How to deal with distorted interpersonal relationships? 5

This kind of person is very insidious, and after a long time, no one will pay attention to him. It's okay if I don't mess with you, I'll get through him if I mess with you. There is no need to be so polite to treat such a person, you will suffer, don't treat him as a friend, it has a relationship with Germany and is too much.

Oh, I know it, and I will calculate it. It's good to pretend that you don't see through when you see through!

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Summary. Hello dear <>

Speak up, especially if you are honest about your inner feelings, feelings, pains, thoughts, and expectations, but definitely not criticizing, blaming, complaining, attacking.

No criticism, no blame, no complaining, no attacking, no preaching Criticizing, blaming, complaining, attacking these are all executioners of communication that will only make things worse.

Mutual respect Only when you give each other respect can you communicate, if the other party does not respect you, you must also ask for the other party's respect appropriately, otherwise it will be difficult to communicate.

Never Say Evil Words Evil words hurt others, which is the so-called "trouble comes from the mouth."

How to get along with people with distorted minds.

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1.Speak up, especially if you are honest about your inner feelings, feelings, pain, thoughts, and expectations, but definitely not criticizing, blaming, complaining, or attacking. 2.

No criticism, no blame, no complaining, no attacking, no preaching Criticism, blame, complain, attack are all executioners of communication that will only make things worse. 3.Mutual respect Only when you give each other respect can you communicate, if the other party does not respect you, you must also ask for the other party's respect appropriately, otherwise it will be difficult to communicate.

4.Never Speak Evil Words Evil words hurt others, which is the so-called "trouble comes from the mouth to the brother."

Hello, the person you mentioned with a distorted mind certainly has his own psychological and spiritual problems. However, you have been entangled in this kind of person's pathological behavior for decades, and it also needs to be adjusted for you, otherwise, it will easily affect your normal life and mental state. Therefore, I suggest that you do not need to think about other people's problems and the kind of questions you are asking, but need to think about seeking professional psychological counseling services in emotional management and control that I provide you, so as to help you reconstruct new beliefs in interpersonal relationships and interpersonal communication, further improve your personality characteristics, and enhance your psychological quality, so as to be more conducive to relieving your argument and getting rid of your current psychological distress as soon as possible.

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Hello, are you talking about your family, or your friends? Is he Qiyou's more radical thinking, or is his speech more negative? If the idea is extreme, then you can ask him what is wrong with Tanzhen, and if it is more negative energy, you can comfort him and enlighten him.

Just treat it with a normal heart. Praise him a lot. I hope I'm here to help you.

Society is like this, there are all kinds of people. Everyone will have people they don't like. But we all need to understand that in order to survive in society, we must deal with interpersonal relationships.

Treat those you don't like as if you don't see or hear them, but don't blame them directly, and don't cut them off completely. Because I was born to be useful, even if you don't like someone you don't like, you will need their help at times. You may have come across situations where you don't like a person and they help you when you need it.

That's when you'll feel a little guilty. Look at life as plain, but don't give up on your ideals.

1. Networking resources are a kind of strategic resources, and there must be a sense of reserve.

2. Even if you look down on someone, respect their position.

3. Kindness but not stupidity, integrity but not pedantic, persistence but not stubbornness.

4. It doesn't matter if you suffer a small loss occasionally, don't worry about everything.

5. Don't form gangs, equidistant communication is the best policy.

6. Sending charcoal in the snow is better than icing on the cake, reaching out and pulling when others are in difficulty.

In interpersonal communication, learning to respect and understand each other is the key, and don't imagine interpersonal communication as a palace fight.

In the face of complex interpersonal communication, we first need a heart that dares to communicate, we can only show the kind of communication side in our hearts, I believe that we will not lack friends. The interaction between people is not as complicated as everyone thinks, but we lack the courage to say hello, and the beginning of friendship starts with a simple greeting. Before that, we need to continue to exercise our expression skills, after all, only communication can enhance the friendship between us, so as to achieve further sublimation of friendship.

In interpersonal communication, only the correct understanding of oneself and others is the first step in communication. It is difficult for everyone to understand themselves from many aspects, so it is often inevitable that they will have some friction in the interaction with others, and the wrong way of communication will make it more difficult for them to recognize new friends.

At the same time, in interpersonal communication, we must also learn to be humble to respect others, only by doing these can we help you better deal with interpersonal relationships. Weave interpersonal communication into a big network, sort out the way of communication, do the necessary work of mutual interaction, and believe that you can better cope with your interpersonal relationships. Believe that you can do well.

I personally don't like complicated relationships. As long as the interpersonal relationships around me are complicated, the method I choose is to escape.

I'd rather stay together by myself than face a lot of people and things that are very complicated, because my mind can't think about it.

Although it is said that a person's success is inseparable from the friends around him, but when there are more and more friends around you, everyone's personality is different, so it is very difficult for you to get along with them between them, and if there are more people, my brain is easy to turn around, I don't know whether they are angry or happy, whether they are joking with you or really disgusted with you.

So I'd rather run away from these people than go back and forth between them, because that would make me very tired, and my emotions would be controlled by too many people, which is the last thing I want. <>

There may be some people who are born with very strong communication skills, and can handle the interpersonal relationships around them very well, and deal with things smoothly, but I may not be able to learn that kind of person, and I can't handle the interpersonal relationships around me well.

Therefore, in the face of lazy cancer patients like us, once we encounter complex interpersonal relationships, it is to escape.

Because a person with strong self-esteem will care about what others think of him, if there are many people, he will definitely be very tired, and every day is very unhappy, all day in depression, after a long time, his heart will also change.

So it's better to make your life simpler, laugh out loud when you're happy, cry out loud when you're sad, don't care about so many people's opinions, don't care about so many people's opinions, and live casually, I think that's the best.

Now what you want to know most is how to get along with the people in the unit, and how to make yourself no longer ignored by everyone, and make this a two-question look.

A ...There is a difference between having a good relationship with your boss and having a good relationship with your colleagues.

First follow the leader's thinking, but you can't take the initiative to get close to some leaders and take the initiative to express some things because there are many leaders in the unit There will be the problem of standing in the wrong team Once you stand wrong, you have to wear small shoes in the future Only do what you should do in the first few months Let everyone see your good work attitude The leader will not think that you have other obvious shortcomings is what you should do now Don't let other colleagues and leaders think that you are a person who is going to form a gang when you start working Wait for the time to almost show yourself, The timing depends on the specific situation of your unit, and it is best if you feel that you will stand up at this time, and there will be no sequelae, and the most important thing is to figure out what the leader likes and dislikes, what the veteran colleagues like and dislike, what colleagues dislike, and you don't say what colleagues discuss, you don't listen to it, and you don't say it, you need to understand that you are a newcomer, and position yourself well, so that you will be very easy to manipulate The leader ignores you, and it is normal for Fu Tong to be strict speaking, he ignores all his subordinates, unless you are very, very likable to him Or you can often get honors for your organization and become an indispensable part of the leadership to pay a lot of attention to you (except for those who have a backstage).

As for the relationship between colleagues, in view of your current situation, it is best to pay attention to understand the example I gave, for example, your colleague at the table bought a book, you don't know whether he put the book there or not, and you don't need to read the book, you go home and look at the content of the book, get a general understanding of the book, and then you can talk to him about the book next time, you can talk about what book you like to read, and then cut to his book, this is an example, you can make an analogy about Xu Qiaotan's many things and things In order to get to the people who feel that they have something in common with you, you have to remember that don't try to make everyone like you all at once, it's unrealistic, you have to take it one step at a time, but no one will always hate you, you communicate with people who have a good impression of you, and the example I gave is that you want to know more about your colleagues' preferences and better integrate into them.

Two. How to stop yourself from being ignored by everyone.

Properly express your own opinions, this is appropriate, it is best to be in your technical field and can affirm it, remember not to interject in the conversation between others, it is best not to disagree with the leader's affirmation or suggestion, of course, it is also possible that you will be valued because of this, but this is less likely, because you have no backing, so you have to have a different attitude towards different people, the kind of person who is powerful, even if you don't like him, you want to get closer, don't look for the same person, then you are finished together, the way to get closer can be like the example I mentioned, so that you get closer It will gradually be accepted by everyone, and it will take a considerable amount of time to sort out, and if you don't understand, you can contact me.

When we have a good childhood, gradually begin to grow up, come into contact with the insidious cunning of society, and complex interpersonal relationships, many times we are always overwhelmed, and even lose ourselves!

In this impetuous age, many flows flow on the surface, and many relationships flow on the shape of the rock or formula. While we are blindly scrambling, we always ignore the best moments of the moment, and we live in imagination instead of living in the present.

For many young people nowadays, they will always say that when they are young, they should fight to the death for their careers, but if the way and original intention are wrong, they don't know how to fail in the end. Do you really understand careers?

In interpersonal relationships, many people do whatever it takes to climb up, bend their will, take advantage of opportunism, but refuse to return to common sense and do things steadfastly, and in the end not only did they not succeed, but also affected a group of people!

Let's go back to the topic, maybe we don't need Kai Zao Zheng to deliberately deal with interpersonal relationships, if it is a worthy friend, you naturally don't need to spend too much effort to please, if it is for the sake of interests, you can temporarily lower yourself, work hard yourself, your light will always be seen!

In the work, we will often encounter all the self-righteous people, who want to win through opportunism, and who are imprisoned by wrong thoughts, just like a ghost who has lost his mind, and for this kind of person, we just need to stay away, do not have too much communication with him, and let him continue to use his way.

Silence is golden, many times in the face of some unreasonable people, silence may be the best choice, Lu Xun once said, "Silence is the highest contempt!" But it's easier said than done, so we have to keep strengthening ourselves, and we have to experience some grievances, but those painful experiences may be transformed into your strength, making you more stable and stronger.

In fact, the author is not a person who is good at so-called communication, and he can't integrate into the hypocritical group, his bottom line and principles have never wavered, and like you, there are joys and disappointments in life, I also can't think about it, those dark times, I think everyone has gone through, but we have to resist, I don't know what will happen tomorrow, but we have to have faith!

Everything is open, and everything is natural.

Communicate between people, don't play too much, people meet: rely on a little fate, get along with people: rely on a sincerity, people love each other: rely on a true heart.

In this great world, the ways and means of dealing with the world are different, in the interaction: some people are kind; Some people are straightforward; Some people are generous; Some people are stingy; Some people are insidious; Some people are treacherous.

Some people are harsh; Some people are very tolerant; Some people are kind and friendly to others; Some people are nitpicky and always feel that others are ......In short, people's philosophies are different, and the way they behave is different, and the results are different.

Through the verification of time, I think it is important to be "open-minded" with others, it means demeanor, mind and temperament. It is a symbol of learning and talent, and it is also a manifestation of knowledge, and being open-minded can make people recognize and understand each other, and it will also make people blame and repent.