activities, and the United States arranged for them to stay in a high-end hotel. At night, they scurry down the hallways in their pajamas, still making loud noises. The people who stayed in the same hotel were very dissatisfied.

What's more, a boy even pressed the fire alarm button on the wall at random, and the alarm sounded. The startled people in the hotel ran out, causing chaos all of a sudden. Only later did I learn that it was an emptiness.

Through the video, the hotel found out that it was done by Chinese children. The hotel could not bear it anymore and drove the entire delegation out of the hotel, which made the Chinese delegates extremely embarrassed. This not only disgraces the face of their school, but also the face of Chinese students and the face of Chinese.

There are uncivilized phenomena everywhere around us: littering, spitting, vandalism, running red lights, making loud noises in public places, using mobile phones or indifferent when watching performances, etc., resulting in the overall low quality of the people.

Therefore, we must understand the close relationship between civilized behavior and the image of the country, and realize the close relationship between civilized citizens and modern China. From now on, start from yourself, develop a good habit of behavior, improve the quality of civilization of our generation, and let civilization always accompany us.

Civilization should be an instinct on our part.

In this era, what is lacking is not money, not high technology, not economic construction, but civilization.

Civilization has become a compulsory course for everyone. Civilization, the word is strange and familiar. What is familiar is that everyone will talk about it, and what is strange is that no one has really done it.

Nowadays, civilization is not something to be done deliberately, but an instinct like eating and sleeping. If everyone can do this, the society and who and the good are just around the corner.

I don't remember which book I saw a cartoon by Hua Juwu, which made a deep impact on me. The cartoon depicts a scene in a train station, and a special platform is set up for parents of embalmed children, and the sign on the platform reads, "Women with children get on the train." Strangely, not a single child and mother and daughter were visible, but a group of strong men were standing.

They stood there one by one with peace of mind, and a mother and son not far away were still looking for the "women's platform" with blank faces. Ho, ironically, are they women? Or illiterate?

No, it's civilized illiteracy that is not even as illiterate. They don't know what civilization is. Not only that, but there are too many people like the people in the comics to be uncivilized.

A middle-aged man who lives downstairs in my house can also contribute, he looks ordinary, and he forgets his appearance at a glance, and others say that he is illiterate. Standing in the lawn of the square, "Please don't trample on the grass" He passed by casually, banana peels were thrown all over the ground, it was no wonder that he didn't know how to read, once, I saw him walking, and in the distance it was written, "Please take a detour, the pressure is dangerous." When he got there, he was startled and hurriedly walked around the road.

Now I know that he is not illiterate, but civilized.

In Chinese society, the leaders are holding high the banner one by one and shouting empty slogans: "We must be civilized." Our "practical actions" prove that this is useless.

As members of the Communist Youth League of China, we must not only stress civilization ourselves, but also urge our family members and friends to be civilized. Contribute to China's leggings. That's what we're really going to do.