Is there a friendship between a boy and a girl that goes beyond love?

Yes. Don't disbelieve, and don't listen to what others say. There is really pure friendship between boys and girls.

It's just that some people haven't experienced it. True friendship between men and women is rare, so it is extremely precious. The less something is, the more valuable it is, the more people want to get it, so some people try to find it, but in fact, this kind of thing is hard to find, and it is useless to be in a hurry.

Some people say, don't talk so mysteriously, I have a lot of good friends of the opposite sex. It's not hard to have a friend of the opposite sex, the question is whether there is an innocent friendship between you? The word innocence is very important, what is the friendship of innocence?

That is, there is no love, no love, no sex between the opposite sex, like buddies, friendly exchanges, friendly interactions, no color and no profit. Can you do it? True friendship between the opposite sex is a special relationship between men and women, this relationship is a neutral relationship, which requires both men and women to deviate from their original gender and find a balance point, which is the core of pure friendship.

The reason why true friendship between men and women is scarce is because the survival rate of pure friendship is very low, not that you don't want it to live, but that it has a very small living space and is not suitable for its growth, and its life cycle is also very short, this flower is beautiful, but it does not bloom for long. We can't live in a vacuum, when we have love, have a home, at this time we still want to maintain a relationship with the opposite sex, even if it is an innocent friendship, it is very difficult, in the members of love and family, as long as one party raises doubts, any friendship can not go on, you can not give up love and home for the sake of friendship, familiar and familiar, you will measure. People have a selfish side, so not everyone is open-minded, especially within the territory of love and home, everyone is alert, afraid of harassment by others, exclusivity between the same sex, is objective, is a kind of human nature, you can't change, people can't survive if they don't protect themselves, and people's excessive defense sometimes loses good things.

The true friendship between men and women is to have an accurate grasp of each other's relationship, that is, both parties appreciate each other and like each other, but there is no distraction. As long as one party has a different understanding and has other purposes, then the true friendship between men and women will be questioned. Do men and women need true friendship?

Of course it is, this kind of friendship is beautiful, why should we refuse it, this kind of friendship should be generous, above board, there is no need to dodge, it should be carried out in the sun. The true friendship between men and women should be a noble relationship between men and women, we may not meet in our lifetime, once encountered, even if it is very short, we should cherish it, remember, we should not bring love and love into it, let the innocence become fake, let the friendship not pure, and there is no existence.

Of course, there are times when it is better to be friends than lovers, and when you both recognize it, it is called friendship beyond love

It's not easy to have, the relationship between men and women is very delicate, sometimes you can't tell what kind of love it is, and slowly it is almost all love hope that is recognized.

No, love and friendship can't be compared.

Are friendships between boys really stronger than friendships between girls? What is the reason for this? Friendship does not distinguish between men and women, and it just so happens that I watched Douyin today and saw a teacher talking about friendship; Friendship is pure, without any impurities, it is a spiritual fit, and it has nothing to do with men and women.

It's just that the gender of that person is the difference between male and female, which is inherently unchangeable. Let's talk about a friend of mine, starting from junior high school classmates, to high school classmates, separated from college, and after graduation, he worked in a city, rented the same room and slept in the same bed, it can be said that he has nothing to talk about, and he can also bask in the sun together for an afternoon without talking and feel embarrassed, but he committed suicide by drinking medicine before the New Year in Kaizao. So now, more than a year later, I still feel like I'm missing something in my life.

There are a few female friends, but not to the extent above. But it's a little deeper than some of my male friends, just high school classmates, but I feel more fun, and I can talk, and then after a long time, I slowly became familiar with it until now, I don't have any idea about them, but they always want me to have a dinner so they don't say that the man is longer or anything, it's just a male friendship, you don't know if you're not in that circle, just like me and my male friend, in addition to my parents and both sides know each other, they often play staring at the nuclear pretend, Even the former classmates didn't know that we had such a good relationship, and we wouldn't say anything about showing off in the circle of friends.

Maybe female friends are more frequent about showing girlfriends, and you can learn about it through various channels. Friendship has nothing to do with gender, friendship is the adaptation of the soul in the body. First of all, friendship is pure and free of any impurities.

So the friendship between boys is the same as the friendship between girls. Secondly, maybe the friendship between boys will not be so obvious, and they will not send a circle of friends to announce the beginning of the friendship, nor will they send a circle of friends to announce the end. So the external perception is not so obvious.

I thought it would, because boys aren't particularly calculating, so there won't be so many conflicts. Because the boy's personality is better, and he is not so stingy, he is more cheerful and wild when he gets along with girls.

Friendships between men are often without too much suspicion and jealousy, and men in distress are also broad-minded and bold. But friendship doesn't necessarily make a ruler more solid than a woman.

Of course it is, because the boys are not mixed with some interests or careful relationships, and they usually treat each other as buddies.

Yes. It's just that when I go to school, the two people sit next to each other, often ask each other questions, go to the commissary to buy snacks, and then sit together and chat.

This friendship was also maintained after graduation, and the two men still occasionally talked to each other and shared their lives with each other.

But if one party is in love, the other party will only express their blessings, and then ask how the two of them met and got together.

After that, the two people will tacitly reduce contact, and this friendship has not faded, but everyone knows that at this time, it is love that is put in the center.

This kind of friendship between people of the opposite sex is the mode of getting along with most people, rather than seeing each other fall in love, and contacting each other more frequently in the name of caring for each other.

Behind some friendships, one person has no idea and the other person is silent. The person who kept silent held the idea of "since you can't be a lover, then be a friend by each other's side" and never showed his heart.

With the premise of "liking each other", you will be more attentive than other friends, remember that she likes matcha-flavored cakes, and wish her a happy birthday at zero o'clock on time.

The other party will feel very moved, thinking that it is because you have known each other for a long time, so you know her so well and know what she likes.

In fact, only you know that those who care about her in the name of friends are the likes you have never spoken.

Good morning: true friendship exists. But boys and girls generally don't have a real friendship, and maybe you think that you have a good relationship with someone of the opposite sex and talk about everything.

But you have to understand that there are differences between boys and girls after all, in the same-sex relationship you may also find that it is difficult to have a real friendship, let alone a relationship with the opposite sex, there should be no exceptions, no matter how similar you are to the opposite sex, how compatible you are, you will always be a person of different sex from yourself in their hearts, because of this difference, there are many barriers in the relationship, many obstacles, maybe you are sincere to them, you may not feel estranged, but they will not think so; Boys and girls are different in thinking, behavior, moral standards, and how they treat and deal with problems, and it is not something that can be changed by one person, it is natural instinct, so these differences will not make boys and girls always stand on the same side.

n has a simple and beautiful relationship with the opposite sex, and if you can't represent the other party, it must be your friend.

The definition of n friend is very deep, and there are few people who can be true friends. Even if there is really friendship between men and women in this world, don't be too close to the opposite sex casually, you will see that some people of the opposite sex are not stupid hail is a relationship between men and women, but the same as confidants in a same-sex relationship, in fact, there will be no real friendship between them, but a kind of friendship emotion, there will be no simple friendship, the so-called opposites attract, only their own hearts will know the obstacles and barriers in their opposite-sex relationships, it is a contradictory relationship.

Of course, you have to be careful, I also have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and I think it is very likely that there will be a so-called transcendent friendship between men and women. You better think about how high your friends of the opposite sex have risen to a high level in your heart.

Boys make jokes between men and women on girls, and girls generally don't care too much about this, so you don't have to think about it, but girls make this kind of joke with boys, and boys will care a lot about it (you say you don't take it to heart, in fact, you have been affected). So if your friend of the opposite sex often makes such jokes with you, you have to be careful and find a time to talk to her.

If you only think about it from the aspect of friendship, you won't think of this to ask questions, there are a lot of confidantes like this, it seems that you have to reflect on it, see if you have that tendency...

Also, friends of the opposite sex are always friends of the opposite sex, calm down, and "I am a man, she is a woman" will always come to your mind, and you will also care more about him, which is normal.

In short, if you can't solve it for a while, don't think about it, time will tell, and when you have someone you really like, I think your way of making friends will no longer be a burden on you.