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Through the above multifaceted analysis, we believe that whether or not a lie serves a good purpose, being a lie is bound to hinder integrity.
A lie is a lie, a lie is a lie, and even though your starting point is a white lie, it is actually deceptive. Therefore, we must advocate sincerity and stay away from lies, a person who does not keep his word, again and again, will inevitably cause suspicion and dissatisfaction.
What is the essential difference between a white lie and a "malicious" lie, since they are both "lies"? A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word. If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.
Just like that child, he shouts "the wolf is coming" every day to seek **happiness, and when the wolf really comes, he only has one person to face it independently, to bear it himself, no matter how much he shouts, it will not help, and no one will come to help him again. Because, the people who may have come to help him have become accustomed to his shouting, thinking that he is "teasing you" again, it can be seen that lies hinder integrity.
A long time ago, a philosopher in the West once said: There are only two things in this world that can cause people to move deeply: one is the brilliant starry sky above our heads, and the other is the lofty moral code in our hearts integrity.
Obviously, there is nothing more beautiful and innocent than the beauty of the heart, and integrity is precisely one of the manifestations of inner beauty.
A long time ago, a philosopher in the West once said: There are only two things in this world that can cause people to move deeply: one is the brilliant starry sky above our heads, and the other is the lofty moral code in our hearts integrity.
Obviously, there is nothing more beautiful and innocent than the beauty of the heart, and integrity is precisely one of the manifestations of inner beauty.
When a person loses his integrity, is his starting point still good?
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A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, telling falsehoods, exaggerating, covering up, and distorting the truth. Let's start with the structure of the white lie word answer group: it is a partial phrase, and the central word is a lie, so a white lie is essentially a lie.
Although the motive of the white lie is good faith, it is an indisputable fact that it is repeatedly used by some professional ** because of some uncertainty in the good faith itself. The lie itself is dark, the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of the thing, the white lie itself is a lie, and a lie means deception. Therefore, it hinders integrity.
The white lie has a good starting point. But often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper.
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Opponent: Please note that there are big omissions in your defense, and we believe that a white lie is a lie in itself, and good faith is only a decoration of a "lie".
Starting from the analysis of the word structure of a white lie, it is a partial phrase, and the central word is a lie, so a white lie is essentially a lie. Although the motive of a white lie is good intentions, because there is a certain degree of uncertainty in the good intentions themselves, the "lies" themselves are dark, the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things, and the white lies themselves are falsehoods. Although he has shed his beggar clothes and put on a cheongsam, he still cannot get rid of the essence of his lie, and a lie means deception, and thus hinders integrity.
The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the harm to the other party will be deeper, and as a lie itself, it is already an act contrary to integrity.
White lies are more of an excuse! And because there is a certain uncertainty in itself, when the lie is exposed and the deceived person knows the truth, the harm will be much deeper than if the truth was told in the first place! And the person who tells a white lie thinks that the lie is good, and he is at ease, so if there is a first time, there is likely to be a second time, which is a lie after all, and once a person gets used to it, who can know whether the next lie will be good or malicious?
A lie is a lie, and even if it is accompanied by good intentions, it is self-deception, and therefore, we firmly believe that whether a lie is of a good purpose or not, being a lie is bound to hinder good faith. As a lie in itself, it is already an act contrary to integrity, so whether or not the lie is in good intentions, being a lie itself will inevitably hinder integrity.
Mark Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth." It will make your opponents feel embarrassed and your friends feel relieved. Therefore, the opinion of psychology experts is: do not lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
To distinguish things, we should first start with the definition, and according to the definition of the Kangxi dictionary, a white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and falsehoods, and exaggerating, covering up, and distorting the truth. In the 20-word moral code proposed in the "Outline for the Implementation of Civic Moral Construction" published by the Communist Party of China"Integrity"It is a very important norm, and integrity is to seek"Really"is the pursuit of justice. The ancients said"The real one", sincerely.
If you are not sincere, you can't move people.
Although the motive of a white lie is good, it is like a benign malignant tumor in a human disease, no matter how different the results of the disease are, it is a disease, which is harmful to human health, and the same is true of a white lie, although it can be accepted by people emotionally, and even a white lie has a good original intention, but it is still a substantive act that violates good faith, that is, lying, so no matter what the purpose and result of a white lie is, it violates the principle of good faith, which is an indisputable fact.
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A transport plane encountered a sandstorm in the desert and made a forced landing, but the plane was so badly damaged that it could not resume take-off, its communications equipment was damaged, and communication with the outside world was cut off. Nine passengers and one driver were in despair. The instinct to survive has them fighting for their limited supply of dry food and water.
At the critical moment, a passenger who was on a temporary plane stood up and said, "Don't panic, everyone, I am an aircraft designer, as long as everyone works together and listens to my command, the plane can be repaired." "It's like a shot in the arm that stabilizes everyone's mood, and they consciously save water and dry food; Everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the difficulties of the wind and sand.
More than ten days have passed, and the plane has not been repaired; But a caravan of merchants traveling to and from the desert passed by and rescued them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an aircraft designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes. After someone knew the truth, they scolded him for being a ** and angrily scolded him:
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Positive: Attention to the opposing debater, on what basis do you think that a white lie is not advisable? It may be a lie, but it's good for others.
It's a lie, but it's an emotion in the human heart. People have a heart that hurts and hurts, why do you have to deny it? Let him have no meaning in existing, and casually I feel that white lies are sometimes desirable and wise. **
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