Does a girl count as a failure like this, does this count as a failure?! I m a girl

It depends on what you mean by the word "failure"!?

In the West, there are many people who do not have savings, they can take out a loan to buy a car, buy a house, that is to say, use tomorrow's money to buy today's enjoyment! But they don't feel frustrated, they don't feel like a failure!

Of course, I'm not asking you to borrow money to buy a car or a house. I mean: everyone has their own way of life, and happiness is the principle!

But the real problem is that in today's impetuous business society and China's unique cultural background, if you don't have enough savings, a suitable job, and a husband you like, you will feel like a failure (or even lose the sense of security of survival)! This is a very common and popular concept! Personally, I am deeply saddened by this!

In my opinion, you are not a failure, it is our unique cultural background and interpersonal atmosphere that make you feel like a failure!

Suggestion: Live, work, improve (if you have the strength, you can change jobs), look for (find a caring and responsible boyfriend), live your own way, calm as water and happy!

Sister, you're normal, you're typical"Petty bourgeoisie"Life. To earn money every month, you only need to eat, drink and dress yourself, and nothing else is to worry about. But, sister, you can't live like this for a long time, because you can't get old alone, suppose, if you have any urgent problems to solve now, what else can you do besides borrowing from family and friends?

Don't do it"Chill Bird"When it was cold at night, I remembered that my nest had not been covered, and when the wind was beautiful during the day, I only thought about playing.

Most girls are like this, at most you are the kind that is not very good at managing money.

If you work, you will be bored after a long time, but it is recommended that you think twice about changing jobs!

It shouldn't be counted, you're only 27, and the days after that are still long, don't worry, take your time, hehe, be optimistic, and start a new point.

Failure can't be measured like this, in many ways, it can't be said at once, at least this woman can support herself.

Take your time, don't worry, just find a husband to watch you! Now the main thing is that no one cares about you, and I am the same now, alas, I feel so bored doing everything, and I am depressed all day long!

It's nothing for a woman to do this, but if a man is like this, it's definitely a failure of failures

As an accountant, you can be self-sufficient, you don't have big goals, you can eat enough, if you are more chic when you are single, what more do you want?

You don't have to worry about a good-looking girl.

Face life with confidence.

The main thing is that it's good to live freely and happily, and money or anything doesn't mean much.

Nothing. Girls? As long as people are beautiful, what else is there to be afraid of?

Hehe, of course, you have to reconfirm, just tell him that he is not poisoned. Since you have the courage to ask, of course, you have to get the answer, do you want to regret it later, and it is normal to ask if it is poisoning, because the current deception is endless, and what he means by asking this is to confirm whether you are confessing to him.

In fact, under normal circumstances, if you refuse, you will be told directly or tactfully, or when you don't see it. Anyway, I won't ask if it's poisoned.

It's like this about poisoning.,I've also encountered such a situation.,A male classmate of mine sent me a message over.,Said he liked me.,And then left a **number.,Attention.,I'm also a man.,I checked that number.,It's a certain voice.**。 Then the classmate often sent such messages. In the end, I told him, you have been poisoned, and you will come back to the Internet after checking.

After he checked and killed, it was gone.

Depending on his character, it may be a tactful refusal, or it may be. If someone posts like this, I think he has the virus, why don't you post it again? It is specifically noted that it is not the virus and then looks at his reaction, in fact, I don't particularly recommend this approach.

I think there is a period of observation, and then ask him more about it, and then make this decision, and send it on the computer, if you send it too closely, if he doesn't like you, maybe the impression will not be very good,

He may have felt that it was sudden, and that the psychology of boys sometimes needs to be buffered.

But the first feeling of his approach is that he doesn't take you seriously, but whether it needs to be proved in the end, you can find something to test her, for example, ask a certain girl (you don't think he will look at it) or his buddy (this person's character is very important) to ask him.

There is indeed a tendency for him to tease you, if you can accept it, the above methods are fine, if you can't face such a start, just find an opportunity to say something bad about him, so that other girls think he is not good, and then he can't think of you, you are taking advantage of the fire. You know, this is not to teach you to cheat, a start is generally an indication of future success or failure, if you want to change the situation, you have to use a strategy, you have to make this thing develop in your favor.

Well, if it were me, even if I liked it, I would say the same.

i'm boy。

Face and your feelings, you see who is important, let go of the face for a while but can win your happiness, this deal is not a loss, you make a lot of money, even if you can't win it, you have nothing to lose, don't take care of that face, that's what you think, outsiders won't think you are missing anything as you think.

I admire the bold pursuit of my love (female) Yes! How could he refuse you! This isn't a kid, if he attacks without a girlfriend, he'll be knocked out by you! Girls like boys confessing to men will be more shy!

He actually likes you, but he deliberately teases you so that you can confess to him again.

I don't think so. Because boys will be very positive when they hear girls say they like it. He just doesn't feel good for you when he says that.

It seems that he has no feelings for you at all.

Forget it, the twisted melon is not sweet, not to mention that I met it on the Internet, it's too fake.

You can try again, maybe it's a simple humor.

I think it's better to forget it.

What does this have to do with computer poisoning?

Don't try again, if he's interested in you, he'll ask you again.

Don't worry, you're still young. If you don't fail, it's not about falling in love. Love is the spice of life. It's important that you have things that you can find your value in.

Girls need to be self-reliant.

Beauty is not as good as God's beauty, and God's beauty is not as good as walking beauty.

It's a good girl, and you'll find a good home.

I'm also a girl, so we can talk about it.

Not an unsuccessful, but incomplete woman.

Frustrated in love, proud in the mall

Suddenly, this is all troublesome, I'm a man, and I'm also very introverted, but I don't think about it deliberately! You won't have to worry about it. Man. Nothing is going to go well, so why bother about it? I haven't been in love in 19 years! ~!

What's the hurry? Your own future and destiny are the most important! ~~

Yikes

It's probably "The Yang family has a woman who grows up, and she is raised in the deep boudoir and is unknown". Don't worry, your Prince Charming is looking for you too! Youth is a relative concept, when someone comes to you, you must also be a stunning beauty who "looks back and smiles at Baimeisheng, and the six palaces have no color", you must know that people are beautiful because of cuteness!

Let's be honest: it's enough of a failure. So you have to let go of yourself.

Your fate hasn't come yet! Don't rush. Appearance is just a person's appearance, and inner beauty is true beauty! Believe in yourself!!

It's okay.

People nowadays are so precocious.

I'm also 18 years old, and I haven't been in love once, and I'm not ugly, so I said at the beginning that I had no experience in love, and my classmates used a pair"You brag about it"They all said I was like a master of love.

Hungry. Collapse.

It's not a failure, but it's better to be cheerful.

Dude, don't after graduating from college, people and girls have already asked you now, which means that people are interested in you, so ah, establish a relationship now, distance is not a problem, no girl will wait for you for four years and then date you. I wish you success!

Hope to be adopted, I'm on a mission too, three grams of oil!

Maybe he's not very interested in you, but he doesn't hate it either, you can chase it, or you may get it, but if it's a distance, it's a different story, and the next step is to chase it, don't get your hopes up.

Try again and take the chance

No, my sister is 21 years old this year, and she hasn't yet, and she plans to talk about it in another year.

Not counted. It can only be said that she is a conservative person.

Failure fart! Women can't live without men!

It is normal for a good girl's love to happen 1-2 years before marriage, but there are exceptions.

It's only 22?

I'm 24 years old, and I still haven't!

More failures! Think of me and you'll be so much better!

This question is exactly what I want to know, whether a 22-year-old boy who doesn't have a girlfriend is a failure, I said to others that others don't believe it, there's nothing to say, I think it's a bit of a failure.

That's it, I'm 24, I'm still a man, I don't have any, you're still a girl, what's the panic.

What's going on in your head?

Overall, it's not a failure! You savor the message she sent again, she said that he slept for a day, of course there was time. It's up to you to perform. Pig.

Sort of, such a girl is probably not interested in you, if she has a little bit of interest in you, she will not hesitate to ask you to ask her out. Haha, brother, you can't keep getting into the horns.

You can take the initiative to go to him and create an unexpected surprise for him.

You idiot! The girl's skin is very thin! Who told you to start not agreeing! You can ask her! Or ask her out! It should work!

Of course not!! It can only be said that you have no fate. The current miss is just for you to meet the real fate.

I don't think so.

According to your logic, all the people you chase are the winners!

You don't need to be a girl to prove whether you are good or not!

You don't need just a girl to recognize you for being excellent!

Just one, understood!

Say something that's rotten, there are too many good girls, keep your eyes open!

It's kind of a life experience. Affection is not the measure of a man.

In a sense, it's okay

But don't be discouraged, sometimes you don't always get paid off.

Maybe there's no fate between you.

There are many good girls.

Count. The most unsuccessful thing is that Ling Yu tries to chase it.

No, as long as you have worked hard to pursue your own happiness, there is nothing to regret.

Sun Yat-sen has been a revolutionary for so many years and has never succeeded, is he a failure?

We have to learn from his character: defeat after defeat, defeat after defeat!!

The revolution has not yet succeeded, comrades still need to work hard!!

Sometimes you don't have to get what you like, and giving up is also a kind of beauty.

As long as you truly love her, you won't ask such a silly question!

Who said you can't catch up, let's find another one later.

Call Stories Inside. Those people succeeded.

But in reality, there are more failures than successes.

You should be considered a success.

At least that girl accepted you!

She's still afraid of hurting you, which means that he has you in his heart?

Try to confess to her loudly, and I'm sure you'll make it! (I support you!!

Same experience as mine. But I've caught up with it now. And super happy. Brother remembers that sometimes you have to be cheeky.

I think if we talk about follow-up, it's a little bit more successful.

But.. He doesn't seem to like you.

Maybe it's just that I'm just being nurtured by that romantic mood.

Uh, euphemistically refused--baby. Keep up the good work. There is still a future.

If you keep chasing, it's not a failure.

Don't answer means that you have hope, she is also very hesitant, she doesn't want to lose your friend but feels that the relationship between the two of you is not to the point where you can be boyfriend and girlfriend, buddy, let's wait for the opportunity, don't confess at this time, you are seven minutes familiar with her only three points hot, this impulsive behavior of boys makes girls feel insecure, making people think that you are just a hot head for a while, at this time you should calm down, don't force her to make decisions, if you are too anxious, girls have to get farther and farther away from you, since you like her, Then respect her choice, and when she begins to be inseparable from you, or a little clingy to you, the ambiguity has reached a certain temperature, and it is almost ==

You are now very confused, you can't figure out what she thinks, and you are thinking: is she testing my sincerity, or is she really rejecting me?

It doesn't matter! You just think this is a challenge on the road of life, don't waver, don't give up! Keep chasing, but I'll warn you here, you have to remember!

I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

You try chasing her again, get to know each other, girls are very soft-hearted, and it's okay to play hooligans with puppets. That's how my best friend got tracked. Of course, the most important thing is whether you really like her and are willing to pay for him, sincerity is the most important thing.

It's a comfort, and it also shows that you can only be friends with each other, she doesn't want to have a stiff relationship with you because of this matter, in fact, it's not bad to be friends, love depends on fate.