Should I choose a realistic life? 5

Now, who doesn't have to face such a problem. The ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny. It's still young, let time take its place to verify otherwise Only time can prove.

Looking at your text, I suddenly feel glad you have such a dad.

But seeing what you write about him makes me feel that it's not worth it for you to bother him like this.

Suddenly it feels like you've been working hard to maintain your relationship, and he's like a sideman.

Maybe now you love him very much, and you don't know what to do, and listen to you tell me about his situation, and I feel sorry for you as a woman.

A junior who doesn't have ideals and plays all day long is now thinking that you are trembling, how will you live in the future?

You put it very well: "Actually, I really think that sometimes it's not people who become realistic, it's just that living in this society has to be realistic." Even if it becomes realistic, it is because the person he loves can't give her what she wants If a person thinks that as long as there is food to eat, then what is the point of life".

So in fact, you already have the answer in your own heart, but you can't bear it now.

But you know, right now, he's just a student, and you've been working for so many years, and you think about it.

I want every couple to be married, but I want to advise you to give up on him.

Listening to you, I feel that he doesn't care much about you, just like you say, and he is not very motivated, and he can't give you what you want, maybe reality is your best choice.

I haven't finished reading your story I'm sorry to be honest I don't think you're suitable It's not good to just look at the experience If you have been to college, you should know that today's college students are very slim about the future Whether they are motivated or not They are blank about what they want to do in the future I don't want to hypocritically say that you have to choose sincere love I just want to tell you Sometimes it's not that this person is not motivated or has no future It's just that when you meet the wrong hehe, I want to open up a little As long as I am happy.

Let's talk about it, no matter what the outcome, talk about it, understand each other's ideas, and if he still plays games, then don't care, you can bear to give up on him, because you're not as good as his game, you're a junior, and there's no more pressure, it's not small.

In fact, sometimes it's not human reality, but life has to let you face the reality, sometimes I have to say that the old man will see the long-term longer than himself, after all, he has lived for decades longer than us, and his parents will not want to see their hard-working children suffer, you love him very much, but what about him? There are still a long days to come, and you have to face not only yourself, but also children in the future, the elderly are old, and they also need your care, can he accompany you to do all this? I am also a person who has a daughter now, when I see the cute appearance of the baby, I really want to give her the whole world, but when you want to give her the best things, you may find that you don't care about money for true love, and now the baby wants to buy a favorite book or a favorite toy when the money in the pocket is not enough, or enough but you have to take into account the cost of living and have to grieve her, do you think such a day is what you are willing to live?

If you don't mind, just check it out!

In fact, the reality is like this, women sometimes think, as long as their men are self-motivated, love themselves more, but often go and can't get what they want Because of what? Because men think differently than we think about them, they only have two kinds, one good and one bad, and their thoughts don't change because you love him, so you still have to think about it

There are also girls who go to work and look for boys who are studying, it's really not very good, there is no future Women are easy to get old, how many years can you wait for him.

What your dad said to you is what we want to say to you. And I would like to add that he doesn't love you very much. And your personalities are very difficult to match, neither close nor complementary.

You have said so much, I don't see that little bit of his character worthy of your love. Think about it for yourself.

If it were, I'd let it go, because I'm a realist, and I feel like people are fickle.

I really want to paraphrase Qiong Yao's words - strong women will never be happy, so don't forget the pressure on yourself, in fact, I am the same as you, I have such a contradiction.

I still can't let it go, so I drag it, but I know in my heart that my heart is already biased towards reality.

Just like you, when you write these things out for help, you already have doubts in your heart about everything that precedes it, don't you?

You need to imagine what kind of life you want. A marriage without affection is painful, and a marriage without bread is also painful. I wish you happiness.

Life is always very tragic.

But be optimistic.

Aren't there people who are worse off than us who can be happy every day?

Hope you understand.

I think you have to consider whether he loves you as much as you love him, a man who really loves you will do everything he has to make you live a life that other women envy, and never play games all day to make you a woman struggle outside, from this it can be seen that he has a very weak sense of responsibility, a person with a weak sense of responsibility can not be entrusted for life even if he loves you very much, otherwise he will regret it in the future.

Contentment and happiness, the days are not necessarily planned to pass again, maybe they have really passed, look back, hey! Not bad!

There are many views on the reality of life, and it is very common that many people do not help each other with a simple purpose, in other words, they will help you if they ask for it, and this is the case, but not everyone is like this. Everyone's reality is normal, who doesn't live for themselves?

Society is the sum of the relationships between living beings and the environment.

Human production, consumption, entertainment, politics, education, etc., all belong to the category of social activities. The social behavior of animals or other living beings also falls under the social category.

Society refers to the organisms that live together in a specific environment, and a structure that is not easy to change that can be maintained for a long time and cannot be separated from each other (society is also used as an adjective with a distorted connotation to describe people who live in a crowd of people, especially gangsters, and is widely used among young people).

What is the reality of life? Life itself is realistic, and when you see a lot of other people's misfortunes and tragedies, you should be self-satisfied.

Let's analyze the specific problems in detail, love life.

Because the vast majority of people except themselves live in reality. Second: Give yourself an excuse for depravity:

Most people complain that society is realistic when they can't do something, but in fact, they haven't made an effort, and no one can stop you if you don't give up yourself. Don't use "society is realistic" as an excuse, there are two sides to everything, some people can learn from failure, and some people will only give up on themselves, thinking that it is not their own reason but that society does not choose themselves. The so-called reality is that society will not give success to people who do not work hard, if you think that those who are born without worrying about food and clothing are also considered successful, I have nothing to say, otherwise the reality of society is fair.

What you get comes from paying, and giving may not be successful but there will be gains. This is the reality of society. Don't always think about complaining, thinking about unfairness, thinking about sadness, thinking about being sad.

Perhaps unlike most people, when I came out of campus, my biggest feeling was not the reality of society, but the absurdity of society.

Cities are like prisons, companies are like prison cells, and countless prisoners are willingly trapped in prisons and cells, surviving humbly for a hopeless and meaningless goal.

Countless people have sold their bodies and souls for a little so-called profit. They don't know that what they pay for value is the most valuable part of themselves.

As I walked down the street and saw the tall buildings that covered the sky and the sun, I couldn't understand why anyone would be willing to give their life to buy a house in such a place.

When I saw the shopping mall full of goods that didn't really mean anything, and groups of people pushing shopping carts and carrying shopping bags, I felt that it was not only the waste pickers who picked up the garbage, but also more people who were willing to pay their money for the garbage, as if then the garbage they bought would become unique and noble.

I sat on the subway and saw a car of people's heads, staring at the screen of their mobile phones, scrolling through WeChat and Weibo, their expressions scattered and frivolous, their eyes empty and dull, as if they were a car of zombies, not living creatures with souls.

All the people are busy, running, but they don't know why they are busy, why they are running.

It's just that they follow the rules, go forward and follow each other, and perish in the surging torrent of the times.

No one realizes that they can jump out, but pulls others into it.

For society, the economy has become the only indicator.

For individuals, making money has become the only business.

How ridiculous, how pathetic.

I finally understood what Leviathan said:

Society is a big machine, and the individual is a small machine.

There is no difference in the essence of the lives of the two.

I just hope that everyone will stay sober, keep their original intentions, and don't lose themselves for the sake of things outside their bodies.

After all, people are not machines, and there are more things worth pursuing.

The reason why people want to live realistically is because we live in a materialistic society and need to meet our survival needs. We need basic material conditions such as food, water, shelter, and health care to sustain life, and these need to be obtained through realistic efforts. In addition, we also have our own dreams and pursuits, but they also require practical actions and efforts to achieve them.

Therefore, only by living realistically can we achieve our goals and realize our values.

I don't care about others, I just like the romance of life, love the people I like, and do what I like!

Why do people have to live so realistically? Because, people live in reality.

The real society should be realistic, and some unrealistic things should not appear in life.

Because life is reality, you can't let yourself live in the fairy tale virtual world you have compiled all the time.

Real life is the real real life, food and clothing are closely related to reality, and the most basic needs of life are inseparable from real life.

Sometimes dreams and beauty are beautiful, but the reality is very cruel, and people still have to live a little more realistic.

Why do people live in reality?

Why do people live in reality If a person lives in a dream world, then everything is hypocritical, people live a life that is not real at all, people also become idle all day long, everything becomes empty talk, it is also nonsense, only say not do, this is really practical, so people must be down-to-earth, step by step, such a road can go long-term, not confused!

Why do people live in reality?

People tend to protect themselves in an inner world with many defensive walls, and refuse to come out to face the real life and the world. In fact, many "creative acts" arise because they want to create an ideal world in their own minds, rather than living in the real world. In addition, some people will always make themselves "very busy", and they don't even have a moment of leisure time, or they will call ** to chat with someone whenever they have time, and a chat is a few hours, in fact, it is a form of "not in the moment".

In other words, it is a form of "escapism".

Living in the moment means having no regrets. Don't make senseless imagination and worry about what will happen in the future, so don't worry about what has happened in the past and don't think meaninglessly about gains and losses, so there are no regrets. One can live in the present moment without regrets, with joy and without being bound by everything that comes from the heart.

1. There is no debt in life, others pay you because others like it; You give to others because you are willing. 2. My body is inhabited by two souls, their host, who is a giant of steel and iron during the day, and a weeping waste in the bed at night. 3. ** is a way of life, very hard, but you have to get used to it, 4, sometimes I feel that I am out of step with this world, and what I have been insisting on is unrecognizable overnight, and I suddenly want to escape from my current life.

5. Remembering a trip to change a person's lifestyle Remembering a person Changing a journey 6. Life is not imaginary, life is a performance of reality. 7. I gradually fell in love with my current life, with no surprises or accidents.

People must always remember: they must not become dolls, and the thread that is densely tied is fame and fortune. Strive to be the owner of a doll made up of fame and fortune.

One must get used to living under pressure and not keep the pressure in one's heart and unable to release it. In fact, there is no need to analyze the things in the world too clearly and see too clearly. The hazy beauty is like the light smoke and the fog, although it blocks people's rational thinking, some irrational, some think about it, some blind, but it teaches people to find happiness from the plain; The ability to challenge survival:

Good at finding answers in reality...Set the right mindset and dare to face reality. Our bottom-up approach is inseparable from reality, and as reality changes, we must adjust our concepts, thoughts, actions, and goals.

It's a must to survive. If a person can see his current situation clearly, his mentality will be much more balanced, and he will be able to look at the world from an objective perspective, understand the world, and adjust his behavior accordingly. We must make a starting point with reality, we can not be like Sun Xingzhi's transformation, out of this real world, somersault into the sky, then we only have the attitude of moving forward, only an attitude of overcoming all difficulties and striving forward......Reality is fundamentally flawed, it must be incomplete, there must be many dissatisfactions, and even there must be many distressing problems, we can neither escape from reality, we cannot escape this kind, we can only try to deal with it;