There are three things in life that make you hate, frustrate, and helpless

When you are poor, no one asks, your efforts are fruitless, and you come when you come out.

Incompetence, inability to see the future, inability to find direction.

There will always be something frustrating in life, but we have a choice. We can allow these things to control our emotions and we can also choose positive ways to make ourselves happy. In my ordinary life, the following are some of my personal experiences to share, hoping to give you some inspiration and help.

1.Embrace your hobbies: Having a sport or activity that embraces your hobbies can help us soothe our emotions and bring ourselves out.

Finding something that we are truly passionate about makes us realize that there will still be fun in life. For example, photography, drawing, games, basketball, jumping, and so on.

2.Maintain exercise and a healthy lifestyle: Exercise is a great way to release stress and feed your body.

In the busy work, it is necessary to maintain good physical fitness. Proper exercise can enhance physical fitness, help us relieve tension and stress, improve immunity and mental adaptability, and make ourselves happier.

3.Look for hope and optimism: Don't focus on failures and negative things.

Always remember the positive and good things in life, be grateful and appreciate all that we already have. Believe in your future and life, look for hope and optimism, and make yourself happy.

4.Discover the newness: Try out new restaurants, new routes, new cultural activities, etc., or learn a new skill or language, break out of your comfort zone, and adventurous activities can bring us joy and nourishment.

5.Pursuit of balance: The importance of work-life balance no longer needs to be said, proper rest, maintaining objective evaluation, freeing up time for play, etc. are things that everyone has to do.

In the midst of a busy life, stopping every now and then and enjoying a moment will bring us joy and grace in life.

Summary: An ordinary life does not mean unhappiness. As long as we are willing to look for rough rent and relaxation, live in the moment and love life, life will become better and more fun. Hopefully, these experiences will inspire you and help you bring out joy in your ordinary life.

Turning to the past**, I suddenly felt that the girl in ** was so strange, she looked so sunny, lively, cheerful, and smiling like an angel. It's really not like me at all. Okay, okay, I hope that your and my mourning will always be a momentary thing, and it's good to mourn.

We have tomorrow. ‍‍

I don't know if you have taken a nap and slept until the night, get up, look at the room is dark, the window is dark, rub your hazy sleepy eyes Look at the phone screen, find that no one has found that you have slept for so long, put your head in the quilt, feel lonely and lonely, a little hungry, and very annoying, and feel that negative energy is overflowing. Low self-esteem, feel that no one likes you, no one pays attention to you, no one seems to remember you, cares about you, and does everything by yourself, and then you are very sad. ‍‍

I watched the whole class talk and laugh, and I didn't know what to do when I sat alone in my seat. At this time, I felt that I was an outsider, and I was very frustrated. ‍‍

Late at night, I suddenly recalled that I had studied from elementary school to the present, my studies were average, I didn't have any special skills, and I didn't have many friends and didn't often contact them, and I didn't have them inside and outside. I didn't become an excellent person, I often worry about the trivial things in life, and I don't have the perseverance to make changes, I always make up my mind tonight but I will give up tomorrow because of various things, so I can't sleep, and the more I listen to the pure **, the more sad I feel, and I feel that my heart is beginning to become more and more calm, and I am beginning to sink....‍‍

Today when I went to work and crowded the subway. Suddenly realized that he would have an ordinary life, squeezed the subway to and from work every day with sardines, ran desperately to the company in high heels in order not to be late, bought ordinary brand clothes and bags with no more or no less salary, rented a lot of expensive but actually a house shared by five people, entertainment life is just to watch movies or play games in the circle of friends, friends who have not been in touch for a long time have slowly become indifferent, want to change the status quo and learn something but can't do it, just like that, every day is ordinary and meaningless to consume life, and suddenly feel very depressed.

The car home departed, and I chased after it for 200 meters, but was finally left behind.

Every time I go home for the Chinese New Year and party with my classmates, I can't play with others, and I feel very depressed.

A few days ago, I ran a taxi and pulled two little girls at the gate of the university. The two sat in the back row, chatting and chatting, saying that this exam is so difficult, after the exam is ready to go to ** play, next year to prepare for the ** graduate school, the library really met a boy to talk, the university is not in love so miserable, want to study abroad and settle down, take a look at foreign customs, nothing to go to the Australian beach vacation, the two of them are enthusiastic to depict the blueprint of the future, lifelike, brilliant. Suddenly, a little girl seemed to realize that she was ignoring me, and asked embarrassedly

Master, what is your ideal? I looked at the night of the city, was silent for a while, and said: There is a future with infinite possibilities like you. ‍‍

What frustrated you when you hear something? As soon as the handsome guy opened his mouth, he knew that he was a warm man.

Yes. On a certain weekend, you just want to take a nap, but you wake up at seven or eight o'clock in the evening, and the room is dark, and you know that the good day is over, but at this time you don't know whether to continue to sleep groggyly or continue to face a mobile phone without a single unread message. There were also alarms set twice, leftover midday meals in the fridge, and clothes stacked in the washing machine.

Nothing happens, nothing changes, and yet suddenly you feel a little frustrated at this moment. ‍‍

Persevere, never give up, no matter what the result is, whether you achieve your goal or not, it will always be much better than the result you gave up. On the road of life, not everyone can always persevere, and those who are now ahead of you may be accidentally knocked down by something one day. And the one who can persevere is the final winner.

A success or failure does not mean anything, the college entrance examination, the famous school is not as important as you think, the important thing is whether you can persist in working hard and sticking to the pace of progress.

One and two books are the objects of the teachers' competition, but for the students, it is meaningless. If you go to a prestigious school but it is an unpopular or you don't like the major, the teacher will celebrate, but it is a bad thing for you.

Well, there's no denying that you're a good student.

Having good grades seems essential to you, but you are wrong.

There is something more important than grades, and that is mentality.

You are now in a vicious circle of mindset.

You need to learn to empathize and plan for the long term, for example, if you feel that your grades are not satisfactory now, and you are worried that you will not be able to get into university in the future.

Have you ever thought about what to do after you are admitted to university, what kind of university is more in line with your ideals, what kind of job is more suitable for your academic qualifications after graduating from university, then you have studied well, and whether you have the ability to do a good job.

Now there is no shortage of educated, only capable.

Another way of thinking, for example, if you feel that you can't keep up with your studies now, then you can go home and find a job, whether you are satisfied or not, at least you get a chance to practice, society is a melting pot, a big dye vat, I believe you can slowly change yourself.

When one day you find that your ability is insufficient and your knowledge is not enough, but you have the mentality of actively going in and studying hard, I believe that you can also learn what you need in addition to work.

Don't take academic qualifications too seriously, in today's society, academic qualifications are easy to get, and the most important thing is ability.

Don't you have the university of your dreams?

In fact, it's good to treat it normally! You do your best, you have a clear conscience, and you are worthy of your parents and teachers. As for motivation, you can find what interests you! There are many ways in life, and learning is just the foundation.

If you feel that you have no problem with your IQ, then finish your homework honestly, and it is impossible to fail the exam.

First of all, you should find the problem, see if you have the wrong problem, and then prescribe the right medicine, create motivation if you have no motivation, do how to do it, don't put pressure on yourself, and put your mind at ease, don't think about what you don't have, relax when you should relax, and pay attention to the combination of work and rest. Come on!

You have to work now in order to have the ability to protect the people you want to protect in the future.

You can think about you after graduation, a hard year in exchange for a good life in the future, in fact, don't think about what the study is for, just study hard now, don't give up, you must persevere to the end, everyone is working hard with you!

If your mind is not firm enough, you should consider thinking about letting yourself be ruined!Put pressure on yourself.

The two of us are the same, even the results are the same, I recommend you a few movies, listen to the touches, 1 "The Shawshank Redemption", 2 "Truman's World", 3 "Waiting Alone", they are all good inspirational films, I must have feelings after watching them, and there is one, I haven't seen it and said it's good, "Forrest Gump". To send you a message, "Nothing is better than life." ”

Your problem now is that you are too self-respecting, you are too nervous, you put yourself in a very high position, many problems become more and more chaotic the more you think about it, the more you think about it, the more annoying it becomes, on the contrary, you should go to exercise well, play ball, relax wholeheartedly, and get back to a good sleep as soon as possible. Reasonable allocation of study and exercise time can achieve your goals.